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Old 01-16-2018, 10:24 AM   #1
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Default Ladies how do you deal with

How do you deal with guys that have attitudes and are cocky ,rude and think that you should feel blessed by their presence .

I mean the never wrong type with no conscious .

As a guy i see it all the time .

Some ladies have it also but carry and deliver it a different way .

During biz hours at work -(which is construction related )-if i have to deal with someone i know is going to act that way I just charge them double

If they think their royalty they should dam well pay like it are it is not worth putting up with them .

What say you ?
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Old 01-16-2018, 11:40 AM   #2
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If I was to get a visit from someone who's persona was cocky, rude, self-absorbed, etc., and it bothered me that much, I'd end the visit.

I'd let him know that our personalities do not mix well and if in the future he can tone it down, we can try again, but if not, good riddance.

Most times, I can get a certain type of vibe when initial contact is made through message. If he sounds cocky or rude, I don't even reply.

Luckily, I've had very respectful, kind, and approachable visitors during my hobby time.
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Old 01-16-2018, 01:19 PM   #3
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Most times, I can get a certain type of vibe when initial contact is made through message. If he sounds cocky or rude, I don't even reply.
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Old 01-16-2018, 04:24 PM   #4
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Most times, I can get a certain type of vibe when initial contact is made through message. If he sounds cocky or rude, I don't even reply.
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I pre-screen for compatibility as well as safety. As in, I engage potential clients in conversation (usually via email) just to see if we seem to be on the same page, and then meet for a cocktail or something before hand to break the ice and confirm that we will get along. If, at any point along the way things go south, I respectfully decline the meeting and occasionally even recommend a different lady if I happen to know someone who I think will click with them better.
This works for me because I see so few people. I can see how it would be an obstacle for someone who is high or even medium volume... so, take my two cents with a grain of salt, lol.
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Old 01-16-2018, 06:03 PM   #5
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Posting taint photos can eliminate the rude and cocky.
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Old 01-17-2018, 06:03 AM   #6
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Default No problem at all...

Chicks dig me!!
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Old 01-18-2018, 12:44 PM   #7
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I don’t have a problem with confidence. When I see or meet a confident woman I thinks it’s sexy and turn on. Arrogance is a different thing all together. I’ve met providers where I could tell they were arrogant just put the money down told them I didn’t think it would work out. I’m sure I have come across wrong also. Just part of the people business
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Old 01-18-2018, 01:32 PM   #8
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I know a couple gals that easily have aholes figured out during initial contact.

How do I know?

Helped both gals pick up broken pieces of cell phone cause both smashed them trying to break the aholes eardrum.

One against a doorframe.
Other against a brick fireplace mantle.

Both had spare ready to use workphones.
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Old 01-18-2018, 01:55 PM   #9
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I hate that type but everybody has their own personality it's been said that I'm rude and I would disagree and say that I'm cautious. LOL if they think they're royalty charge them double I love it. I know a few cocky guys that think I should be honored ultimately they're harmless so I go about my business but rude is never acceptable and I won't waste my time with anybody like that not for any dollar amount will I be disrespected.
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I would tell them "bend over,Ill drive"...lol

peersonally I dont like alpha males so I would just be sure and stay in charge!
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Old 01-19-2018, 02:03 PM   #11
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I can never be rude to any of these ladies. If I ever say something cocky the best way to shut me up is to straddle my face.
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Old 01-19-2018, 02:18 PM   #12
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Awww bikerjoe.. I would so ride your face
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Old 01-20-2018, 12:26 PM   #13
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I can definitely feel out someone's personality when they first contact me. Thankfully I haven't ever seen anyone who was rude, or cocky, or arrogant. I like to think the more serious men are also much more respectful and kind.
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Old 01-21-2018, 12:10 PM   #14
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if i have to deal with someone i know is going to act that way I just charge them double
This is what the brothel girls do. They'll give up the goods, but they'll charge the guy an asshole tax.
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I've been really fortunate to weed those types out, when I have a phone conversation before meeting.
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