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BulldogCountry · 04-11-2021, 08:41 PM

Not a review, but figured I'd post this here (this seemed like the logical forum to place this).

I finally heard from Autumn Foxx a couple weeks ago. She and I had been texting off-and-on, and finally made plans for last Wednesday to meet-up in a hotel room in Pensacola since she currently does not have an incall location to use.

She asked for the donation ahead of time plus a little extra for hotel room. I had given her donations ahead of time DOZENS and DOZENS of times before with zero issues, so I figured nothing of it.

Well, this time, a couple hours after sending her the donation, she went completely SILENT. This "has" happened a couple times in the past, but she always got with me a day or two later with an explanation and a "make-up" meeting offering, and everything would be fine again. Which is why I waited a few days to post this warning, JUST IN CASE she got back with me.

So, the Foxx has finally screwed ME over... lol.

Which doesn't make sense because we were planning an "all-nighter" later this month for a pretty-substantial donation amount (which we also partially discussed during our last meeting in December). You'd think she would have waited until after THEN to pull this stunt.

So, if the Foxx contacts you, if she asks for money, only send it at your own risk. And, yes, I know what some of you are going to say: "Never send ladies donations ahead of time."

And I normally don't, especially with ladies I've never met before. But, Foxx had that trust built-up, she always delivered in the past (even if it was a day or so late), but she had my trust. She has now broke that trust.

EDIT: If she does contact me after this post, I will post an update here. But it better be a damn good excuse. lol

Steel Wheels · 04-11-2021, 09:52 PM

I had a similar experience with a very well known lady in Pensacola a while back, I had sent her a donation in advance on several occasions with no problems, I have no idea what happened, she just ghosted me and stopped responding to my texts, donations in advance are always possibly risky, even if you think that you can trust them, it’s another lesson learned, I guess...

BulldogCountry · 04-11-2021, 10:44 PM

Yeah, all I can do is wait and see. For all I know, Foxx might contact me randomly next week with the lame excuse that she dropped her phone in the toilet, or something. lol

But, not holding my breath, of course.

Steel Wheels · 04-12-2021, 04:01 AM

I just took a look back at your past reviews, I certainly see why you had reason to trust that she would come through for you, maybe she still will. You might get a good discount next time, but I bet an additional donation will probably be required. If she takes you again, that’s your fault, lol, good luck and Roll Tide Roll!

BulldogCountry · 04-12-2021, 04:35 AM

Even if she does come through, she won't be gettihg any more donations upfront. That's for sure. lol

Steel Wheels · 04-12-2021, 04:45 AM

Hey, Bulldog, I feel your pain, I’ve been there, done that, but didn’t get the t shirt, lol. Imho, the very nature of this hobby should give you reason to keep your guard up... that stuff will definitely make you do some stupid shit.

Boeingguy · 04-12-2021, 06:18 AM

Just glad I’ve never done anything that stupid!!! Lol.... We all pretty much have! In your defense, Autumn has ALWAYS done and been everywhere she was supposed to, when she was supposed to. I would have trusted her too!

44formore · 04-12-2021, 06:22 AM

What would the answer be if you ask for an advance date and promise to pay later? Never a lender or borrower be.

Pyntalis · 04-12-2021, 06:39 AM

Foxx has done that to me in the past as well, just was hesitant to day anything since she had built up such a fan base

Steel Wheels · 04-12-2021, 07:04 AM

That’s a brilliant point, 44formore, I might have to try that one, lol.
Pyntalis, I was in your same position, I think you made the wise decision to remain silent for 2 reasons:
1). She is an eccie member and I feared admonishment from the mods, that crossed my my mind when I initially read Bulldog’s post.
2). I feared her “mindlessly loyal minions” would publicly crucify me here if I spoke out about what she did. I think that you did the right thing.
The problem is, that is exactly the kind of activity that people need to be aware of..oh well, if a frog had wings, it wouldn’t bump it’s ass, I guess

BulldogCountry · 04-12-2021, 07:26 AM

Yep. Now if she contacts me next week with a believable excuse, and "makes things right", then we'll go from there.

I'm sure she'll need $$ again in the future and reach out to "someone"... if not me, then someone else. That's why I wanted to make this BEWARE post.

BulldogCountry · 04-12-2021, 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Boeingguy

Just glad I’ve never done anything that stupid!!! Lol.... We all pretty much have! In your defense, Autumn has ALWAYS done and been everywhere she was supposed to, when she was supposed to. I would have trusted her too!

Yep, in the past six or seven years I've been seeing her, she only went silent on me or cancelled on me maybe twice at most after I sent a donation ahead of time, but she always made it up to me a day or two later.

This time, though, she's been silent since Wednesday afternoon. :/

Steel Wheels · 04-12-2021, 09:48 AM

Honestly, just based on my impression of your comments throughout this thread, she has more pressing issues than you right now, she’s already got you wrapped around her finger, BD, you would piss yourself if she called you right now... the shame is that you are the one with the leverage in the situation, you should really think about that, you can wash your dick as long and as fast you want to, it’s your soap and your water... essentials like food, shelter, and “recreational “ products might be a higher priority to some folks, idk, “ he who cares less wins, sometimes “, that’s just the way I see it

irishgringo · 04-12-2021, 11:02 AM

She quit contacting me, she must think she owes me some money LOL I have has some success with her using BDC methods over the last few years, and never been burned. I guess when it is all said in done there are very few girls that do this for fun, and the money is a byproduct of the exchange. Most, once they have the cheese, they reluctant to deliver.
People should speak there mind in here, and not fear ridicule, if the white Knights come to their defense they can fuck off. As long as you are telling the truth and aren't breaking the rules Mods and Admins should butt out, unless it turns into a 3 pager of drama.

duraman · 04-12-2021, 11:22 AM

We have all been down this road. I have gotten to the point with girls that I am not sure how many appts they owe me for help. I had a girl in Pittsburgh that I saw once a week. I got my expense check on Friday and didn't make it to the bank. I texted the girl on Saturday to schedule a Monday appt. She asked me what was wrong with today. I told her I didn't have the donation. She said that's okay because I want you. I went to the appt and gave her double on our next one after that. This girl liked to fuck. The money was a bonus. It happens. Had an SA girl the same way.