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Originally Posted by kushella
The most racist, incorrect thing I've ever heard lol
You can blame comments like the one above for one of the many reasons why we don't. It's not sexy at all even if you think it's hot (for whatever reason). Building a man's ego at the expense of your own dignity is weird and uncomfortable on a lot of levels but even moreso when it involves your race. You don't tell white providers to scream out "I want your white cock" so why do it to the ebony girls? Why not just "I really want your cock?" Guys have actually asked me to let them slap me and hold me by the throat while they called me the n word like fam.....you got some reeeaaal deep rooted issues you need to work on if that's what you like lol.
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Well kudos for having limits and trying to retain some dignity.
I remember a while back an AA provider who used to post here a lot talked about how one of her first clients had a swastika and the words "white supremacy" tattooed across his stomach and how "bed wench fantasies" paid her bills, while at the same time talking about stereotypes of black women being viewed as "overly sexualized". It was weird and kind of contradictory to me. When I asked her about it her words almost verbatim were that she was a whore and as long as they paid her they could do whatever they want. Lol.
edit: Had to go back and look. Adrienne Baptiste was her name. Looks like her account was disabled though and she may have left the hobby.