Provider asks for a frank cancelation for more money oppurtunity, being a regular or not would you still see her or prefer she lies?

[gimme_that]

I always wondered about this. I wonder usually how ladies with regulars and steady business usually accommodate for multihours on short notice. Or if it's just easier and more PC to lie a smidge for the greater temporary goal. I was a regular for a few ladies and always wondered how they seemed to always be available for me on short notice.

Answer this two different ways if you can. One as a regular, and the other as a new potential client.

Let's say a lady only had one booking for a day for an hour session by one client. And she was offered the chance to have an overnight or weekend for that same time slot by another client.

If you were the hour session guy, and she told you the truth respectfully that she wanted to make a better business opportunity would you be more upset she had to cancel, or would it have been easier for her to lie to you or just cancel the appointment? Would it matter if you were a newer client or a regular of hers? Both scenarios. Would you try to see her again I think is the bigger question I'm curious of.

I'd be more partial to not worrying about it if she's a regular. Cause by then I'd know she would have the confidence to know I'd be back anyways.

But if I was a new client personally......id be neutral, cause at the end of the day her decision is based on business. I appreciate integrity and tact and wouldn't let a cancelation get to me much.

Ladies is it just more PC to lie or cancel in general to spare I'll feelings and perception? Just curious.

[Boudin3112]

They were available for you because you are so great in bed, lol. They were available because had no other appts. I have had situations both as a regular and as a new potential client. I had a regular lady I saw at 6pm on Tuesday and then 6pm on Thursday following week. We alternated each week for about 6 weeks. On a Thursday at 5pm I get a text asking me to move my appt back to 6:30pm she lied to me about car problems. I said I cannot do that either 6pm or it is a no go. She got upset and told me she thought I could more helpful. Said nope. What she did not know is my friend told me she was seeing him at 5pm so she wanted to move mine back. I think she should have been professional and tell him 4:30 or some other time, my slot was set. Well, never saw her again. Women will push you around if you let them. I don't. My friend only saw herr that one time. She was fun but not going to set appt way in advance to be asked to move it. Life happens and when it does I get it and move things around.
Another lady was young to be my first visit and on Sunday we set a date for Wednesday at 9pm. Wednesday at 4:30pm she sent me a hello text i guess trying to confirm. At 5:30pm i contact her back as i could not get on hobby phone at office at that time. She says at 5:30pm another man, a regular of hers wanted to see her and i did not confirm quick enough. She was honest with me about wanting to earn the dollars but to me very unprofessional in canceling on me. And i was screened and i am reliable never did a NCNS. I told her it was unprofessional and she started calling me names and gay and lots of crap. Never saw her and never will.'
They lie to us every day. One lady claimed she sees one guy a day only. Then she asks in ISOabout a bachelor party and how any guys, lol. She only.does none a day so what does not matter how any guys? We lie to them too, so realize when she texts or says something it is her job to lie.

[Boudin3112]

She only sees one a day, not none.

My answer is, if she is unprofessional, I don't see them anymore, no pussy is that good. But me not seeing them does nothing, so many guys out there with hard dicks, my cash does not make a difference. They can lie, cancel, ncns, treat us like the johns we are because they know we will still see them. Look at Nico, very unreliable and some guys will stop doing her for it but is she hurting for cash, nope. Some guy out there will still pay her to fuck her and she does not care which guy, she is a prostitute.

[Nicolet]

<<<< This Nico is very professional. Thank you!

[radio109]

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

They were available for you because you are so great in bed, lol. They were available because had no other appts. I have had situations both as a regular and as a new potential client. I had a regular lady I saw at 6pm on Tuesday and then 6pm on Thursday following week. We alternated each week for about 6 weeks. On a Thursday at 5pm I get a text asking me to move my appt back to 6:30pm she lied to me about car problems. I said I cannot do that either 6pm or it is a no go. She got upset and told me she thought I could more helpful. Said nope. What she did not know is my friend told me she was seeing him at 5pm so she wanted to move mine back. I think she should have been professional and tell him 4:30 or some other time, my slot was set. Well, never saw her again. Women will push you around if you let them. I don't. My friend only saw herr that one time. She was fun but not going to set appt way in advance to be asked to move it. Life happens and when it does I get it and move things around.
Another lady was young to be my first visit and on Sunday we set a date for Wednesday at 9pm. Wednesday at 4:30pm she sent me a hello text i guess trying to confirm. At 5:30pm i contact her back as i could not get on hobby phone at office at that time. She says at 5:30pm another man, a regular of hers wanted to see her and i did not confirm quick enough. She was honest with me about wanting to earn the dollars but to me very unprofessional in canceling on me. And i was screened and i am reliable never did a NCNS. I told her it was unprofessional and she started calling me names and gay and lots of crap. Never saw her and never will.'
They lie to us every day. One lady claimed she sees one guy a day only. Then she asks in ISOabout a bachelor party and how any guys, lol. She only.does none a day so what does not matter how any guys? We lie to them too, so realize when she texts or says something it is her job to lie.

