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kusmaldo · 05-21-2013, 01:05 PM

@john deere idk how john luc-piccard will help me here but thanks,i keeping the dime piece name anonymos as to help with identity purposes.i need jordi or data or even commander stryker.worsed comes to worse she goes brogue and puts no AA or Black men.

Glynette · 05-21-2013, 01:18 PM

It's Riker.... Know your role, or slow your roll n00b

Ladies on BP aren't looking for dinner dates. Why spend an evening with you when she can X amount of guys in the same amount of time?

I'm sure your plans for the dime of your dreams is as sincere as you are naive, however too many have used promises of fancy dinners, hotels, trips, etc. to trick, (or worse) ladies of the hobby. You need references and credibility to justify constant (annoying) contact. If she's reputable and well reviewed, don't you think she would want the same from a you?

I'd bet her initial reply to your first inquiry was most likely a polite attempt to not discourage your future business when she did manage to return for a visit. It's NEVER OK to contact a lady everyday, you come off as obsessive and no one wants to meet someone who starts out being too persistent, imagine what someone like that would be AFTER??? When she didn't reply, that was your cue to stop. (That's for future reference as I'm sure you'll run across another that strikes your fancy)

kusmaldo · 05-21-2013, 01:34 PM

@glynette Riker right my knowledge is too rusty,second i'm not obbsessive and I told her I would contact her daily as asign of my commitment to the date.I stated in my first email i would do so.
After llike number 12 I said stop.I sincerely apologized and stated it was never my intention to freak her out or make her feel uncomfortable.after than she replied angrily.You must understand in my emails i was only trying to organize a dinner date. Okay yeah sure dinner but ESCORTS i've used before i've taken to Disneyworld,Shopping,LA City tours Dinner,and paid top dollar for this.

Yeah i know the majority of cash is made from erotica,but I choose myself to be ESCORTED in the truest sense of the word. Just wait I'll get a date with this particular dime and you'll see in the review
that this fiasco was able to be fixed Naive i'am a jerk i'm not.

SneakyCancer · 05-21-2013, 01:36 PM

time to find another.....skip dinner....go for dessert. then back track and see if she wants dinner

Namssa · 05-21-2013, 01:37 PM

Nothing says I love you like multiple emails.

kusmaldo · 05-21-2013, 01:50 PM

@cum1more I don't want to find another,i have my mind made up only way i'll
stop is when i try to set up an appointment and she refuses or says no than I''ll
call it a day.
@namessa hey arn't you on my side.UGGGGGH for the 27th time I was trying to organize a dinner date.

kusmaldo · 05-21-2013, 01:54 PM

@cum1more I'm confident I can get my dinner date
I have references you know..............and a 2005 Mercedes Benz 300E

Glynette · 05-21-2013, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by kusmaldo

I told her I would contact her daily as asign of my commitment to the date.I stated in my first email i would do so. did you ask if that was ok or just decided and acted on your own? If it's the latter, you're seen as pushy and obsessive. I'm not saying that you are but there is limited information about a person's personality to be gleaned in text. You have to be mindful of how you are perceived, no matter what. I cannot stress that enough it constant contact is your MO.
After llike number 12 I said stop. 12? so an email a day over 12 days??? I sincerely apologized and stated it was never my intention to freak her out or make her feel uncomfortable.after than she replied angrily.You must understand in my emails i was only trying to organize a dinner date. Okay yeah sure dinner but ESCORTS i've used before i've taken to Disneyworld,Shopping,LA City tours Dinner,and paid top dollar for this. Great. Spend top dollar and get registered to a national screening site like p411 so you'll be taken seriously. As I stated before, the whole "I just need an escort to (insert fabulous experience here) is used for unscrupulous means. I applaud your sincerity, but how can anyone discern that from a random contact from backpage?

Yeah i know the majority of cash is made from erotica,but I choose myself to be ESCORTED I completely understand that and have done it myself, but with gentleman I have history with or reputable. Just as gentleman share info, ladies do as well. if you are that eager to simply have paid arm candy, try searching a site called what's your price to find other dimes looking to auction off first dates. Or entertain having a sugar. in the truest sense of the word. Just wait I'll get a date with this particular dime and you'll see in the review
that this fiasco was able to be fixed Naive i'am a jerk i'm not.

fyi: her angry, all caps, after not replying to 12 emails = "No Thank You"

it's pretty safe to call it a day sir.

jbravo_123 · 05-21-2013, 02:02 PM

Did she respond to your apology email? If she didn't, you may need to think of a better way to make sure she understands how you feel.

JohnnyYanks · 05-21-2013, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Glynette

...it's pretty safe to call it a day sir.

The lovely Glynette has not been paying close attention: the OP hasn't an ounce of Quit in his body. He is merely re-grouping.

proudoftexas · 05-21-2013, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by kusmaldo

@cum1more I'm confident I can get my dinner date
I have references you know..............and a 2005 Mercedes Benz 300E

Ok, now I want to fuck you.

Or just go out on a dinner date, at least.

You, sir, are a high roller.

Glynette · 05-21-2013, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

The lovely Glynette has not been paying close attention: the OP hasn't an ounce of Quit in his body. He is merely re-grouping.

jbravo_123 · 05-21-2013, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Glynette

y u gotta b such a h8r gurl?!!

Glynette · 05-21-2013, 02:50 PM

Not hating, thread needed a funny cat. It was between that and:

kusmaldo · 05-21-2013, 02:52 PM

@glynette okay so you're saying all girls on the BP are only good for thing right? they are women also and deserve the same respect you know. she was angry give her time to cool down. i'm making a methodical and approaching move here.seems like your against making this happen.
I'm on ECCIE with refrences and its not a joke..

@jbravo jay I'm going to have my chance at this but it has to be smooth calm and collected.
I'd tell you more but for now its hush,hush mum is the word.

@johnnyyanks finally someone agrees with me,quit only when I try to make an
appointment and she refuses to see me.

@proudoftexas no just dinner date, sex without meaning is pointless.