Avoidance sex....do you do it and is it better than "normal" sex?

[ammonite]

Ok, so you have a business deadline, or an exam to cram for, or anything hanging over your head that has to get done. I wonder how many of us engage in some type of sexual activity to avoid the exam, deadline, etc., or at least spend as little time as possible doing it?

I know from my personality type and past history that I do. It's one of the main reasons I had a 2.4 GPA as an undergrad. I tend to choose sex over doing important RW tasks, although I always seem to get them finished, albeit at the very last minute. I know that there are a lot of people that would always get their "responsibilities" finished, then have sex as a reward; I'm just not that type of person.

I find "avoidance" sex very intense and exciting (manic almost), and in many ways better than a pre-meditated session for example. I had a gf that was like that. We would literally be doing doggie while she was typing the last of her term paper on her laptop. Or we would be banging a couple of hours before I had to give a major business presentation.
Just wondered how many other people are like that

[Rossboss]

How about banging during a phone call.

[Guest040414]

God!! That's an awesome term "avoidance" sex... That's why I should really get a maid... NOTHING gets done on the weekends at home.... Lol.

[HUMP!]

Maybe that explains the chicks texting while we're BCD. Maybe I should feel complimented.

[Doglegg]

Yep engaged in avoidance sex quite often. Especially when avoiding the Ex.

[Amadeus25]

Originally Posted by Jackie.M

God!! That's an awesome term "avoidance" sex... That's why I should really get a maid... NOTHING gets done on the weekends at home.... Lol.

Thats a great bartering strategy. I'll clean your house if you let me fuck you!!! LOL!!!

[davetheone]

Lol. Avoidance... I would get road blocked on a paper/assignment. Id go have aviodance sex instead of finishing it then and now. Well then now im good ill hurry and complete it..
I did have a chic who had the hots for me. Though not interested she wasnt bad ooking. Cleaned houses for extra cash when she needed d it.
Well, I only paid for the house cleaning. Everytime she cleaned I fukd her before,during, and/or after. Not always that many times. It was great she cleaned. I had avoidance sex in reference to not cleaning up my place lol..

[Sofia Simms]

Originally Posted by ammonite

I tend to choose sex over doing important RW tasks, although I always seem to get them finished, albeit at the very last minute. I know that there are a lot of people that would always get their "responsibilities" finished, then have sex as a reward; I'm just not that type of person.

I find "avoidance" sex very intense and exciting (manic almost), and in many ways better than a pre-meditated session for example.

Neither am I....although in my case, I wouldn't coin it avoidance sex, I think it's just "I'm too lazy for anything but sex" sex

And then when I get my stuff done last minute, I just reward myself with more sex!

[Sofia Simms]

Originally Posted by Rossboss

How about banging during a phone call.

That one we call, "sensory interference" sex...

[Willen]

I hesitate to respond, due both to my high regard for Ammonite and also becuase my answer will confirm what those few of you who track my posts have suspected--I'm a major league geek. But, in the interest of being honest, here goes.

Overall I'm an industrial strength procrastinator. And, as you all know, a fairly serious f***tard. But I can honestly say I've never chosen the old in-and-out over some serious professional activity I needed to do. Or a big deal family event.

I hope it's obvious I'm not expecting any hero medals for this. Nor am I trying to belittle anyone else (least of all Ammonite.) In fact, my only reason for posting at all is to contribute to the dialogue I take it Ammonite is really interested in stimulating. That is to say, many of us hobbyists are here because the sensual realm compels us to be here. Where, if anywhere do we draw our personal boundary lines?

In my case, my tolerance/willingness for activities extends quite far beyond the norm. But I do discipline my hobby activity in light of my larger life/priorities.

By the way, to the degree this still comes across as sanctimonious, readers are free to flip birds at the screen, PM me with trash, or whatever.

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by ammonite

I find "avoidance" sex very intense and exciting (manic almost), and in many ways better than a pre-meditated session for example.

Same here. It's a big turn on for myself.

[Guest101314]

Hmmm.. I dont know that I've ever had "avoidance sex"... well at least not consciously.

I have been in that doggy position while trying to do a couple other things... yeah, those other things didn't get any attention. LOL

[davetheone]

Originally Posted by Tracy Aine

Hmmm.. I dont know that I've ever had "avoidance sex"... well at least not consciously.

I have been in that doggy position while trying to do a couple other things... yeah, those other things didn't get any attention. LOL

Well if it wasnt txting then thats ok. If it was lol why and what were u avioding lol.

[Guest101314]

LOL I definitely wasn't texting... it was something with my hands though.. and supposed to watch a movie.. I don't even remember the movie and my friend had to take over the other thing... hahahah

[davetheone]

Originally Posted by Tracy Aine

LOL I definitely wasn't texting... it was something with my hands though.. and supposed to watch a movie.. I don't even remember the movie and my friend had to take over the other thing... hahahah

Ok hands free devices from now on for you young lady.