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LoganN · 03-18-2022, 01:35 PM

So maybe this is normal in this hobby, maybe not. Advice appreciated. Most of the girls I contact don't respond, like well over half. I think I'm good at distinguishing real vs fake ads. I only contact girls that I can find reviews on. I'm respectful with a "hey (name), what's your rate for an hour?" or something similar. I've never tried to negotiate price. I never text details or vulgar comments.

Last night, 3 no response at all. One response I did get was from Khaiii in Lafayette which said "Blocked" and then called me a few names. I had only asked for an hour rate. Don't know if she thought I was a cop, stalker, ex, or what.

One other girl responded, but turned out she wasn't in Lafayette.

This normal?

Kettlechip · 03-18-2022, 02:47 PM

Jack Nicholson said it best. "...think of a man, then take away reason and accountability."

Yes. It is completely normal. Reliable and communicative escorts are few and far between.

Cajunyankee · 03-18-2022, 03:28 PM

It’s difficult to get established in Lafayette. I’m fairly new at this and when I got on OH and with and agency I actually had a known provider in Laffy that is no longer around that I used as a referral and the agency knew the other girl I used but didn’t contact her because she is not cooperative. Those were my two references. Check out tryst for some more reliable providers.

Joe Blows · 03-18-2022, 03:35 PM

It’s normal(ish) but if that is what you say in your texts a little more grace and manners may help. Try…

Hi Jane. My name is LoganN and I live in New Orleans. I saw your ad on xyz site and I’m really interested in seeing you. Can you please tell me your rates for incall appointments? Thanks!

You will still get plenty of non responses but you have a much better chance with that than “hey Jane what’s your hour rate.” Of course you could always go the other direction and say “hey Jane, you fucking today?” Lolol

Raindog115 · 03-18-2022, 03:54 PM

Something does seem to have shifted out there. My response rate used to be around 50%. Now it's around 10 to 15%. Ive been striking out night after night lately. Maybe it's due to my new phone number but I dont think so.

Ballistixz · 03-18-2022, 04:08 PM

Just call direct over phone if they provide number. Text is worthless on all sides usually because they can take their time responding or not respond at all. People act different over voice or in person vs text aswell. So call and say you seen their ad on x site.

But honestly you still might not get a response even calling. This is why i rarely go to escort providers unless they are very reputable (and even then they still ghost as what happened to me a little while ago). So i just tell everyone go to a AMP. Its no BS and you get what you came for. Only down side is you are rolling the dice on service and girl, but reviews better help with that.

Joe Blows · 03-18-2022, 04:19 PM

The vast majority of people prefer text over calls. That goes for males, females, providers, and pilots. Calling someone you don’t know and furthermore leaving them a voicemail when they inevitably don’t answer, is a sure fire way for them to think you are 90 years old and clueless.

BigKiz · 03-18-2022, 04:21 PM

If you are going to insist on texting you shouldn't start off with how much. Someone right out the gate asking how much is going to set off red flags. It also is written evidence if the girl gets picked up.

Typically you can start off with hey, your name, and ask if they are available. If you are messaging that number then they know what you want since it's their work phone. Then they can tell you to call or if they are comfortable they will have a text convo.

...but yes as everyone else has said they can also be very flakey and may not answer you.

myren1900 · 03-18-2022, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Joe Blows

It’s normal(ish) but if that is what you say in your texts a little more grace and manners may help. Try…

Hi Jane. My name is LoganN and I live in New Orleans. I saw your ad on xyz site and I’m really interested in seeing you. Can you please tell me your rates for incall appointments? Thanks!

You will still get plenty of non responses but you have a much better chance with that than “hey Jane what’s your hour rate.” Of course you could always go the other direction and say “hey Jane, you fucking today?” Lolol

I think Joe’s approach as an introduction is much better. Sound positive about the looks of the woman , how long a session you would like and a time frame. The donation should not be the first question you ask. More like an afterthought.

I have not tried to book with a new escort in years. It never used to be a problem. I only recall be turned down once by a hot upscale provider due to a lack of references, but at least I got a response from her. I got one good reference and saw her numerous times later.

Good luck !

LoganN · 03-18-2022, 06:03 PM

Thanks for all the great advice. I'll be a little more wordy in my texts, and won't lead off with rates. I do call when that's requested. I text when that's requested. I try to go the route they ask for. I'm tired of AMPs. Full of old ladies, almost all of them.

BigKiz · 03-18-2022, 06:33 PM

Just keep at it. Good luck.

gimme_that · 03-18-2022, 11:05 PM

I’d push more toward most ladies don’t have good TCB skills.

Moreso than your approach being too forward. Rates are unnecessary though. Because they might not be honest on their capability or what they will do. Trust you will always get confirmation of their rates. It’s a slippery slope but I place value in the capability. Until I know what offered the rate doesn’t mean anything to me. Many 700 dollar an hour ladies here with rules so rigid you can barely touch them almost.

I’m very forward in the first text without really going too far persay. I let them know the time frames I’m interested in and I only ask what they don’t do? Stuff thats easy to ask can get complicated for most ladies. If they don’t respond fuq em. Don’t try to burden ladies in business they don’t want.

The success rate is about 15 percent same as raindog said. Bit mine is less because on ten percent respond back. And half of those aren’t gfe. I’m selective and don’t settle. Bit for regulars im hella loyal. You get what you seek. Just sometimes the lines have to connect.

Raindog115 · 03-19-2022, 12:19 AM

My kingdom for a brothel. Some place where I can roll in on a whim without scheduling in advance. Have a selection to choose from and do my business on the spot.

I know they had the Canal St brothel back in the day but I never went. Closest I can relate to is the now closed Asian joint on Chef where you'd walk in, request lineup of around 8 girls on site, take your pick and have at it. I really miss that place. Houston and other big cities have venues like this but in New Orleans this is dead and buried.

Ballistixz · 03-19-2022, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Joe Blows

The vast majority of people prefer text over calls. That goes for males, females, providers, and pilots. Calling someone you don’t know and furthermore leaving them a voicemail when they inevitably don’t answer, is a sure fire way for them to think you are 90 years old and clueless.

Most people should expect a phone call if you leave your number out in the public like that. Those that prefer text i always see in the ad specifics to text only and not call. It really shouldn't be a problem unless they made it clear in the ad they don't want a phone call.

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Originally Posted by Raindog115

My kingdom for a brothel. Some place where I can roll in on a whim without scheduling in advance. Have a selection to choose from and do my business on the spot.

I know they had the Canal St brothel back in the day but I never went. Closest I can relate to is the now closed Asian joint on Chef where you'd walk in, request lineup of around 8 girls on site, take your pick and have at it. I really miss that place. Houston and other big cities have venues like this but in New Orleans this is dead and buried.

The Storms forced everyone out and most went to texas and what was left meddling LE got involved. I wish i was around for those places too. Lily pad was always talked about on this site when i was nothing but a lurker and i always wanted to go but by the time i got the nerve the place shut down.

Hollywood was my first amp and Jade at the time did ask if i wanted a line up to see the rest of the girls, but i said no because i knew i wanted her on first site. Im not sure if they still do line ups there. I would imagine its only good for girls on constant rotation anyway and Hollywood usually always have the same girls with one or two new ones on occasion.

Kettlechip · 03-19-2022, 07:01 PM

I stay away from long introductions. I think it is way more important to be straight to the point. I used to do the whole "Hello, etc etc etc" but I found simply saying "Rates?" works better. If I don't hear anything in 10 minutes I send a short compliment. I'll give it about an hour past that and say I'm still interested if she's around. If none of that gets a response I move on.

Most girls get their phones going off constantly