Deposit fees

[vadoda]

Are any of you paying deposit fees, seems kinda sketchy. Personally I refuse to pay anything up front. Thoughts?

[carguy1989]

I have not and will not

[Lampwick]

I did once and was ripped off. My bad. I knew it was a possibility. She advertised on Kik. She talked a good game. Knew the mountains were to the east. I was stupid and curious. I’m only do cash in person.

[Mecca]

Never pay a deposit

[nmnewcomer]

Never have paid a deposit, never will.

[vadoda]

Glad to know I'm not the only one who thinks deposits are complete BS.

[seasonedvet]

Never have, never will!!!Always remember who the consumer is and who needs who!

[Blue Moon Man]

Do not fall for it. Move on. Never.

[WyvernXP]

I have done it twice, both before the pandemic thing
They were both as advertised but one turned into a flake and rob

[Poiupoiu]

The thing is some people are paying these deposits. If everyone would stop they would have to stop asking. Hell even some of the scam ads might go away if they don’t catch a sucker here and there anymore

[Get2thachoppa]

I’ve paid a deposit once but it was with a provider I knew and had seen before. I’d had to cancel our previous couple of appointments last minute because of real world stuff and it was just to demonstrate my bona fides. That said, I wouldn’t pay a deposit to a provider I didn’t know unless (maybe!) she was one of the high-dollar traveling types and had a good reputation. But then, my tastes (and wallet) don’t run in that direction.

[carguy1989]

There are numerous posts on other sites about being ripped off by "reputable" ladies the may or may not have had websites hacked or cloned.

[EOD]

Deposits are ok as long as you get a test drive, receipt, and a money back gaurantee based on how close the provider and service are to the ads…

Lmao.
100% rip off.
The new trend is “I will only see you if you join my OF”
You better be happy with OF, cuz that’s ALL your getting…unless you have prior experience!

[Diego Smith]

No, and won't. I have never paid a deposit, on principle. But my instincts are also that it is a red flag for a very mercenary session -- full GFE with the illusion of the provider having as much fun as I am is important to me...the implication of a deposit -- "Hey, send me $$ so I don't waste my time on you" -- pretty effectively destroys that illusion and indicates a lousy session is coming anyway...that's just a theory, since I've never paid a deposit, but I've been around for a while and...

EOD -- lmao, too. Onlyfans is becoming a red flag for me, also. I have one GREAT SB who uses it, but all the other ones that I have talked to about it have left me cold. I regard it the same way I regard selling pictures...

[joyote]

Originally Posted by WyvernXP

I have done it twice, both before the pandemic thing
They were both as advertised but one turned into a flake and rob

so the one advertised that she will flake & is a rob?