Telling an SO or another provider your info. for safety?

[haya1300]

I'm not a fan of someone else knowing what it is I do, or whom I'm seeing. I declined seeing someone I sent a msg to through P411 when she said she would need my last name and verify it on my DL. I said No Thanks, stating that my 20 or so Okays on P411 from ladies with pages of reviews should be enough to verify I am who I say I am, and ensure her safety, and she is free to contact any one of them.

I respect her for wanting to keep herself safe, but I also respect keeping a lower profile for whom I visit, and dont need others knowing it.

Cheers

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

Its just really nice when the safe call doesn't occur, maybe all those ladies did it while changing in the bathroom so I wouldn't notice.

Um that is the whole point. She wants you to know that if you act up someone will come and kick your ass!

.... I'm just guessing...

[Energy]

OK folks, sorry but I'm new here and need to be "edumacated".....what is an "SO", and who does he/she work for?

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by Energy

OK folks, sorry but I'm new here and need to be "edumacated".....what is an "SO", and who does he/she work for?

Either boyfriend or hubby depending on the lady's situation......

[London Rayne]

"Significant Other."

[FatBastard]

Had a provider ask me to hand her purse to her. It was unusually heavy. She was packing a pistol. I guess that was her way of ensuring her safety.

[London Rayne]

Ha!! Bye Notanewbie!

I am now on the Top 10 poster's list. I demand PR access now!!!

[rrabbit6926]

Looks like your we'll on you way up that list girl .

[shorty]

Just 9 more ladies or men to do before your #1!!

[London Rayne]

I am about to knock off St. Chris and Ike lol. 2 Mods get the bump lol.

[rrabbit6926]

I think I know who on that list your gunning for...

[shorty]

Boy those sure were some quickies London!!

[SneakyCancer]

if the idea behind it starts with safety 1st and ends with safety 1st.....im willing to have my info handed over....but i still don't like the agencies holding on to it. this is a hacking society/generation. security is critical to many parts of our livelihoods. heck my job even has a facebook page and found me. so i dare not keep another door open to be sought out. that is the beauty of a secret....or so we think.

[Cpalmson]

Originally Posted by haya1300

I'm not a fan of someone else knowing what it is I do, or whom I'm seeing. I declined seeing someone I sent a msg to through P411 when she said she would need my last name and verify it on my DL. I said No Thanks, stating that my 20 or so Okays on P411 from ladies with pages of reviews should be enough to verify I am who I say I am, and ensure her safety, and she is free to contact any one of them.

I respect her for wanting to keep herself safe, but I also respect keeping a lower profile for whom I visit, and dont need others knowing it.

Cheers

Very well said. While I will never try to dissuade a provider from screening or verifying me, I will not go through a process that reveals too much private information. I will never reveal my last name. I will never give out a phone number other than my hobby phone #. I have "okays' and "vouches" from numerous providers. I am always respectful and courteous in all my communications. While I may not be a "volume" client, I believe I have a good enough track record without having to reveal certain private information. If my failure to provide the required information keeps me from seeing a certain provider, I move on with no ill feelings.

[DallasRain]

lol--CONGRATS sweet London...catch me if you can!!!!!!!!


Being a hobbyist is like being a provider...the more reviews you have given for reputable girls ,the less info is needed when screening!
{I have seen guys just by seeing their board handles & checking with their provider on their review list ]...

{It is kinda like when a guy sees my name & london's name{he knows 100% we will be legit}