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Originally Posted by echo.2112
Guys-I get it but fucking cream pies w/a working girl? Not judging but please be more careful!
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Yea, I know. Snacky Jr's desires won out in the heat of the moment. We've all been there with irl chicks or in the hobby. I'm sure the vast majority of guys can't honestly say that they've strapped up every single time they bang a new irl chick before they both go and get tested.
The way I see it is living life involves managing risks. The chance of catching something from a provider here is only marginally higher than a one-night stand from a bar. Obv I'm not talking abt tweaker street walkers with lesions all over themselves. I'm talking about courtesians here who have a financially vested interest in staying healthy.
Why do I say only marginally higher? Let's just speak on HSV2 for example because that's one that I am most afraid of catching (aside from HIV). The odds of a female with HSV2 (asymptomatic and/or not having an outbreak) transmission to a male is around 4% for each instance of unprotected sex. It goes up to abt 20% if she's having an outbreak. Obviously don't fuck a chick with lesions on her pussy, but this is to illustrate that not only is transmission not guaranteed, but it is in the minority.
I'd be more afraid of an irl chick who unknowingly may be an asymptomatic carrier of HSV2 that becomes my girlfriend, because we will be fucking thousands of times and at 4% roll of the dice, it's likely to happen from sheer volume. Having rough sex or fuckathons also raise the odds, which are more likely with a girlfriend. With providers we're on the clock and we're all cheap.
There is also a chance of transmitting HSV2 even WITH protection. Imagine a chick with an outbreak on her labia, and she's grinding on top of you and rubbing the lesion on your manscaped razor bumped pelvic area. There was an infographic chart I recently saw somewhere from a research study that had a matrix of all of the scenarios and percentages (M2F, F2M, asymptomatic, symptomatic, outbreak, no outbreak, condoms, no condoms) that was very insightful.
With all that said, I am NOT AT ALL encouraging practicing unsafe sex. CFS SHOULD ALWAYS BE THE NORM. I am just providing context with the scientifically researched data out there. I can literally count on one hand the providers I've creampied. I never ask providers for BB. The few times have just been in the heat of the moment. I've had countless unprotected sex with irl chicks in my life and haven't even had a case of the clap (knock on wood). Then there are also virgins who caught HIV from their first fling.
Lastly, if a person knowingly transmits the herps/HIV, they can be criminally AND civily liable. If you ask the provider/client if they are clean and they lie, and you end up getting it, you have recourse under the law. Be responsible and get tested regularly!