pleasuring yourself to your favorite providers showcase

[petiteassman]

[or thereabouts] woman who advertizes on a sex board so guys would spend mortgage money to have sex with you. you dress up in cheerleader outfits and post provacative pictures for strange men to look at and get turned on enough to ignore your holier than thou attitude to spend ther money to bang you. yet you should be surprised or disgusted that someone of our mindset and fabric might decorate the computer screen from your pics stuff the money back in our pockets and go back to work. face it we are all a little fucked up from those of us spending time and money for sex with strangers to those of us renting our private parts to folks we have never met for cash so please don't feign disgust. if it wasn't for people like us you would be working for 10 bucks an hour doing things that you think is beneath you. you should be happy that what is beneath you is guys like us with throbbing erections allowing you to enjoy things in life that girls not as screwed up could never dream of

Originally Posted by London Rayne

I am putting up pics of my travels to Mexico, NYC, and Paris...jack off to that lol.

[petiteassman]

sensible response pf the thread.

Originally Posted by heidilynnla

Let's be real. Guys are going to jerk off regardless. Hobbyists will jerk off and it won't effect the number of visits they make to providers, they just jerk off in between visits. If I am the object of your ejaculation, I will take it as a compliment. Just don't expect me to talk you through it for free! lol

[Naomi4u]

Petiteassman, Let's not throw insults around. I mean what good does that do.
I'll tell you this though, a lot of ladies will read this thread and roll their eyes. They are not flattered that you jerk off to their pictures. They are looking at you as a cheap ass. The showcases are not there for that purpose. You see number with dollar signs on the showcases because they are hoping you'd see their pictures and be moved enough to book an ACTUAL date so I do understand how some could be a bit upset that you're cumming off their pics for free LOL!

Me? I don't mind. It's no big deal. I'm used to guys looking at my pictures and booking a date than just jerking off to them. However, yes I have had guys tell me they jerked off to my pics. Didn't bother me too much. I just thought it was a bit weird as I can't masturbate to clothed pics but porn.

[petiteassman]

just honest. like the old joke says 10 percent of men admit they masturbate in the shower, the other 90 percent lie. i am here because women arouse me. i readilly admit i hobby only 8-12 times a year for various reasons finances amongst them but other reasons as well. looking at the pics turns me on. if its a woman from my area and i jack it chances are good i will book an appointment. i will probably jack it in anticipation of our appointment and if appointment is great in remembrance for months or years to come. if it is a woman from far away that i probably will never have pleasure of meeting i will entertain myself thinking what it would be like. these women are within my circle and it is possible 1 day to have sex with them. i never check out mainstream porn or celebrity nudes as theres no chance in hell of meeting those women.

lets take yourself in a hypothetical for an instance. if you were a woman in my locale and i was interested in seeing you chances are great its because i found you physically attractive. if i am the kinda guy willing to give you, a perfect stranger money to have sex with is it a reach that your pictures turn me on. as most of you women pre screen pre book i am probably not banging you 30 minutes after i book you, its probably days or weeks away. knowing that soon i will be fucking, sucking, hugging, carressing is it a stretch that these thoughts are running through my mind day and night and may need a release.

now lets say i meet you find you even hotter than your pics and in exchange for my donation you rock my world with sex i have never before experienced. is it a stretch to think that everytime i see your pic read your posts i won't replay our time together in my mind and get totaly aroused. i gotta think if that did not happen i would never rebook.

this hobby is about arousal, fantasy stimulation, fetishes, misdeeds, breaking bending reinventing rules. men risk family, jobs, arrest, disease to enjoy these pleasures women risk arrest, disease, pregnancy, family to enjoy the financial fruits of this business. to fathom that guys do not have these thought and feelings based on the sexual nature of this hobby would be ridiculous.

as for the purpose of the pics thats your purpose not necessarily mine. you guys get to post free pics and descriptions in order to try to attract us to book. a certain percentage will do just that and that is your payoff. others will just go to the showcases admire the visual stimulation and that is it. others still will enjoy the pics and whack off. it is much like the free samples at the grocery store. if a hundred people try the free crackers 3 people buy them and the sales and repeat business hopefully more than pay for the giveaways. of the 97 that do not buy you hope that when some of these folks who now do need crackers will remember your generosity, quality, and price and later become a customer. if 90 people never buy or recommend your product so be it you are pleased to have 10 new customers.

if those types of results are not ok with you do not take the free showcase simply direct your customers to a pay site where those that are interested enough to pay 9.99 [ or whatever you deem proper] month to view / whack off too / or daydream about and no one will be getting a free ride. it really is your choice.

remember we wanna bang you based on your pics and posts and reviews. if you arouse us enough to book do not be surprised if we are also called to other actions. i gotta think the odds of some older sp in a cheerleader outfit with a bad attitude towards the very men that allow her to enjoy the good life causiing said guys to rub one out isn't very good anyways.

