growing sugar daddy phenomenon

[Gotyour6]

Originally Posted by HoustonRiley

I wish I could find a decent Sugar Daddy.

Every hooker says that.
You mean "I wish I could find someone to pay me what I make or more being a hooker so I wouldn't have to work so hard"

[Claire She Blows]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

I meet mine in person.
I have been with the same girl for 5 years now and just meeting another one as a sugar baby so the three of us can have fun once in a while.

Looking at a car for my new one now. She takes her test on June 20th and when she passes it I want to surprise her.

Soooooo, she's 16.....?
And if you meet them in person (and in high school by the sounds of it) why are you on here?

[ICU 812]

Disclaimer: I have no experience in SD/SB relationships.

I would think that a college student SB might welcome the equivalent of a few minimum-wage food service job shifts each week/month. Even at 410/hr. twenty hrs is only $200. So you could be made happy for < 1K/ month.

My offer would be ~$500 month and the pitch would be that she could be studying more and only work half the hours yet still make her $800/month (or what ever).

[yitzchak]

500 a month sounds awful. Things are just as expensive in college, like rent, hospital bills and grocery shopping, but you have to pay thousands of dollars to tuition and textbooks on top of that. 500 a month would be enough to cover groceries or rent. It won't pay for tuition, phone bills or insurance. We want spending money, man. One can scrape by with or without 500 extra dollars a month.

[Goodtime544]

Originally Posted by yitzchak

We want spending money, man. One can scrape by with or without 500 extra dollars a month.

Forget which profile you were signed in to?

[Barrycrum]

Originally Posted by Goodtime544

Forget which profile you were signed in to?

Read carefully through this persons posts. It's not a male account, its a lady.

[Hobbyman]

A few years back I entered into my one and only SB/SD relationship. I read all the forum's and articles giving advice on how to make it work. So then I go straight out and violated a cardinal rule and got a stripper as my sugar baby. What was supposed to be a train wreck according to the experts turned into 18 months of pure bliss. The lady danced at one of the more upscale clubs in town and had been doing so for several years. Her looks put her way above my wildest expectations. She was intelligent and possessed a certain style that is not usually found in ladies in that profession. By just about anyone's standards she would have made a trophy wife extraordinaire. She continued working(days} while our arrangement was in place. An average month saw me drop about $2500 on her for what was usually 2-3 nights a week.At the time it seemed like a huge amount of money but with today's ever increasing cost to hobby it was really a bargain. If rates continue to climb pretty soon it will be time to look for another SB. There are plenty of ladies looking and not all are expecting 5K a month. It's all about negotiation.

[jonic]

Can you meet a SB without being on a paid site? I would have no problem in having a SB and paying most of her monthly bills if she could pull off making others think she is in a relationship with me. I think it might be safe to say that we would both know there was or is no connection or feelings and it is just business. If we both get what we want and are happy it is ok.

[mister_twinkies]

kids with degrees cant buy houses, cars or even pay their loans no more so they begrudgingly go have sex with gray-haired baby boomers and gen x'ers for money

some hot hate-fuck kinda situation

[tolstoy]

Originally Posted by Bobave

The crushing weight of student loan debt is pushing young adults into desperation, forcing them to look for new ways to potentially fund their educations. London South Bank University conducted a poll with The Independent, investigating what students are willing to do for a financial boost. Broadly, the Sunday poll found roughly one in three students are willing to trade sex for tuition, reports The Independent.
Roughly 75 percent of respondents said they would devote time to a “sugar daddy” when asked if they would engage in a relationship with a person they were attracted to for free tuition.




http://dailycaller.com/2017/05/22/as...lege-with-sex/

Focus on the last sentence: "......when asked if they would engage in a relationship with a person they were attracted to for free tuition....."

With A Person They Are Attracted To. That's the rub, at least with girls "new to the game" of the whole SD/SB scene......

I have been messing around with the SB/SD scene, and specifically the SeekingArrangement scene, in my home city "off an on" for about three years now.....

"Off and on" specifically because there are Pro's and Con's with the whole SA scene:

Pro: there are MANY hot, young girls and "college girl" (and whether they are in school or not) girls on SA in my city, and the surrounding 100 mile radius area. Just a casual look through the "New Member" and "Recently Active" list of SB's shows MANY HYG's- Hot Young Girls.....