HA HA congrats Boudin, I haven't got the gay comment yet. I'm sure its just a matter of time.

[myren1900]

Boudin,

I agree that providers most likely will lie to you why they have to change appointments or cancel.Something came up - yes another customer, who was less flexible than you might be it, or her auntie was indeed sick and she had to take care of her. Doesn't really matter IMHO. Just like your plumber, who had a job that took longer time than he anticipated, or got delayed for another reason.

Often, I do not care and see the provider 30 min later as requested, but other times,
if the requested time change is longer, I have cancelled and seen someone else.
No big deal to me. It is a provider/client relationship, nothing more in most cases.

[lakenight]

She cancels your apptment with a made-up excuse. Then later she gets a review about a multi-hr session that had occurred around your apptment time in which her excuse clearly doesn't jibe.

[gimme_that]

So are you guys saying it's more PC to lie to spare feelings? Why do you have feelings about it? Is it easier for her to lie to you? Is it better?

Or truthfully regardless of the situation, is a cancelation of any type the deathblow. I've heard from a few providers about new clients no matter what your reasoning is for canceling whether it be justified or not she won't try again. Wondering if most guys feel the same way . . . . . . or is it even so serious of a thing.

There was an instance I had a few months ago, where a provider said she had two HH appointments one for the afternoon and one for the evening. I was seeking an extended overnight and really needed the afternoon slot up until checkout noon. She was seeing regulars and told me she could not cancel. I said no biggie and appreciated her being loyal to her clients. Although I was trying my best to persuade her she should take a chance and see me.

Well a few hours later.........when I decided my night and day for fun wouldn't be an option with anyone else so I stayed home. I got a call later that afternoon saying both guys had canceled and she was now free to see. She offered me the overnight but I wasn't interested at the time and given the time she called me there was no benefit for the time I had left or the rate. I wanted to see her but I caught feelings on the fact I couldn't see her before. I implored her and pleaded my case prior to her rejection......so the truth really in this case didn't set her free.

Now there was another provider I was trying to see who had the same issue. She had two appointments that day and I was wanting an overnight. She said she would find a way to cancel on the guys if I was definitely sure. I gotta admit, the priviledge of knowing she made crucial calls and broken promises just to fuck me all night turned me on. So her lie was to my benefit. And I didn't mind. Yeah I'm a bit demented like that. I'm sure a few of you have made similarly decisions like this.

I've personally haven't done this........but you ever book an appointment in advance with a local lady you want to see.......but then you notice an ad for someone in a touring city who's had that limited time only vagina that you wanna see now. Or maybe your favorite girl comes to town via a "heads up text" and says are you free. Are you gonna lie or tell the truth? What would make you feel better. What decision makes the sex wetter lol.

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by lakenight

She cancels your apptment with a made-up excuse. Then later she gets a review about a multi-hr session that had occurred around your apptment time in which her excuse clearly doesn't jibe.

It could always be agreed to write the review slightly later or not at all from the date yall saw each other. I'll be the downlow sidedude when it benefits me............lol maybe.

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

no pussy is that good. But me not seeing them does nothing, so many guys out there with hard dicks, my cash does not make a difference. They can lie, cancel, ncns, treat us like the johns we are because they know we will still see them.

If they pussy is in fact that damn good or their head game..........i can definitely deal with a little lie. But sometimes brutal honesty is a good negotiation point on both sides.

[pornodave69]

Ideally it would be great if she honored her original obligation and kept your appointment, but you can't blame her for trying to make some extra money when the situation presents itself, especially if the new opportunity is a one time deal like an out of town client. However, a few extra dollars now may result in the loss of future income from the client she blew off.

Regardless of whether or not it's okay with you for her to cancel, she'll probably do it anyway. If it is okay with you to reschedule, either a discounted session or some extra time would be a nice way to thank you for doing so.

[Boudin3112]

I don't care about the lies, I care about professionalism. I have gone to great lengths to set a time and I expect that time to be met. Need4discreet drove an hour, I arrange my schedule for that time and then a few hours before she cancels on me to fuck another client, just too dmaned unreliable and too unprofessional for me to ever set up with her again. She not out any money, there are plenty of hard dicks out there.

[gimme_that]

Responses make sense this far.

[Katymarie]

And that's why, a real professional GFE will only see 1 client a day.

No issues, no problems........

[lisa.lisa0302]

Depends on the provider.

I do not cancel on clients for a bigger meal ticket....

Can't tell you how many providers would cancel....I always laugh my ass off when the higher paying client cancels on their ass. And they are left hoping the lower paying client is still available. It's hilarious...

So anyway, why was she available for you short notice....rolls eyes..do you need a hug, or ego stroke.

You know Damn well her ass did not have any appts..., And ching ching...money (that would be you) rang....