First meeting jitters

[Ms. Athena]

Originally Posted by pyramider

I get nervous prior to any session. The first time is the worst. It is even worse when we have been bantering on the board, or texting.

LOL I call it foreplay..............

[Pink Floyd]

Another vote here for always nervous the first time. I just love when the girl puts me at ease fight off the bat, and comes on strong. First of all I am paranoid about LEO with new girls no matter how many reviews I read about them. I am much more at ease when somebody I know has done a review on the girl. That is the case for this weekend.

[1Curiousguy]

Originally Posted by pyramider

I get nervous prior to any session. The first time is the worst. It is even worse when we have been bantering on the board, or texting.

I am the same way. Nervous ALWAYS. And you bring up a good point Pyramider. I have had it happen with a lady that I bantered, joked and flirted so much that I built up expectations that neither of us lived up to and the session was a great disappointment.

Has that happened to anyone else? You're meeting someone new with great reviews, a stellar reputation and you PM, YIM, whatever with her a LOT before hand and have this grand vision in your mind that doesn't match reality?

Dallas I LOVE seeing you and while I am always nervous, you make me feel at ease right away. I am so glad that I got over the intimidation I felt because of your over-the-top reputation.

[pyramider]

I did not say anything about disappointment. WE were both nervous, or excited, as hell. My hands were shaking, she did not need a vibrator that day. In spite of my nervousness I enjoyed our time together. She was remarkably understanding.

[Lovelyelle_01]

Originally Posted by pyramider

I get nervous prior to any session. The first time is the worst. It is even worse when we have been bantering on the board, or texting.

+1
The nervous feeling is always there with a first time meeting. It's pretty easy to overcome, though. Almost every guy that I've seen has lost all feelings of nervousness once I plant the first kiss and my hands start roaming. Once I get a reaction and feel the... muscles relax, I'm naturally inclined to follow suit.

But, I will admit that when I have been going back and forth with someone (board flirting, emails, texts, etc.) leading up to finally seeing one anther, the nervous factor goes to a whole other level. For me, getting the chance to make a connection beforehand puts the "first meeting jitters" in another category than the average requested encounter.

[1Curiousguy]

Originally Posted by pyramider

I did not say anything about disappointment. WE were both nervous, or excited, as hell. My hands were shaking, she did not need a vibrator that day. In spite of my nervousness I enjoyed our time together. She was remarkably understanding.

Did not mean to imply you were disappointed. You just reminded me of a particular encounter that led to my disappointment. And I wondered if anyone else had experienced the "too much build up" syndrome.

I apologize if I did not word my response clearly enough.

[pyramider]

No worries. I was just trying to clarify. I felt like a high school freshman having a date with a senior girl.

I understand the too much build up syndrome. We all have to combat it, hobby or real life.

[Prolongus]

1Curiousguy, I have experienced the "too much build-up" syndrome as well...bet most of us guys have.

I have stopped expecting Jennifer Anniston, Cameron Diaz or Jennifer Lopez.
When I prepare myself that way, the girls come off a lot hotter to me.

[samantha thom]

I am very assertive and outgoing that I don't get nervous meeting new people. Whether it's in the hobby, real life dates, job interview, business meeting, etc.
Regarding the hobby, I get a little nervous if I have taken a break (after a vacation or something). I feel like a virgin again at my first appt after taking a break...even if it's a short break...like a week. :-)

[SneakyCancer]

heck i thought u never get over the butterfly of meeting a new girlfriend. only this time they usually say yes as long as you have ur envelope in hand.

[Guest032414-2]

Always nervous and reserved, doesn't matter if it's the first time or fiftieth time.

[burkalini]

I always use conversation and humor to break the ice. Never really get nervous but I always anticpate a good session. Get dissapointed on occasion but I'm sure the same goes for the provider. We can't match up with everybody.