Do U Trust Providers Who Do Incall Only?

[warrior13]

In the escort world, I'm always suspicious of strange activity. Such as when providers don't wanna do business with African American clients and when they don't wanna see guys under 30 or under 40. I'm not saying that this is always true, but it seems like escorts who don't wanna d0 business with African Americans or any guy under 30 or 40 are doing this because they are scared that African Americans and any guy under 30 or 40 will be most likely to retaliate if an escort tries to rip them off.

Now u also got providers who do incall only. Again I'm not saying that this is always true, but it seems like a lot of providers who do incall only are doing this because their pictures are fake and instead of doing an outcall and coming to a clients house showing her true self she would rather have the client come to her place, she opens the door to reveal her true self which is undesirable and hopes that the client is desperate enough to do business with her anyway. She knows that if she does an outcall and rings a clients doorbell and the client looks out the window and finds an undesirable girl that looks nothing like her pictures, the client is not gonna answer the door. Have any of u guys ever visited a provider who does incall only? Tell us what the experience was like. Was it a ripoff or was it normal?

[Rockydoc]

I think outcall is riskier. i can think of other reasons to limit clients. Perhaps lack of respect /rudenessis more common in younger clients, perhaps. Older guys may be more appreciative or more stable financially.

[shorty]

I think its more of a safety issue more than anything else. They know there surroundings and able to look out the window to make sure LE isn't rolling up. Personally it doesn't matter to me but the only thing I'm thinking about if I go to a Incall is the dried up cum stains on the bed. Highly doubt ladies are changing sheets or bedspreads for each client.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by shorty

...the only thing I'm thinking about if I go to a Incall is the dried up cum stains on the bed...

Gee Shorty, that's almost as appetizing as your thread about providers on their period.

For most providers, incall is done primarily for safety, IMO.

It also takes twice as long to do an outcall. That's why my outcalls are a 2-hour minimum!

For example, the great special I'm running this week to help raise money for a backyard fence for my 2 Doberman's is for incall only. Sorry...couldn't pass up the opportunity to throw that in there!

[Tfields]

So Ginger is a packing provider with powerful pooches.

[Moto1971]

I think incall is safer for both parties as well, I have twice walked away from an incall because of either I did not like what I saw or a bait and switch. And as far as the AA thing and the age thing that topic has been on here before. Some girls just have preferences, just like men can't fault them for it. And you also have to think that if they limit the clients they can try to be protected from LE and Pimps.

[shorty]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Gee Shorty, that's almost as appetizing as your thread about providers on their period.

So I guess I'm not coming across as sounding Sexy, A Player, or the next Don Juan Huh

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Tfields

So Ginger is a packing provider with powerful pooches.

Nahhhh...they're total sweethearts.

[MsEboniAmazon]

I started in this "business" doing incalls only. That was for my personal safety. I felt more comfortable in a place that I had chosen which in return gave me a sense of "controlling the situation". Now I have learned that if a client is screened properly, then scheduling an incall or outcall shouldn't a problem. It's just a matter of preference for both parties.


Now as far as chosing AA clients, that is strictly a provider's choice. And you can't really argue with that, but you might not be missing out on anything! This community is filled with providers of all races and sizes, so keep looking until you find what you need! I am a ebony provider, but I don't discriminate against any potential client.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Nahhhh...they're total sweethearts.

Ahhhhhhhhhh.... I hope they get their fence. I ran a special once to help pay for one of my beloved chihuahua's huge vet bills.

Going back to the subject....I respect your opinion, warrior13, but it is simplistic to suggest that a provider will not see a certain segment of clients because she has an evil intention in mind. Where on Earth would you get that idea?

There are many reputable ladies on ECCIE who prefer the gentlemen to visit them. I see everyone, black, white, red, pink, purple, and green. (Where are those Martians? I'm ready to be invaded.) If I was going to exclude any race it would be Pakistani, because nearly all of my experiences with East Indian men from Pakistan have been bad. They've usually been rough and cruel, see the provider as their "property" for the time paid and have little respect for her comfort. Yet I don't even blackball them. I take each on a case-by-case basis, but I'm wary.

