Is it silly for a lady to enjoy life and be pampered???

[MissMollyMcGrath]

Went to be a photographer to explore new boundaries.
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=150592
Well then simply curiosity from the events and put out what I desire.
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=150594
So is it wrong as a submissive who like etiquette to want to be spoiled by the whom she feels she spoils with what she has is wrong for it??Confused.

[discreetgent]

I am sooooo confused (leave it PJ, too easy)

[Ansley]

Maybe she'll come back and explain things.

[fawn]

Well alrighty then...

[London Rayne]

Ummm.

[Laurentius]

No Miss Molly, it is not a problem at all. I went to massage school as a way of balancing out my martial arts skills with some healing bodywork. And even though I'd never do it professionally, it is pretty common for me to give providers massages as part of a session.

Your question asks whether it is silly or wrong -- well, it certainly isn't *wrong* in any sense I can imagine.

Whether it is silly or not depends on who the client is. I have to think there is nothing new under the sun; so that if I will do such things, other hobbyists would too, if you simply asked. Not ALL clients, of course -- but some.

You pose an interesting twist, though, in offering that you are a sub.

While I do not play these games in the hobby, in civie life I have often played the dominant role to a submissive. There is an aspect of dominance in this sense that most people do not see.

The person who has authority also has responsibility. To the extent that I have accepted authority over you, I have also accepted responsibility to have your needs met. In this way, as ironic as it may seem, the "dominant" actually serves the submissive.

You have a need. The dominant needs to meet it. Now, it is up to the dominant HOW it is met and WHEN it is met; and it might include other requirements.

For example, I might have you get on your knees and beg me for the massage; but not agree to perform it until you had thoroughly licked my toes clean.

But, remember, these are just roles. True, they may also be an aspect of your nature; but you have choices. You can choose to pick up the phone and call a massage therapist.

So, in summary -- some hobbyists will massage you without any problems or qualms, there are no ethical problems with it, and the dominants responsibility is to meet your needs -- albeit in HIS fashion as HE chooses.

Did I understand what you were saying?

[Naomi4u]

??? ???

[FLWrite]

Originally Posted by Laurentius

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Did I understand what you were saying?

[discreetgent]

I'm still soooooo confused

[FLWrite]

Originally Posted by discreetgent

I'm still soooooo confused

Difficult to understand why. We have an eleven paragraph answer above to a question no one understood.

Ah, politics.

[discreetgent]

ah politics

Now I am even more confused

[FLWrite]

Originally Posted by discreetgent

Now I am even more confused

An eleven paragraph answer to a question no one understands? Doesn't that sound like politics to you?

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by FLWrite

Difficult to understand why. We have an eleven paragraph answer above to a question no one understood.

I've always appreciated answers of 25 words or less. It's the downfall of having a short attention span.

[discreetgent]

Originally Posted by FLWrite

An eleven paragraph answer to a question no one understands? Doesn't that sound like politics to you?

No.

[FLWrite]

Originally Posted by discreetgent

No.

Somehow I didn't think it would.