Frustrating

[nerdy123]

Between NCNS, and providers refusing to follow up on PM's this site is driving me nuts! I can't see providers because I have no referrals. I can't get referrals because no one will see me, or agree to see me then flake, or don't answer calls or pm's, or have no availability when i do even though it's in their posted hours, etc..

I'm willing to spend some cash. I am a nice man, a disabled vet, but this "Hobby" which is supposed to relieve stress has caused more than it has relieved!

Any advise?

P.S. ladies, please take no offense. Some have contacted me earnestly, and I admit unwillingness on my part to go to dangerous incalls or to make appointments with people I am simply not into. Maybe this is my problem.

[rockerrick]

You have one good referral in Amelia . Be patient and try and get some more . Try some newbie friendly providers 'til you have more refs . I recommend p411 it opens doors , and you can search for newbie friendly providers with the advanced search feature . Have patience , before long you'll have more ladies contacting you than you'll ever be able to afford . Good Luck !

[Joe Buck]

Amelia is a good referal indeed. Rick is right your just gonna have to be patient and continue to contact the ladies that are newbie friendly.

[phillyintexas]

Originally Posted by nerdy123

Between NCNS, and providers refusing to follow up on PM's this site is driving me nuts! I can't see providers because I have no referrals. I can't get referrals because no one will see me, or agree to see me then flake, or don't answer calls or pm's, or have no availability when i do even though it's in their posted hours, etc..

I'm willing to spend some cash. I am a nice man, a disabled vet, but this "Hobby" which is supposed to relieve stress has caused more than it has relieved!

Any advise?

P.S. ladies, please take no offense. Some have contacted me earnestly, and I admit unwillingness on my part to go to dangerous incalls or to make appointments with people I am simply not into. Maybe this is my problem.

Here's a post I made when I first got into the hobby. It worked for me and it might for you. One word -- patience. Godd luck. http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=483259&highlight=

[Guest061613]

If you do not have the patience.
But good to have even if you do.

[Secret Encounters]

I am available and also know my gf Jessxxx is available if u like more of a petite woman.

[DallasRain]

I would glady see you baby...be that way soon!

[MsPrittiKitti]

P411 is awesome

[Guest061613]

Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

P411 is awesome

And should be the first women you see after becoming a member. She was for me and I was a repeat a fender. I am salivating just thinking about her.

[MsPrittiKitti]

Its a work in progress ...
And we're working on it

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by Rascal!

Amelia is a good referal indeed. Rick is right your just gonna have to be patient and continue to contact the ladies that are newbie friendly.

+1

[Laz]

I had the same issues when I started. P411 helped.

[Joe Buck]

+1 MPK, P411 is awsome indeed.

[Hottassamelia]

Aww..Mahalo friends
I'm so sorry you have been frustrated baby..I did get back with some ladies while I was in Hawaii who had contacted me looking for a reference,I told them all the same thing,that you are very sweet,very clean and oh so much fun

Ladies, dont miss out on this gentleman!!

...and by all means, if they still dont get back to you, Call Me. Ill take good care of you.

[Hottassamelia]

Oh yeah, pm your email and Ill help you get set up on p411....