Same thing for younger guys. Fellows below 30 in general (NOT all of them) tend to be more insistent about things I'd rather not do, less patient, aggressive, in a hurry, less gentlemanly, more likely to dicker over price, and then to inelegantly pound the heck away. I want to be leisurely GFE, not slam-bam-thank-you-ma'am. Once again, I'll still see them if they present themselves well.

I do incall primarily because that is what most gentleman want. I live well north of Houston (the deep, dark, scary woods) but keep a nice apartment here, which instills a feeling of trust and stability. It's easy to locate, and I've spent a lot of time and money furnishing and stocking my incall, infusing it with my personality, and I've turned it into a comfortable, relaxing oasis with EVERYTHING we need. You don't have the luxury of doing that outcall, or even at an incall in a hotel. A provider can control her environment better with incall, and yes, that has a huge effect on safety, too. The bad guys are much less likely to take advantage of a lady incall, but especially in a private complex with a gate code needed to get in and out and where one scream will bring the neighbors. Part of my decor includes Celtic swords on the wall and a few surprises tucked away here and there, so REALLY not a good idea to mess with the redheaded Amazon with sharp weaponry handy.

However, if the gentleman screens well and is staying at a nice place, I'll go there, no problem, just a slight extra fee for my transportation time. That's another advantage of an incall - convenience. We ladies don't have to get all dressed up and fight Demolition Derby traffic, getting flustered, lost, and anxious. We can sit around dressed down in skimpy lingerie and await your arrival, relaxed, put freshly laundered sheets on the bed, have the wine chilling, prepare a cheese or snack plate (you'll need sustenance for the energy you'll be burning), light the candles, put on some soft music, create a mood.

The ho's doing bait and switch are nearly always at at notels OR making those outcalls you seem to prefer. Unless Arkansas is awfully different from any place else in the USA (I'll try to keep any backwoods redneck hillbilly jokes to myself ), fake photos, scams, and incall-only ladies have no correlation.

[Mr.Chan]

Originally Posted by MsEboniAmazon

I started in this "business" doing incalls only. That was for my personal safety. I felt more comfortable in a place that I had chosen which in return gave me a sense of "controlling the situation". Now I have learned that if a client is screened properly, then scheduling an incall or outcall shouldn't a problem. It's just a matter of preference for both parties.


Now as far as chosing AA clients, that is strictly a provider's choice. And you can't really argue with that, but you might not be missing out on anything! This community is filled with providers of all races and sizes, so keep looking until you find what you need! I am a ebony provider, but I don't discriminate against any potential client.

Ms.Eboni! Where have you been? It is so nice to see you back! I prefer incall as well.

[Lovelyelle_01]

Oh, she's been around, Mr. Chan. Here and there. Being her sneaky, sexy self...

[MsEboniAmazon]

Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

Ms.Eboni! Where have you been? It is so nice to see you back! I prefer incall as well.

Heeeellllooooo Chan!! It's nice to be back....well so to speak! I still reside in NOLA. I've been lurking around, just in a low key fashion. I am coming back to Arkansas VERY soon, but decided not to post ads since it's not exactly a "work" related visit. However, I DO plan to catch up with a few friends and hopefully make a couple new ones. Every girl needs a little playtime on the playground....

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

Oh, she's been around, Mr. Chan. Here and there. Being her sneaky, sexy self...

You've got a gal blushing! I think it's because your lips are blowing kisses at me!!

[uca479]

W13, what makes it wrong for a provider to be selective and only see men above 40 or not see AA men (or Pakistani's for that matter), but ok for a guy to only want to see providers under 25 or not BBW for example?

Regardless of whether you are provider or client, you have preferences and I believe should find the experience enjoyable. By having a mutually enjoyable experience, passion (hence GFE) is heightened.

I for one don't want to spend time with someone who would rather not see me for whatever reason.

[Ginger Doll]

Ditto, UCA479! Couldn't agree more...taste is a very subjective thing and we all have different preferences.