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Petiteassman, Let's not throw insults around. I mean what good does that do.
I'll tell you this though, a lot of ladies will read this thread and roll their eyes. They are not flattered that you jerk off to their pictures. They are looking at you as a cheap ass. The showcases are not there for that purpose. You see number with dollar signs on the showcases because they are hoping you'd see their pictures and be moved enough to book an ACTUAL date so I do understand how some could be a bit upset that you're cumming off their pics for free LOL!

Me? I don't mind. It's no big deal. I'm used to guys looking at my pictures and booking a date than just jerking off to them. However, yes I have had guys tell me they jerked off to my pics. Didn't bother me too much. I just thought it was a bit weird as I can't masturbate to clothed pics but porn.

[Fancyinheels]

Petiteassman is right about the importance of visual images and the concept of advertising with "free samples." If guys didn't have something tantalizing to look at for free to draw them in, and if they didn't like the photos enough to get at least a wee bit excited, they wouldn't be coming to see us.

Heck, I'll be 52 in a couple of weeks, so it's quite a kick to know that there are guys out there getting their guns cocked and pulling the trigger at my weathered target. But since I like both my ego and my skin caressed (and need to pay for all that skincare cream and lingerie), yes, I'd prefer them to come visit me, too, for intimate target practice. Lock, load, and fire!

I don't think London was being rude, just facetious. (What, we ladies can't have a tart sense of humor? Don't come see this tart, then.) I do take issue with Petite's response that, "...if it wasn't for people like us you would be working for 10 bucks an hour doing things that you think is beneath you. you should be happy that what is beneath you is guys like us with throbbing erections allowing you to enjoy things in life that girls not as screwed up could never dream of." Some of us obviously DID dream of the better things in life, and found ways to make them happen while enjoying the ride - literally.

There still seems to be this concept that most providers are "screwed up" instead of just screwed. That isn't true of the ones I'm familiar with. They are creative, artistic, intelligent women who wouldn't be working for 10 bucks an hour even if they did go back to a mainstream job. They are also more adventurous, open-minded, sexually aware, and WAY more tolerant of physical and mental imperfections than the average woman or most guys, or they wouldn't be able to see and please men of every race, shape, and personality. That's probably one of the reasons that there aren't more straight male escorts. How many guys could take having sex and appearing to enjoy it with females of all sizes (so-boney-I'm-afraid-she'll-shatter-when-she-shudders to send-help-I'm-being-buried-alive-obese), ages (could-be-my-daughter-18 to OMG-I-can't-find-her-twat-in-all-the-wrinkles-88), colors (financially stifling to create a solid client base if limiting the brush to one tint of the paint palette), and degrees of shyness or bitchiness that they would see as unattractive turn-offs in their personal life?

There are crazy chicks in every career field, so please don't stereotype them as all being here.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by petiteassman

remember we wanna bang you based on your pics and posts and reviews. if you arouse us enough to book do not be surprised if we are also called to other actions. i gotta think the odds of some older sp in a cheerleader outfit with a bad attitude towards the very men that allow her to enjoy the good life causiing said guys to rub one out isn't very good anyways.

I understand that.
My point was that there are a lot of ladies that would view you as a cheap ass by jerking off to their showcases on eccie. My point is that there are some here that would roll your eyes at you doing that. I know what showcases, pictures, ad texts are for. I am just telling you that London made the comment she made for a reason and she's not the only one that feels that way.

I think this guy summed it up.

Originally Posted by pickupkid

don't be a cheapskate get real thing

Whatever floats your boat though.

[Laz]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

My point was that there are a lot of ladies that would view you as a cheap ass by jerking off to their showcases on eccie. My point is that there are some here that would roll your eyes at you doing that.

Considering the photos are intended to sexually entice and the providers know better than anyone this is about sexual arousal, I do not understand the eye rolling. What do they expect? Not many people are rich enough to see a provider every time they get horny. A lot of the criticism is that the showcases are not stimulating enough to be adequate for masturbation, I would agree but if it is for someone else so what. However, there are some women that are so beautiful (Shayla) and are able to show their face where I could see that occuring. If I am considered a cheap ass for masturbating between visits they can feel free to let me see someone else.

If you ignore the insults between petite and London I think petite is more accurate on this.

