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bartipero · 06-16-2019, 06:51 PM

I’ve tried Friend Finder and Ashley Madison, but they are so full of shills it is a waste of time. The ones who are there for real are such a minority they are inundated. I managed one reply that based contact on who could outwit who, so it isn’t worth the time. It’s like reaching in a bowl with phone numbers with a blindfold and the numbers you pull go no further. I met a girl who danced in a local club and got her number. After a few text exchanges she sent her SA profile and them made it clear she was a professional. I had no problem with that because she was honest and accepted who she was. I still hang out from time to time and text w/o the play. But it started with knowing her without SA and it was the connection. Online on anything is a lottery with about the same probabilities. To the point, though, I don’t care how you thread it value for play is just common prostitution. It doesn’t matter if you legitimize it by becoming a trophy wife, or if you just do it every now and then. I have no respect for the trophies who gush about ‘true love’ when you look at the pictures it’s so obvious that the money was the primary attractant—hold your nose and take the trade. After awhile it’s routine. At least the girls who put it out there are honest about it and that counts in my opinion. You know exactly where you stand.

royamcr · 06-17-2019, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by scorpio31

I find it thoroughly amusing to read this discussion and those in private forums by those who claim to be Sugar Daddies & Sugar Babies () because SA and other similar sites are nothing more than "if I pay you money will you fuck me" or "If you pay me money, I will fuck you" today hookups!

My guess is that the percentage of actual Sugar Daddies on SA are less than 5% of the male memebrship and an even smaller number are from KC!

"Sugar Daddies"?...y'all are a joke!

This tiny little thing bouncing on my dick for a little over 100 wasn't a joke. Not sharing this one. lol

royamcr · 06-17-2019, 01:55 PM

My measure of a SB over an "escort" is tying an amount to a specified amount of time. SBs are generally not on a clock and generally enjoy spending 2-3 hours hanging out for the "allowance".

Guest090920 · 06-17-2019, 02:27 PM

So you concur with how a previous female member of our community described activities such as you and other have chronicle and pursue, when she said, "This is not high tea with the Queen, it is fucks for bucks."

royamcr · 06-17-2019, 02:35 PM

Yes but not fux 4 bux for 1 hr... Or whatever amount of time. So if a potential SB starts talking in hours, I put her in the hooker category and typically will just treat her as such and never consider an allowance. She isn't wired as an allowance type.

Fsn57 · 06-18-2019, 06:22 AM

It's all Fucks for Bucks, but if you can make the girls think they're not escorting you can open up the pool of available women in the game. SD/SB does just that. Some guys lose perspective and think being a SD is somehow not Fucks for Bucks, but if the $ disappears, so does the SB(in most cases).

Unique_Carpenter · 06-18-2019, 07:15 AM

Posted above I see a lot of this isn't an SB, that isn't an SB, etc.
So if there's a bunch of definitions of what isn't a SB, is not everyone also admitting that SBs do exist?
Granted, probably rare.
Or does that all simply depend on the private deal between a guy and a gal?

new2thescene · 06-18-2019, 05:42 PM

I have somewhat of a related question. How do you talk those chicks on the maistream(match-pof-such) dating sites into a sugar daddy relationship? I have an ex girl friend that i still can't get her out of my mind and i kinda want to have that conversation to get a few last bangs out of her before i move out of state. She was kinda a gold digger with limited options and she had to monkey branch to a lower class guy after she told me she cheated

I'd love to find a sugar baby to see several times a month. This site is starting to run out of the younger ladies. I was thinking all the uumm escorts moved to the sd sites so they could choice who they wanted to sleep with.

RocketSurgeon · 06-18-2019, 06:38 PM

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Originally Posted by new2thescene

I have somewhat of a related question. How do you talk those chicks on the maistream(match-pof-such) dating sites into a sugar daddy relationship?

They'll often mention something in their profile like "looking for a sugar daddy", or "looking for a mutually beneficial relationship", or "I'm into older men and would like somebody who can take care of me". If nothing like that is in the profile, then you can generally assume she wants a SD if you're 50 and she's 20 and she "likes" your profile or swipes right or whatever. She'll usually bring it up as soon as you start chatting, after mutually liking each other's profiles.

