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Old 04-11-2011, 09:05 AM   #1
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Has anyone ever pursued or had a relationship that developed in the hobby? Did it work out?

http://alexthereluctantescort.com/20...of-disaster-2/
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Old 04-11-2011, 10:43 AM   #2
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Yes, twice: One worked out great , the other one had a bad ending. ANd i have numerous friends i encountered due to the hobby. In fact i have met several friends /female and male that developed in the hobby. With some i chat almost every day. I think its natural. The drawback is if you get abused for free or something. ANd not respected well enough.
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Old 04-11-2011, 02:08 PM   #3
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Yes, twice: One worked out great , the other one had a bad ending. .
You been running around on me?


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Has anyone ever pursued or had a relationship that developed in the hobby? Did it work out?

http://alexthereluctantescort.com/20...of-disaster-2/
I've never killed anyone I've ever dated nor married them, in or out of the business, so overall I'd say they all have worked out well enough.


I am hoping the last provider I date moonlights as a doctor at a nudist nursing home and we each give the other much care and love....
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Old 04-11-2011, 02:13 PM   #4
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Cant say that I have, however I have had 2 now that took the GFE way to far and assumed suddenly we were dating outside the hobby. The second one resulted in stalking and harassment with him pm every person that shows interest in me. Things were even worse than that. So I think the thought of dating anyone outside the hobby with whom i met here....scares me way too much.
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I am poly, remember :-)) ....... but i dance around you nekkid all nights long and run too of course ;-)
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Old 04-11-2011, 02:55 PM   #6
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http://alexthereluctantescort.com/20...of-disaster-2/
Yes, met a man through a Houston Social about 8ish years ago. We both rode motorcycles and had much in common. We became fast friends that eventually developed into a serious relationship. We lived together for about 6-7 years roughly. For various reasons, I finally broke it apart sadly, and moved out.
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This is a very interesting thread indeed. Guilty Pleasures when you were in your relationship with this man did you continue to Hobby or did you give up the lifestyle totally? The reason why I'm asking you this is because not too long ago I posted a thread in "Another Realm" titled, "On Cuckolding" and one of the questions I asked was similar to what this tread is about.
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http://alexthereluctantescort.com/20...of-disaster-2/

Thrice.

Once it lasted many years and we remain close friends. The second time lasted a little while and ended on good terms. The third is just now unfolding.
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Old 04-11-2011, 03:42 PM   #9
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No. I don't believe in starting a relationship on a meeting in which I pay a person to stay away. It's a recipe for disaster.
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Yes; it lasted a couple of years and we still have the chance to get together occasionally.
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I've dated a couple of strippers on and off. I've always been upfront with them that I wasn't looking for a serious relationship. Lot's of good times. Always ends with drama & I hate drama. Invariably they always have very complicated personal lives (read: baggage) and if you get past a night or two out on the town dealing with the baggage becomes part of the bargain. The other thing is a very high % of them seem to enjoy substances we don't talk about here. That isn't they way I roll and for a lot of reasons I try not to associate with people that do.

I always tell myself never again, but I a sucker for a nice piece of ass....
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Yes, it lasted a little over a year. We ended things on good terms and remain friends. I was not in the hobby during that time.
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No. I don't believe in starting a relationship on a meeting in which I pay a person to stay away. It's a recipe for disaster.
That's funny....
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This is a very interesting thread indeed. Guilty Pleasures when you were in your relationship with this man did you continue to Hobby or did you give up the lifestyle totally? The reason why I'm asking you this is because not too long ago I posted a thread in "Another Realm" titled, "On Cuckolding" and one of the questions I asked was similar to what this tread is about.
Well I continued for a short time, then he stopped hobbying and wanted me to stop as well. There was friction between us over that. I retired and many years later after we parted ways, well.. as you can see old habits die hard for me..lol
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No. I don't believe in starting a relationship on a meeting in which I pay a person to stay away. It's a recipe for disaster.
I don't necessarily look at it as a recipe for disaster. People come and go in your life even without the hobby. Each person you form a bond with in this world whether it is a short term relationship or long term helps you to grow in some way and builds who you are in life. Even if the relationship ends on bad terms.
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