[petiteassman]

from my reviews i am not a look only guy. i see several ladies during the course of the year i review in as honest manner i can and i enjoy the visuals of many ladies i have seen , would like to see or realize i will never see. i just take offense to the thought that its not ok to enjoy the visuals for the sake of enjoying them yet its ok for the women to post free pics and then get pissed if folks enjoy them and do not ever book. if you take the most active hobbiest in terms of women seen and dollars spent chances are he is one of the horniest or at least most appreciative of women on the board. many men probably stimulate him and he is most apt to act upon his urges with actual booking. that being said as most of us do the majority of our hobbying within 100 miles of our home and while many women tour it is still likely many women will never come within 100 miles of our location its likely that even the most active of gents will be tittilated by women he will probably never meet. is this guy a cheapskate or looking for a freebie if he enjoys a showcase thinking what it would be like.

the best example i can give is sonya playmate from san antonio. everything about this woman drives me crazy. her looks, her pics her reviews her persona. there is no woman in the world i would rather have sex with. if she came within 300 miles of buffalo i would be there and spend several hours in her company. that being said i will not risk family to fly to san antonio to make my dream come true so if that makes me a cheapskate or a freeloader so be it but i promise you my money will be spent on women like sonya, dallas rain and others that understand the mindset of us guys our wants and desires and those of who understand we are nice guys with strong sexual urges desires and needs and not simply atms [automatic telller machines not ass to mouth].

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I understand that.
My point was that there are a lot of ladies that would view you as a cheap ass by jerking off to their showcases on eccie. My point is that there are some here that would roll your eyes at you doing that. I know what showcases, pictures, ad texts are for. I am just telling you that London made the comment she made for a reason and she's not the only one that feels that way.

I think this guy summed it up.




Whatever floats your boat though.

[buzzworm86]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Petiteassman, Let's not throw insults around. I mean what good does that do.
I'll tell you this though, a lot of ladies will read this thread and roll their eyes. They are not flattered that you jerk off to their pictures. They are looking at you as a cheap ass. The showcases are not there for that purpose. You see number with dollar signs on the showcases because they are hoping you'd see their pictures and be moved enough to book an ACTUAL date so I do understand how some could be a bit upset that you're cumming off their pics for free LOL!

Me? I don't mind. It's no big deal. I'm used to guys looking at my pictures and booking a date than just jerking off to them. However, yes I have had guys tell me they jerked off to my pics. Didn't bother me too much. I just thought it was a bit weird as I can't masturbate to clothed pics but porn.

Naomi, I think most of the guys understand the reason for the showcases and rates posted, What I personally don't understand are the back handed insults to the guys. Gee, what a surprise that men masturbate to any erotic fodder they find. If the guys were to use your same logic, they would complain about the Eccie women who use a vibrator and a romance novel or porn to get off with, rather than calling a long time loyal customer and saying "lets have you come over and we'll wank together, no touch, no charge."

A guy also knows what a naked woman looks like, clothes on or not, and it is your choice to dispaly the pics.

[buzzworm86]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I understand that.
My point was that there are a lot of ladies that would view you as a cheap ass by jerking off to their showcases on eccie. My point is that there are some here that would roll your eyes at you doing that. I know what showcases, pictures, ad texts are for. I am just telling you that London made the comment she made for a reason and she's not the only one that feels that way.

I think this guy summed it up.




Whatever floats your boat though.

Is the guy a cheapskate if he picks up a girl and a bar and fucks her rather than calling you. That comment is absurd.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by buzzworm86

Naomi, I think most of the guys understand the reason for the showcases and rates posted, What I personally don't understand are the back handed insults to the guys. Gee, what a surprise that men masturbate to any erotic fodder they find. If the guys were to use your same logic, they would complain about the Eccie women who use a vibrator and a romance novel or porn to get off with, rather than calling a long time loyal customer and saying "lets have you come over and we'll wank together, no touch, no charge."

A guy also knows what a naked woman looks like, clothes on or not, and it is your choice to dispaly the pics.

I didn't insult anyone. If you actually scroll up and read, I said a guy jerking off to my pics does not bother me. However, it could offend some and I could understand why. That was what I said. I don't know what else you are talking about.

Imagine you're a provider and you haven't made any money in two weeks and a guy calls or writes you to say "I just jerked off to yours pics mmmmmm mmmm mmmm. How would you feel?" You have to learn how to look at things from both ends.

Originally Posted by buzzworm86

Is the guy a cheapskate if he picks up a girl and a bar and fucks her rather than calling you. That comment is absurd.

That's why this world is so beautiful. We all are unique in our own way and ....... have the right to our own opinions.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by buzzworm86

.... what a surprise that men masturbate to any erotic fodder they find. If the guys were to use your same logic, they would complain about the Eccie women who use a vibrator and a romance novel or porn to get off with, rather than calling a long time loyal customer and saying "lets have you come over and we'll wank together, no touch, no charge..."

