What's so hard about this ?

[Madeline Tze]

I know some of y'all seen my posts and I'm a little laid back and comical.
But when it comes to business there is NOTHING to play about. Especially if we are doing this.

-Message the girl on eccie
-Send send her a reference if asked
-ask specific questions BEFORE hand. Don't expect her to do what's on your mind. Lol. No one is a mind reader.
-COMMUNICATE if you're going to be late
-If you need to shower INCLUDE that in your session if you're not tipping.
-If the girl is manicured to the T you should be as well.
-No one wants to be treated as a John or a prostitute. So if the girl is being nice and taking extra request that's not usually in her session BE NICE TO HER.
-Remember there's always a cause and effect in every situation.

You get more out of people when you come correct.

There is nothing hard about having a little etiquette

P.S. maybe the girl isn't rude. Just very uncomfortable with the clients approach

[Lena Duvall]

You raise some interesting points Madeline. Something else that I think of is that it's important to read each provider's showcase, as well as their website if they have one and recent adverts. There are some practices that are standard operating procedures, while there are many other aspects of how one companion may run their business that's different from the next.

Tipping for showers is something that sounds totally new to me. And while I like having an overall sense of what experience a guest is looking for, I don't like to engage in correspondence that is vulgar or sounds like an acronym checklist. Anyhoo, this reminds me that I need to update my website shortly with a FAQ so it can be even more convenient for someone who wants to visit me to be able to know what my personal etiquette guidelines are.

[Madeline Tze]

Now look. Tipping for a shower isnt mandatory. But if a client needs to take a shower that's totally fine. But it NEEDS to be included with session time.
A shower IS NOT AN EXTRA service.

For example. If a client has a 30 min session. He needs fit his shower in that 30 min session. Not make his session 45 mins because he took a shower.
So thats why I say INCLUDE in swssion or tip otherwise

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by Madeline Tze

-If you need to shower INCLUDE that in your session if you're not tipping.

Huh?

So, the client has to specifically let you know he would like a shower beforehand?

Can you explain what tipping and a shower have to do with one another i'm confused?
Please speak on it so this way your potential clients know what to expect
since showers are not an automatic given with your sessions.


Thanks

[Sexy Sophia]

I agree with you Madeline Tze. Showers, before or after the session, them on their phones, taking a smoke break, whatever the case may be, is not getting them extra time for less money. I set an alarm on my phone that sounds like a text msg. It's my 15 minute warning to start wrapping things up. I ask the clients if they will need the facilities afterwards. If they do I tell them know in a nice way we have 15 to finish up so they have time to freshen up before leaving. Most clients are and have been respectful of this. The ones who have not appreciated this simply won't see me again or I won't see them. I don't want to see anyone who can't respect and value my time the same way I respect and value theirs. And I refuse to let anyone take advantage of me, my time or services. The ones who have been upset that I won't let them stay longer for no extra money are not people I want to see again anyway. I have to ask myself with those "Where does it end?" They just keep expecting more and more for less and less!

Let me say though, I don't expect to be tipped because they took a shower! I actually provided washcloths, unscented, hypoallergenic body wash, disposable razors, throw away toothbrushes, toothpaste, mouthwash, Qtips, and small deodorant for my clients to use if they so choose upon arrival or exit. I don't expect to be tipped for that. But I do expect them to arrive on time and leave within the scheduled time. If they request more time and I have it, I don't mind letting them stay longer. Most times that isn't the case though.
Anyway!
Stuck to your guns and stay Safe Ladies!

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

I think of is that it's important to read each provider's showcase, as well as their website

Even if a potential client read the OP's showcase/website she doesn't have any type of mention regarding the shower/tipping information. So a potential client wont know either way until he arrives and then she asks for a tip upfront for a shower

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by Sexy Sophia

I agree with you Madeline Tze. Showers, before or after the session, them on their phones, taking a smoke break, whatever the case may be, is not getting them extra time for less money. I set an alarm on my phone that sounds like a text msg. It's my 15 minute warning to start wrapping things up. I ask the clients if they will need the facilities afterwards. If they do I tell them know in a nice way we have 15 to finish up so they have time to freshen up before leaving. Most clients are and have been respectful of this. The ones who have not appreciated this simply won't see me again or I won't see them. I don't want to see anyone who can't respect and value my time the same way I respect and value theirs. And I refuse to let anyone take advantage of me, my time or services. The ones who have been upset that I won't let them stay longer for no extra money are not people I want to see again anyway. I have to ask myself with those "Where does it end?" They just keep expecting more and more for less and less!

