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Old 09-29-2018, 08:15 AM   #121
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Yea Sasha I proly woulda seen the 1st black I could find.
And then let him stew in it after seeing him again!
MI BAD?
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Old 09-29-2018, 10:39 AM   #122
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Could it be preference?

Do you see ladies of all ages, sizes, races, education, inked, non inked, big boob, small boob, natural and augemented, smoker and non smoker? My guess is probably not. Why is that? Discrimination? Racist?

Basically, unless you see all ladies of all types then you do not have a leg to stand on, so quit bitching.
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Old 09-29-2018, 11:43 AM   #123
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Don't +1 that stupid ass post.

We have to pick one of you (at a time) because that's how the process works. When we select ANYTHING, we're limited to one or two of said selection(s). We LITERALLY can't pick all of you, because, A, we only have limited amount of TIME, FUNDS, ENERGY, etc.

Again, you go to a car dealership. You go to buy ONE CAR. You don't buy 37 cars so that you appease 36 other cars. Probably don't have enough money for 37 cars anyway.

You to buy lunch. You get one meal. You don't buy 18 meals just so 17 other meals don't feel left out. Probably don't have enough for 18 meals anyway. Besides, you wouldn't have the room to eat all 18.

Need a new bed? You buy ONE bed. You don't buy 29 beds so that the other 28 don't feel left out. Probably don't have enough money or energy for 29 beds anyway.

Just as scheduling to go to see a provider. I can only see one (at a time) I gotta pick one. I can't pick 152, just to make 151 feel better. Won't have enough money for all of them, unless they want to split the pot 152 ways (gonna go out on a limb and guess they'll say NO to that). Won't have the energy, either. Or the time.

Guess I gotta narrow down my selection to ONE in all of the above scenarios.

Or maybe pyramidiot can buy all the above in all numbers...because making a choice is just wrong, right??

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Old 09-29-2018, 11:50 AM   #124
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I see all respectable, secure and honest potential clients!
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Old 09-29-2018, 06:38 PM   #125
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Says the guy who says everyone else is judgmental.



How about this, tell all your pals to pull their pants up, cut back on the use of the 'f' word, 'b' word, 'h' word, stop wearing your emotions on your sleeve, see the value in education, civility, and humility, AND THEN MAYBE society will start seeing them in a different light.
How'd that work for Kevin Jackson

https://www.theroot.com/when-you-do-...vin-1829390415

Nothing against you dude, you seem to know the value of who you are, you make good sense in some of your post and regardless of education or not we are still seen as some as that word.

Best of luck to you dude, we just have a slight difference of opinion but we see eye to eye of the fundamental points.
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Old 09-29-2018, 10:29 PM   #126
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Fucksticks. Does it matter why a provider doesn't want to see any race? Old? Young? Toothless? Drinker? Smoker?

Just like does it matter why a hobbyist doesn't want to see bbw? Over 25? Under 30? Whatever race? Fake boobs? Small boobs? Saggy boobs? Mommy damage?

Fuck who you can.
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Old 09-30-2018, 04:32 AM   #127
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I think, especially in the south there is still sadly prejudice, Also. There is so much in the media/news about crime, pimps etc..
Does not make it right. .I am sorry.. I have actually had older white clients tell me that. If they ever found out that I see AA men that they would never see me again..
Also for those older "white men" are some of the same ones that see AA girls but are ashamed of it!
Humans are fucked up!
I believe it. The reality is that black men new to the hobby are just thrown back initially when they learn about NBA. Until they get some experience they don't understand the complexities behind it. Once they start to get an understanding that white males are the majority in the hobby then they will be able to not take the NBA policy so seriously. And what kind of insecure muthafucka are you to tell a woman this but at the same time want to screw black women.
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Old 09-30-2018, 01:28 PM   #128
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Fucksticks. Does it matter why a provider doesn't want to see any race? Old? Young? Toothless? Drinker? Smoker?

Just like does it matter why a hobbyist doesn't want to see bbw? Over 25? Under 30? Whatever race? Fake boobs? Small boobs? Saggy boobs? Mommy damage?

Fuck who you can.

