alpha male needed

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

I have a regular client that is not from this board this has a very specific fetish. He is a cuckold who has an attraction to the BF/ WM combination. His fetish is to see me with a WM while he watches, and also includes tease/denial and humiliation on his end.

He will not be an active participant in our session, neither will he be allowed to speak to you unless YOU say otherwise. There will be a special donation for participating. We have planned this session for Saturday evening, so contact me for screening before then.

The following is a brief, broad description of what a cuckold is, for those who are not familiar:

In contrast to the traditional definition of a cuckold as a married man whose wife cheats on him without his knowledge, a cuckold fetishist is aware of his partner's activity and derives sexual pleasure from it. *This knowledge and tolerance of his partners activities makes the male in such relationships a* wittol, *properly speaking.
But among fetishists the pose of reluctance—the victimization of the cuckold—is a major element of the* kink *so the more familiar word is used. In the fetish cuckolding subculture, the female is typically sexually* dominant, while the male takes on a* submissive *role only becoming involved with her or her partner when she permits it—sometimes remaining altogether celibate.

Other arrangements are certainly possible, however. The desire for the male to enjoy being cuckolded is more related to sexual gratification and less about interpersonal ideals(respect, commisary, between the partners). Sometimes this is part of the their sexual fantasy. because they gain sexual arousal through being humiliated. Other times the husband finds pleasure through that of his wife. In a broader context, the contrast between a cuckold and the additional male participant is sometimes used to summarize an individual's personality or behavior and the variability commonly seen in male libidos: the cuckold or beta male suggesting a lack of masculinity or* alpha male *representing that missing masculinity.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Here is an addendum I made to my original post in Houston ISO:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=100426

From the PMs I have gotten, I think clarification is in order. We won't be swinging from the chandelier (unless that's your thing), or anything else bizarre, like a regular session it's whatever activities you like. He is NOT gay, so it's not like he'll be looking at your ass or something. It's a psychological thing, where we are both dominant, you so more than me, me more than him. His role as an cuckold is one of inadequacy on his part, so he is not allowed to participate, only to see a real man do what he does.

Donation special is half. You must be white, not Latin or any other lighter skin. He is a professional black male, educated. Any kind of substitution will not work.

[Guest050911]

Damn, I should come to Houston....

PPE

[MsPrittiKitti]

ive done such!!
i thought it was great fun!!

[Guest110511]

I'm glad I don't have to go looking for a alpha male to play along with me., My stud is always ready to show off his talent with his longevity..
I don't let to many friends know about him unless they bring up the subject during our date.

[big boi terry]

That particular fetish is not that uncommon. I have been in three sessions where a providers SO or boyfriend wanted to watch me have sex with their partner. I admit at first I felt really odd doing it, the thing that helped me the most was the fact that I had some trust already established with the provider, and they asked my permission instead of just springing this on me. The weirdest thing for me was looking up and seeing these guys actually getting off while watching me and their lady going at it. It's not something that I would want to do on a regular basic, but me being the pervert that I am, was able to see it through LOL!, but I admit, I am a little twisted.

[RickO'shayRabbitt]

Judging from the countless websites concerning the subject of cuckolding I would say this fantasy/fetish is fairly common. Acting it out in real life, however, probably poses several obstacles making it difficult.

I admit I've rented videos in this genre, and they usually come off as total humiliating, cruel, mean, stereotypical sessions toward the cuckold. Now I don't speak for everybody. But to me, a cuckolding couple really is one of the most intimate, trusting, loving relationships around. The cuck gets off on the masochistic sensations his wife provides, but she always lets the hubby know she loves him. In fact, her entry into the hot wife/cuckoldress realm is usually at the behest of her loving cuckold. Consequently, the Bull might turn the wife into a submissive slut, but he does so knowing the real sexual and EMOTIONAL gratification belongs to the loving couple.

The Bull might be getting his, as they say, but the reality he is primarily a prop in the trusting, gratifying relationship of the married couple.

Here endeth the lesson. LOL.