Let me say though, I don't expect to be tipped because they took a shower! I actually provided washcloths, unscented, hypoallergenic body wash, disposable razors, throw away toothbrushes, toothpaste, mouthwash, Qtips, and small deodorant for my clients to use if they so choose upon arrival or exit. I don't expect to be tipped for that. But I do expect them to arrive on time and leave within the scheduled time. If they request more time and I have it, I don't mind letting them stay longer. Most times that isn't the case though.
Anyway!
Stuck to your guns and stay Safe Ladies!

I guess we all run our business different.
It's my own personal crazy issues i guess but a shower is mandatory at the beginning or its no session taking place. Shower time isn't included in the session time, it starts after the shower.

IDK, maybe i've been doing it all wrong ?

[Goodtime544]

All I can do is picture one of those big NASA countdown clocks!

[Sexy Sophia]

I don't know how she meant it but it does sound funny to me.

Can you imagine being the client and all of a sudden you get informed that a tip is wanted for the use of the shower?! Especially if it's in a hotel, using hotel soap, hotel shampoo, hotel water??? Or them taking a shower didn't exceed the appointment time? I would die laughing if I were the client! I would have to ask "Do YOU pay the water bill?!!" Hilarious!

I'm not making fun of her but if that's the expectation then it needs to be told upfront. 9-10 clients expect to be able to take a quick shower before they leave for sure. At lest that's been my experience. And honestly I would find it gross if they didn't wash their ass before leaving. Especially if it's a FS session.

I never expect a tip from anyone in this gig! It's always nice to receive one but asking for or expecting one is tacky to me. But that's just me!
Anyway, this post made me laugh so thanks ladies!
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[yitzchak]

good point clients shower before paid sessions with pros.

[Goodtime544]

At the very least, if you are going to count time in shower as session time, why don't you make it pleasant. Go in and take care of your visitor. You could bathe them, maybe?

[Goodtime544]

Originally Posted by yitzchak

good point clients shower before paid sessions with pros.

I just shot some coffee out my nose

[joesmo888]

a clock next to the bed is common sense. i would think both parties would respect it equally.

providers sometimes think 20 minutes when the guy paid for an hour is acceptable. that isn't right

and neither is a hobbyist who sticks around way past an hour

it works both ways too

but stopping the session at the 1 hour mark exactly or setting a ringer at the 15 minute mark is BPish tacky. if you are an independent and not involved with an agency you should be okay with a session going a few minutes over within reason. i would never see provider again who pulled that on me, not only do i view that as a rushed session but also it makes me think she booked another appointment too close to ours.

[Victoria of Houston]

In regards to the shower thing, I agree that it needs to be included in the total session time, not on top of it.


I shower with my gents, not let them do it on their own, so I have complete control over how long it takes. If a 90 min or longer sesh, I do a shower at the beginning and the end. If a 60 min sesh, I only do it at the end.

The clock for me starts the minute we start the first shower. By the end, I leave 5-10 mins once they have popped to shower and clean up. So yes, it is all part of the total session time.

Since I actually shower with them, I consider this part of my service since we are still interacting in a sexy way during the shower.

I have never had complaints from gents about me shorting them on time or anything like that, whilst running my sessions in this manner.

[burkalini]

There are a lot of providers that want you to shower even if you took a shower right before you came over. I understand hygiene. When a provider gets too business like I cross her off the list. How many times is it the provider that takes your time by being late even if they call you and tell you so. I guess then it would be fair to add this time to the session. Ok let's see 1 hour session plus 1.5 hrs late then I can expect a 2.5 hr session then. I'm giving her money and now she thinks her time is more important than mine. If I pay for an hour then I expect an hour not 45 minutes because I use her shower. I also agree that many times a provider says an hour but if you cum once they jump off the bed and expect you to leave at 25 minutes. How about this. Sometimes it goes a little over and sometimes it's a little short. Put up a lot of rules and you just make it like ordering a hamburger.