I'm back, explanations, apologies, and a rant.

[Guest021115]

p.s. If you ever need a friend girl, you know my number! Please don't hesitate to use it!!

[gary5912]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Gary, Staci's comments are appreciated. She and I are very cool with one another. Her post was by no means a hijack.

I love me some Stacks. We've had some great chats on the phone and with God as my witness girl, the next time you are in KC, we will get together over dinner or drinks!

well I must have missed something because l read what you first posted and it did not refer to her at all my mistake

[royamcr]

The funny thing about the Mens Locker room is there isn't that much said about anything. I have gone a couple of months without paid access or review access and when I get access again I'm like wow, I didn't miss a thing. So it is funny to me that a girl will go to the trouble to pay for access or do fake reviews or whatever to get what amounts to nothing really. I suppose the private comments/and ROS on reviews are more informative though. I do wish the board would allow anyone with paid access see the ROS and private comments, I don't see the harm in that. But the Mens only area should be locked down 10 times more than it is. Fuck you gotta suck a 100s of dicks for a whole year to get access to the ladies only area. It should be at least a little harder than swiping a CC to get access to the mens only areas.

[Guest021115]

Originally Posted by royamcr

The funny thing about the Mens Locker room is there isn't that much said about anything. I have gone a couple of months without paid access or review access and when I get access again I'm like wow, I didn't miss a thing. So it is funny to me that a girl will go to the trouble to pay for access or do fake reviews or whatever to get what amounts to nothing really. I suppose the private comments/and ROS on reviews are more informative though. I do wish the board would allow anyone with paid access see the ROS and private comments, I don't see the harm in that. But the Mens only area should be locked down 10 times more than it is. Fuck you gotta suck a 100s of dicks for a whole year to get access to the ladies only area. It should be at least a little harder than swiping a CC to get access to the mens only areas.

Much like a gent who's curious about a provider...I guess it's just the "unknown" that makes us long to see it! lol

[Guest021115]

Originally Posted by gary5912

well I must have missed something because l read what you first posted and it did not refer to her at all my mistake

It wasn't about me at all...I sympathized with her through my own experiences, that's all. If she didn't want feedback I doubt she would have made such a heartfelt post, know what I mean?

[gary5912]

hell I think they should let the girls write reviews on the clients lol

[ElumEno]

I know that I'm one of the guys that you feel hi-jacked your review... I am sorry that you feel that way.
but this is Escort Client Community Information Exchange and exchanging information is what we where doing.

A member asked question in private and others and myself replied in private...
it was asked and answered in private for a reason, and by your own admission,
if you had not read the private comments then you would not have been so upset by them.
none of those comments was ever meant to be hurtful.. but by you doing what you did is what caused a lot of that hurt.

As for your punishment.. we all know that the two weeks was nothing, at the very least it should have been 90 days.
But your crucifiction was more punishment then any amount of 'vacation' you could have received.
As for the hate mail that you have had to endure, There will always be cowards that will hide behind their glass screens and throw rocks.
WE all make mistakes, it is up to you to learn from this and move on.. you are stronger then this and will make it through.


Now the above is my opinion as it goes for the hobby... as for my personal feelings.

One of the hardest things in life to find is good friends... when you add in the hobby it becomes even harder.
Stacy.. I am pride that you are one of my friends, not only in the Fucks for Bucks World but outside it too.
Even though you have done something very dumb, you are still one of the most intelligent, straight forward, reliable to fault women that I know.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Elum, you might want to revise part of your post.

[OLindsay]

Originally Posted by Staci Stacked

Honey, let this hurtful bs just roll right off your back and stop losing sleep over it! It's just not worth it...

I know exactly how you are feeling though...
Some people in this world are just downright cruel.