Dang, I suppose I shouldn't be telling anyone that I get out the D-cell vibe and a 12-pack of batteries when watching Alex O'Loughlin on "Hawaii 5-0?" No charge for any gentleman who'll take me back to Oahu. They can wax their surfboard to Grace Park's "Kono" character and we can have a volcanic eruption together, then sip Mai Tais on Waikiki Beach and discuss our other tidal fantasies.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by petiteassman

[or thereabouts] woman who advertizes on a sex board so guys would spend mortgage money to have sex with you. you dress up in cheerleader outfits and post provacative pictures for strange men to look at and get turned on enough to ignore your holier than thou attitude to spend ther money to bang you. yet you should be surprised or disgusted that someone of our mindset and fabric might decorate the computer screen from your pics stuff the money back in our pockets and go back to work. face it we are all a little fucked up from those of us spending time and money for sex with strangers to those of us renting our private parts to folks we have never met for cash so please don't feign disgust. if it wasn't for people like us you would be working for 10 bucks an hour doing things that you think is beneath you. you should be happy that what is beneath you is guys like us with throbbing erections allowing you to enjoy things in life that girls not as screwed up could never dream of

Go wash your hands dude lol. I am not surprised or shocked really...just find it funny that you were the one who posted this crap, being most men here just up the money to see said lady. The fact that you got all of that from my one sentence post, is hilarious and I said no such things. It's obvious you must think that about yourself though, because no one else here called you disgusting or desperate.

I have an MBA so I would never have to work for 10 bucks an hour, and you're wrong...guys like YOU don't support my lifestyle in any way. Don't flatter yourself. We have already established that you're a bottom feeder. And for pete's sake, can you use spaces and punctuation so the reader can actually get through one of your tirades? Thanks.

Oh, and stop stalking providers you have never met...they are getting tired of your constant PMs and emails hah hah. There are alerts about you ALL OVER THE PLACE from Austin ladies....funny ones too. Check Mate.

[Laz]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Imagine you're a provider and you haven't made any money in two weeks and a guy calls or writes you to say "I just jerked off to yours pics mmmmmm mmmm mmmm. How would you feel?" You have to learn how to look at things from both ends.

If he is making an appointment then she should think mission accomplished. If not then he is being a jackass for calling her but not for masturbating.

You may not have intended to be insulting but refering to guys as being cheap just for masturbating to the pictures was insulting.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Petiteassman is right about the importance of visual images and the concept of advertising with "free samples." If guys didn't have something tantalizing to look at for free to draw them in, and if they didn't like the photos enough to get at least a wee bit excited, they wouldn't be coming to see us.

Heck, I'll be 52 in a couple of weeks, so it's quite a kick to know that there are guys out there getting their guns cocked and pulling the trigger at my weathered target. But since I like both my ego and my skin caressed (and need to pay for all that skincare cream and lingerie), yes, I'd prefer them to come visit me, too, for intimate target practice. Lock, load, and fire!

I don't think London was being rude, just facetious. (What, we ladies can't have a tart sense of humor? Don't come see this tart, then.) I do take issue with Petite's response that, "...if it wasn't for people like us you would be working for 10 bucks an hour doing things that you think is beneath you. you should be happy that what is beneath you is guys like us with throbbing erections allowing you to enjoy things in life that girls not as screwed up could never dream of." Some of us obviously DID dream of the better things in life, and found ways to make them happen while enjoying the ride - literally.

There still seems to be this concept that most providers are "screwed up" instead of just screwed. That isn't true of the ones I'm familiar with. They are creative, artistic, intelligent women who wouldn't be working for 10 bucks an hour even if they did go back to a mainstream job. They are also more adventurous, open-minded, sexually aware, and WAY more tolerant of physical and mental imperfections than the average woman or most guys, or they wouldn't be able to see and please men of every race, shape, and personality. That's probably one of the reasons that there aren't more straight male escorts. How many guys could take having sex and appearing to enjoy it with females of all sizes (so-boney-I'm-afraid-she'll-shatter-when-she-shudders to send-help-I'm-being-buried-alive-obese), ages (could-be-my-daughter-18 to OMG-I-can't-find-her-twat-in-all-the-wrinkles-88), colors (financially stifling to create a solid client base if limiting the brush to one tint of the paint palette), and degrees of shyness or bitchiness that they would see as unattractive turn-offs in their personal life?

There are crazy chicks in every career field, so please don't stereotype them as all being here.

Well said. Nothing in my original post suggested the guy was a wack job ( pun intended ) lol.

Thanks for saying what I could not so eloquently.