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Originally Posted by myren1900
It is quite acceptable that traveling providers may be asking for deposits........ For local providers I see little reason to ask for deposits although I am not sure how many guys are no shows.
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I agree with local providers not really needing a deposit. I mean your right here. But if you really wanna see a lady a deposit of 50 or less shouldn’t be an overt concern if she has the reputation to demand it. I wouldn’t care. But Im sure to hourly, half hour, and quickies bookers that’s a bit considerable.
It’s like asking a provider for kitty, titty, or ass pictures first before showing up. Same concept. He may like it. Or may see something he does not. we aren’t asking them to bare all and take the risk of us not showing up. With possibility of no return. Cash does that. But I’m sure they don’t consider that the same. Cause it’s a risk........although your about to get all of that risk anyways.........
Just curious on your opinion for a traveling provider using a 1000 or 2000 dollar overnight rate as an example.......
What would you assume a traveling lady needs other than the paid plane ticket paid in full to facilitate coming to another state. What percentage or rate of money paid beforehand in deposit with a flight?
I had ladies tour to me who required no deposit. Just interest. But since I book overnights there far less chance I will cancel. But when they come I want my preferred booking day and time. Not gonna settle for the tours leftovers. Especially if I paid for a flight. They have fans in multiple cities. That’s why you see so moving regularly. Guys who will always try to book them.
Those types won’t need deposits because a guys rep is enough.
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Originally Posted by 1blackman1
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If a lady you really wanted to see badly was only short gas money to get to you, that would stand in your way? All situations. All ladies. Nah we will make an exception when it’s a bad chick. The mediocre ones can fend for themselves lol.......them bad chick I’m getting them to me by any means. Be true you might do it to.
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Originally Posted by Lia88
I never ask unless it’s longer than a 4 hour date. Thats a good amount of time secured..
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Key point though dudes that book four hour dates won’t be worried about a deposit. Cause they are prepared to pay rates which exceed what lower time frame preferred clients would. It’s 300 versus 1200. When really to me there’s no difference as both are a lot of money. But I’m humble.
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Originally Posted by Lia88
It’s becoming more normalized than you think. Trust me.
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It is more normalized now with the advent of only fans, snap chat, and instagram. And amateurs with no rep. And scam and spam artists on STG and other unverified ladies tricking guys into sending something. With no return investment.
I don’t concede though that it’s the norm just yet. Or that most are prepaying. Maybe for you yes because your hott, have steady reviews, and a reputation for good service regularly. If p411 has a part when I requested an appointment and it automatically took a cash apped deposit I’d pay it. But how many ladies you know tend to be flaky.
Even scam and spam artist can accumulate a large healthy some of money by catching guys with a fake ad when they are vulnerable. That’s the norm too. And it has been for years. Same as when you arrive to a lady’s incall and she’s begging you to pay for it so she can recheck in before the action starts. We know how those go..........
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Originally Posted by Lia88
If I was a traveling provider I would secure hotel and round trip...and maybe a small deposit to show good faith especially if I’m a good distance away.
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We talking coach seats or first class? Modest 3.5 star and not below or higher? All of that adds to the “deposit” amount. I wouldn’t count the ticket persay as the main deposit. But it sure shows he’s serious about the booking.
Using your overnight rate (example 2400= not her rate do not in violation of rules) as an example just for perspective of you traveling. What amount of money of that hypothetical 2400 would you require paid to include plane ticket to fly to him?
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Originally Posted by Lia88
But honest opinion I don’t see the problem with it if it’s someone you’ve seen before and it’s a longer than 4 hour date.
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I think if I saw a lady before and she’s knows I’m not flaky and dependable, my word alone would be enough. But I cant fault you business wise if his return business wouldn’t be enough alone without money attached to give you peace of mind.
At least your honest about it.
Now you see how some guys in general feel paying the deposits. It’s the same circumstance when they both involved judge of character and perception.
It’s like gong to church and not paying tide and offering. But damn I still believe in god though. Said his name with a lady last night. Lol