When I was a "big girl" I once had someone email me and ask if I was charging by the pound! lol Clearly, I wasn't his cup of tea, and that's fine, but to think he ACTUALLY took the time out of his day to sit down, make a fake email, and send me that message just to hurt me pretty much blew my mind, and my ego. lol

In the end, I came to the conclusion that there are just GENUINE assholes out there in this world, and when you make yourself a public figure you'd better be ready to handle the ramifications of such! But for every 1 jerk there are 10 more guys around that love and adore you! Concentrate on those fine gents!

In closing, I just wanted to say that I wasn't aware of your suspension, or the reasons behind it (I did, however, notice you weren't active on the board), but I think it was very brave of you to step forward and admit where you are wrong. ATTA GIRL!

Any provider who says she's NEVER thought about doing the same thing, just to see what is being said about her BCD, is lying through their teeth. We're all curious, of course!

(Also, just ignore the rude comments you are bound to get on this post. You said what you had to say...let it be.)

Love ya girlie!

Staci

Thanks you Stacey,for those strong words of wisdom that you gave sins of flesh.
You are an excellent mentor for all of us.
Xoxo,
Lindsay

[BigDeal]

Stacy...Ive never seen you and I feel like you have your heart in the right place...and this will pass!

I do hope that any provider that thinks they want to try the same thing....be warned that its not the suspension that will hurt it will be the crucification that follows

Take a deep breath and move forward dont look back...lesson learned

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Oh and by the way, does anyone know if there is some sort of award for longest post ever? I'm pretty sure I might be a contender.

[CuteOldGuy]

Hi Stacy! Welcome back! Ignore the haters, you've fessed up and paid your dues. Hang in there, doll!

[bigryan222]

Sins, you may not be mentioned in iso threads often, but your name has always been used in positive ways on this site. That said, I agree that your suspension was too little. I also think is in poor taste for you to mention emails or texts with an individual by screen name even if it is the admin.

To be blunt, I think you let your insecurities get in the way of your business. I also think this thread is a poor desicion. It is half apology, half attack on an admin, with a bunch of justifications everywhere. Go back to your normal posts, don't worry about the other girls, and make the guys (and girls if you like them) happy with the service you are known for.

I think it is good for many here to give you support openly, but IMHO it should be in this thread.

[The DarkSide]

Sins it took freakin balls or brass ones to come out like you did! Congrats and dont worry you are loved here and looking foward to that triple lindy!

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Originally Posted by ElamEno

I know that I'm one of the guys that you feel hi-jacked your review... I am sorry that you feel that way.
but this is Escort Client Community Information Exchange and exchanging information is what we where doing.

The average provider ad receives roughly 300-400 views. I checked.
The review in question received 1,300 views.

Four lucky women got more advertising exposure from your post than they could have gotten in a month of advertising.

Your only excuse is that "oops, I wasn't supposed to see it"? What about the 1,300 potential customers who rather than focusing on the review I worked for and I earned were instead re-directed to four women who did nothing more than happen to be your favorites. While I was "undercover", I looked at your posting history. SHOCKINGLY, I couldn't find a single instance where you dropped MY name on some other provider's review.

And really Elum, was the coloring and highlighting of ECCIE's name necessary? Do you really think I am so stupid that I don't even know what website I'm posting on. Grow up. In my original post I freely and without reservation admit to the mistakes I made, and freely accept the consequences both tangible and intangible that result from my poor decisions. I am well aware that I have lost respect and trust within the community. I am well aware that I will likely be permanently off the list for some men. I am well aware that at least for the immediate future, any reviews I get will be regarded iwth a high degree of suspicion, and from this point forward, any review coming from a newcomer will surely be subjected to greater scrutiny. I am also well aware that I have absolutely no one to blame but myself for that. These are the consequences I brought on myself and no one, not you, nor anyone else is to blame for that.

Now, put on your big boy pants and try and at least recognize the fact that advertising for other woman on a provider's review is just about as disrespectful as it gets. Having read the entire thread, I don't believe you intended to be disrespectful, nor do I believe you intended to hurt me. But guess what? You did. Are you capable of taking even the slightest modicum of responsibility, or is that high horse you are sitting on just a little too tall?