Negative: focus on the last sentence of the above article summary. Many new (NEW) to SA girls are "looking for my Christian Grey!" They want a good-looking guy With Money in his age 20's.....

SUPRA-Negative Con of SA: if I inquire with ten (10) SB's on SA then roughly half (HALF) will request a Face Pic of me before proceeding. When I refuse then probably 1/3 of them will do the "meet and greet" to check me out. But really at least HALF of "new to the game" SA girls WON'T move forward Without a Face Pic from any potential SD suitor.....

Now those are the NEW girls to SA. If an SA girls has "been around a while" and "been through the ringer" (had good experiences AND dealt with SD assholes) then she is Less Likely to REQUIRE Face Pics of SD's, and she will more likely do the "meet and greet" with SD suitors. Or she will just dispatch with the "meet and greet" all together and just meet any guy (who is cool with with her in PM's and by text) and bang him in a hotel room for cash.....

Bottom line: it's all about "supply and demand" and New Girls, IF they are hot-looking in pics and particularly In-Person, have much CHOICE of SD suitors, at least in their early runs. THESE girls often (TOO often) request and Require Face Pics of all suitors in-order to move forward. The longer they remain on the scene, and the more SD's they deal with (nice guys and assholes) the more likely they will do the "meet and greet" deal or just dispatch with any "preliminaries" with SD's theme....

If I deal with the whole "process" on SA then I can Get Laid as much as I want to, which is about once a week. The issue is I don't always want to deal with the whole "process" of SA. I want the least (LEAST) amount of "getting to know you" business with SA girls as possible. Some SA girls require MORE of that than others.....

The whole SD Face Pic requirement of SA girls, and particularly "NEW to the game" SA girls, is Really getting out of hand. It indicates the raw number of Civilian girls who are getting-on SA. They are essentially Civilian girls who are "looking for my Christian Grey!"- a young, good-looking, rich guy. These are the girls (often NEW to SA girls) who Require Face Pics of SD suitors before moving forward.....

Sure, and I am looking for a young girl who looks like the actress Hayden Paneterrie (spelling?) who Fucks Like a Porn Star and who does it for reasonable local "market rates" of what all the other hookers in my city do it for.......

SA is a TRIP. Any guy who want to deal with the whole "process" there can get good results. There are straight-up Pro Ho's on SA who are easy to "book and bang" and there are many (MANY) "new to the game" essentially Civilian girls on there trying to deal with their own issues and unique "expectations" of the scene they just discovered.....

The last two times I recently Got Laid on SA both girls dispatched with the Face Pics and "meet and greet" requirement and just went straight for me picking-them-up by car and taking them to a hotel room and banging for cash. Those are POSITIVE SA experiences. There are too many other instances of "let's get to know each other" and "can I see some pics, honey?" stories I have experienced that I don't even want to describe......:disg ust1:

Again, any guy who wants to deal with the whole "process" on SA can get good results. There are Pro Ho's on SA who you can easily "book and bang". There are very Civilian girls "new to the game" who have certain "expectations" of what they want, and the longer they remain on the SA scene then the more "realistic" they become with their "expectations", positively.....

[ICU 812]

I would think (and I have had no experience with this) rthat from the Hobbyist side of the equation, the SD would be looking for a potential SBs who are scrapeing by and just need a few extra bucks to make ends meet or to mqake life a little more comfortable.

A college co-ed who is working at a fast-food job a few hours a week (say <20) might be persuaded to enter into a limited SB arrangement for the equivalent of one or two minimum wage shifts a week. This might be as little as $150 a week or $600 a month.

As a SD (I am not) I would not be interested in supporting an otherwise independent Provider at anything like a regular provider's expected level of donation.

I would be looking for a college co-ed or single mother who is willing to be my intimate companion several times a month for something at or less than $200/week, say $500-$800/month.

I appreciate that full-time providers really need (and many deserve) a Suger-Daddywarbucks.

[tolstoy]

Originally Posted by yitzchak

500 a month sounds awful. Things are just as expensive in college, like rent, hospital bills and grocery shopping, but you have to pay thousands of dollars to tuition and textbooks on top of that. 500 a month would be enough to cover groceries or rent. It won't pay for tuition, phone bills or insurance. We want spending money, man. One can scrape by with or without 500 extra dollars a month.