Awesome answer. Can be used with any AA thread or any other thread that has to do with someone's preference (any preference) on who they will see or not see! No other comments needed after that answer is provided. Well? Except for my need to comment of course!!
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Old 09-30-2018, 02:34 PM   #129
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Awesome answer. Can be used with any AA thread or any other thread that has to do with someone's preference (any preference) on who they will see or not see! No other comments needed after that answer is provided. Well? Except for my need to comment of course!!
It's not a preference.
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Old 09-30-2018, 04:20 PM   #130
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pref·er·ence
ˈpref(ə)rəns/Submit
noun
1.
a greater liking for one alternative over another or others.
"a preference for long walks and tennis over jogging"

"a preference for MM Tits."
"a preference to see only men above 40 yrs of age."
"a preference to spend less than $300 per hour of entertainment."
"a preference to not see AA."

Will I see providers who have real tits? Yes
Will they see men younger than 40 yrs of age? Probably
Will I spend more than $300 per hour of entertainment? I have many times.
Will she see AA? My belief is most will if he acts like a gentleman and is respectful. Does it bother me as a a white male that my chosen provider has seen AA males? Not at all. I see AA providers. Money is money and fun is fun.

The point of the original post I quoted was to find what you like. If it doesn't like you, then move on and don't get butt hurt about it. I have been turned down a few times. Had a "body rub only" provider turn me down because I was active and posted reviews of full activity encounters. Can you believe the nerve of that provider?!? I nearly started a thread "Why don't Body Rub Providers see Full Activity Hobbiest?" Then I remembered it was her preference not to see me and I moved on to the next.
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Old 09-30-2018, 04:30 PM   #131
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People act like a “preference” can’t be caused by prejudice. Or that it isn’t discrimination. We all discriminate. Only the person making the choice knows if it’s fueled by racism or any “ism” or not.
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Old 09-30-2018, 08:43 PM   #132
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pref·er·ence
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noun
1.
a greater liking for one alternative over another or others.
"a preference for long walks and tennis over jogging"

"a preference for MM Tits."
"a preference to see only men above 40 yrs of age."
"a preference to spend less than $300 per hour of entertainment."
"a preference to not see AA."

Will I see providers who have real tits? Yes
Will they see men younger than 40 yrs of age? Probably
Will I spend more than $300 per hour of entertainment? I have many times.
Will she see AA? My belief is most will if he acts like a gentleman and is respectful. Does it bother me as a a white male that my chosen provider has seen AA males? Not at all. I see AA providers. Money is money and fun is fun.

The point of the original post I quoted was to find what you like. If it doesn't like you, then move on and don't get butt hurt about it. I have been turned down a few times. Had a "body rub only" provider turn me down because I was active and posted reviews of full activity encounters. Can you believe the nerve of that provider?!? I nearly started a thread "Why don't Body Rub Providers see Full Activity Hobbiest?" Then I remembered it was her preference not to see me and I moved on to the next.
Reread your definition.
"a greater liking for one alternative over another or others."
A liking of one over another isn't the same as excluding one.


I prefer long walks over jogging. I exclude swimming.
I prefer manmade tits. I exclude lip injections.
I prefer men 40 and over. I exclude 30 and younger
I prefer spending $300 or less. I exclude $400 and over.
I prefer White men. I exclude Black men.


I don't care about the choice someone makes. Just use the right terminology.
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Old 09-30-2018, 09:42 PM   #133
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Reread your definition.
"a greater liking for one alternative over another or others."
A liking of one over another isn't the same as excluding one.


I prefer long walks over jogging. I exclude swimming.
I prefer manmade tits. I exclude lip injections.
I prefer men 40 and over. I exclude 30 and younger
I prefer spending $300 or less. I exclude $400 and over.
I prefer White men. I exclude Black men.


I don't care about the choice someone makes. Just use the right terminology.



And reread my comment about that definition.
Will she see AA? My belief is most will if he acts like a gentleman and is respectful.



I used the correct terminology based on my interpretation of AA Policy of most Provided as who have such a policy. But I appreciate your input!
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Old 09-30-2018, 10:16 PM   #134
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And reread my comment about that definition.
Will she see AA? My belief is most will if he acts like a gentleman and is respectful.



I used the correct terminology based on my interpretation of AA Policy of most Provided as who have such a policy. But I appreciate your input!
That's speculation on your part. The fact is it's not a preference, it's a choice to exclude. Their choice to make. In fact the could say "I prefer not to see Black men." That would be a preference. But an NBA policy is exclusion. Now who they might see & why is also their choice, and they'll make that decision on an individual basis.
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Old 09-30-2018, 10:38 PM   #135
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There is/was a provider here who was no asians. Does that mean she is racist?
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