That said, I wouldn't mention sugar daddy or money to any of these women who like my profile ... unless they bring it up first. I've dated much younger women from dating apps/sites who just liked my profile/pics, or were into older men, or were horny, or wanted to get impregnated. I've also dated women from the dating apps who just wanted to date a mature, nice-looking guy who had money, a job/business, nice cars, planes, helicopters, and big houses.

I have never mentioned anything in my profile in dating apps (like Tinder, POF, Bumble, AFF, *Cupid, etc) about being a sugar daddy, but that's something you could try. Only reason I haven't done so is that I haven't needed to.

new2thescene · 06-18-2019, 06:57 PM

I'm on some dating site for over 2 years and i'm not getting anywhere on it. The chicks can limit what type of reply they will accept - age.. income ...edu so i get blocked before i can get in touch with them. Chick my age are not my type.

Just raised my income on that dating site to lure the sugars

RocketSurgeon · 06-18-2019, 07:07 PM

The only one I've had lots of SD luck on is Tinder. There are tons of women on there looking for sugar daddies. POF is no good because of the age contingency setup. Bumble is supposedly full of horny women who want to fuck (according to the guy who lives next door to me), and I joined again recently. We shall see.

royamcr · 06-18-2019, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by new2thescene

I have somewhat of a related question. How do you talk those chicks on the maistream(match-pof-such) dating sites into a sugar daddy relationship? I have an ex girl friend that i still can't get her out of my mind and i kinda want to have that conversation to get a few last bangs out of her before i move out of state. She was kinda a gold digger with limited options and she had to monkey branch to a lower class guy after she told me she cheated

I'd love to find a sugar baby to see several times a month. This site is starting to run out of the younger ladies. I was thinking all the uumm escorts moved to the sd sites so they could choice who they wanted to sleep with.

It doesn't help that the site requires a girl to be 21 to sign up, and signups for all are suspended for now. Bet the elder gals love all that.

new2thescene · 06-20-2019, 04:32 PM

Yea, i miss the days of the 18-21 escorts and current rates seem pricey with the current trend of being full figured by 80's standards. I've been on the scene for a good 20 years

Yea, i'm on pof and it is a complete waste of my time. I faved a bunch of chicks and never heard back from them. I get messages from scammers only. I'm debating email all of my faves with a suggestion of money for a date.

I'm on some sd site and i seems the girls have interest in me but they don't want to send the first contact info to get in touch off line. Is there a free site to search? That site wants $50 for the first month. I can't swallow my pride.

Yea, i joined tinder and yea there are sugars. Do i swipe and wait for contact or what? I'm swiping on like 30% of the chicks and in 3 days have got no replies. No pic on my profile btw. There has been a good 6 sugar-chicks with contact info for their ig accounts.
My big question..... i'm going by to talk to my ex g/f 's sister to ask about my ex. I kinda want to ask about sugaring my ex out. Anyone able to drop some spending money for another chance on base?

RocketSurgeon · 06-21-2019, 12:33 AM

pof is a waste of time. Full of fake profiles, and the real women are not that active. Also have the 15 yr boundary issue.

Tinder has lots of potential SBs, but mostly a waste of time. Lots of fake profiles, lots of scammers, and most of the ones claiming to be SBs are really just scammers or trying to sell pics/vids.

Seeking is your best bet, but you'll need to pay. Also, Seeking has gone downhill in the past year and isn't quite the goldmine it used to be.

jm7501 · 06-21-2019, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by RocketSurgeon

The only one I've had lots of SD luck on is Tinder. There are tons of women on there looking for sugar daddies. POF is no good because of the age contingency setup. Bumble is supposedly full of horny women who want to fuck (according to the guy who lives next door to me), and I joined again recently. We shall see.

What kind of photos do you guys use for tinder and bumble? Do you use yours?
Sorry. Just read your previous message