Different SA girls have different ideas about how many SD's they will bang for cash. Some SA girls, absolutely, just want to bang one (1) guy for cash, and they won't deviate from that as long as That Guy is paying all their bills.....

Other SA girls will bang for cash, Very Specifically, the EXACT number of guys who will pay all their bills. 2 guys, 4 guys, 6 guys, whatever their individual financial needs are.....

There are different levels of "civilian" to different SA girls. Many SA girls are Pro Ho's who guys can easily "book and bang", and as long as the guys are personally cool in PM's and by text. Other SA girls require more "getting to know each other" and "can I see your face pics, honey?" preliminaries in order to do business. And the latter type of girls are usually "new to the game" SB's.....

And the "can I see some pics, honey?" requests and Requirement of many SA girls is the primary, real Negative and Con with the whole SA scene......

Different levels of "civilian" and different "expectations" of different girls on SA. Guy-hobbyists just have to deal with it. Any guy who wants to deal with the SA "process" can get good results, if he has basic "game" and he is reasonable and polite and diplomatic with SA girls....

And in response to the above quote- not all SA girls are "college girls" who have to pay for books and tuition and such. Many SA girls would LOVE $500 a month regularly and consistently, either from one or several SD's. There are MANY SA girls just "supplementing" their real-world jobs by banging guys on SA for cash. And there are Pro Ho's who do the whole SA scene "full-time"......

[tolstoy]

Originally Posted by ICU 812

I would think 9and I have had no experience with this) rthat from the SD side of the equation, the Sd would be looking for a potential SBs who are scrapeing by and just need a few extra bucks to make ends meet or to mqake life a little more comfortable.

A college co-ed who is working at a minimum wage job a few hours a week (say <20) might be persuaded to enter into a limited SB arrangement for the equivalent of one or two minimum wage shifts. This might be as little as $500/month.

As a SD (I am not) I would not be interested in supporting an otherwise independent Provider at anything like a regular provider's expected level of donation.

I would be looking for a college co-ed or single mother who is willing to be my intimate companion several times a month for something at or less than $200/week, say $500-$800/month.

I appreciate that full-time providers really need (and many deserve) a Suger-Daddywarbucks.

If you read the SD/SB forums and SA posts all over this board you will read of SD's who want the HYG (Hot Young Girl) who is, "theoretically" at least, banging Just Him for cash. Those girls exist on SA. Girls who want to bang just one (1) guy for all the cash they need.....

And also there are many SA girls who will bang for cash the Exact number of guys who will pay all their bills. 2 guys, 4 guys, 6 guys- you get the idea. They are essentially UTR "providers" on the local scene- they just advertise and operate on SA because "I am not a prostitute!", etc.....

And damn-straight: you give an early age 20's girl working at Taco Bell the opportunity to make a regular, consistent $500 a month to bang some guy, then she will take it.....

There are different levels of "civilian" and "new to the game" levels of experience with different SA girls. There are Pro Ho's on SA you can easily "book and bang". And many SA girls require more "getting to know each other" and "can I see your pics, honey?", etc.....

There are "new to the game" girls on SA and girls who have "been around a while" and "been through the ringer" who have (essentially) the same "expectations" as all the local hookers in the same "supply and demand" market......

[Luxie]

I was in the sugar game long before I started working as an escort. It's how I graduated debt free. But most of these men have no business being on a sugar dating website. They are salt daddies not sugar daddies, lol.

Also, to any providers reading this post you must screen the men just as thoroughly as you do escort clients because a lot - and I mean a LOT are blacklisted by escorts. Though it is fairly simple to figure out which ones are legit versus the cheap guys.

[RJinLR]

Just have no interest in another bill to pay every month...

In my situation I play when I want and when I'm free. I save my slush fund for the right rainy days and then I cash in. I never have someone depending on me...it's nice. Of course it doesn't bother me that the providers I'm seeing turn around and see other guys. I have made peace with that.

I agree with the poster who would look for someone who is trying to supplement income. 500/month doesn't seem like a lot, but sometimes I spend 0/month on hobbying depending on what's going on in my life. And nobody is calling or texting me saying hey my car payment is due. And if my other half wants to take a vacation or make some other big purchase, I don't have to find a way to break it to my SB that I don't have her "paycheck." I just wait a couple weeks and see another hot provider.

Being a personal ATM for someone...get out of here. I honestly can't believe there is a market for "kept women" on SA.