Why no black men?

[SexyKaylen]

+1
Very smart man

Originally Posted by i'va biggen

If I see a ad with no AA I figure she already has one.

[Helicopter206]

Originally Posted by i'va biggen

If I see a ad with no AA I figure she already has one.

I think your saying (AA) also means Management, in a way. She doesn't need any.

[MsElena]

Just because a lady puts "No AA men" in her ad doesn't always mean she has a pimp/boyfriend or husband who's black. Sometimes it just means that she's not into black men.

Some of y'all make this business harder than it needs to be and read way too much into it.

[Guest090920]

Originally Posted by MsElena

Some of y'all make this business harder than it needs to be and read way too much into it.

+1

[KenMonk]

before I even read blah blah blah its not fair blah blah someone directs everyone to the national NBA thread, rinse/repeat the entire conversation, blah blah, internet hulk smash, more anger, more rinse and repeat, a story about some asshole stalker who ruined it for everyone, and more blah blah blah.

This subject has been asked and answered more times than I can remember. Search the site. Its a monthly topic of discussion.

[b@ileythepistol]

Thank you mselena couldn't have said it better

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by malwoody

IMO it's because there are a lot of..I don't know how to frame this other than to say there are some non-street folks on this board who don't get one of the painful realities connected to the industry....

Just like the other world, ours is filled with sterotypes....

Originally Posted by i'va biggen

If I see a ad with no AA I figure she already has one.

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

+1
Very smart man

Originally Posted by Helicopter206

I think your saying (AA) also means Management, in a way. She doesn't need any.

I just love it when folks keep making my point...again...and again and again...
Funny thing is, I don't think they even realize they're doing so.....

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by MsElena

Just because a lady puts "No AA men" in her ad doesn't always mean she has a pimp/boyfriend or husband who's black. Sometimes it just means that she's not into black men.

Some of y'all make this business harder than it needs to be and read way too much into it.

Originally Posted by KenMonk

before I even read blah blah blah its not fair blah blah someone directs everyone to the national NBA thread, rinse/repeat the entire conversation, blah blah, internet hulk smash, more anger, more rinse and repeat, a story about some asshole stalker who ruined it for everyone, and more blah blah blah.

This subject has been asked and answered more times than I can remember. Search the site. Its a monthly topic of discussion.

Originally Posted by b@ileythepistol

Thank you mselena couldn't have said it better

Now that's better....it appears that we actually have a few Adults present...

[NoahScape]

Originally Posted by dirty dog

the real question is why we have to have this discussion every 3 weeks.

I guess when the mother ship sees post counts start to drop, they plunk this one in once again. It's always good for the clicks.

[NoahScape]

Originally Posted by MsElena

Just because a lady puts "No AA men" in her ad doesn't always mean she has a pimp/boyfriend or husband who's black. Sometimes it just means that she's not into black men.

Some of y'all make this business harder than it needs to be and read way too much into it.

"He's my next of kin...
He's a mex-i-kin"

Apologies to Zappa...

[eriktheredd]

Maybe they don't want to run into their old Pimp or they don't want to cross the business life with there real life flings........ i.e. they won't date them but they will mess with them outside of the business..... I'm waiting for a certain hand tool(used in Westerns).

[i'va biggen]

Originally Posted by malwoody

I just love it when folks keep making my point...again...and again and again...
Funny thing is, I don't think they even realize they're doing so.....

I am seriously glad you have a point.

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by dirty dog

the real question is why we have to have this discussion every 3 weeks.

The reason it keeps coming up is because more and more black guys are discovering that more and more ladies in the business are becoming off limits to them. When they're not the ones doing anything wrong, in their minds they're thinking, WTH? The ones who keep the stereotypes strong are the ones who seem to be getting to the providers first and literally fucking it up for everybody.

Providers who don't screen well seem to attract the worst of the bunch. I've hobbied for years in many places all over the country, and I'm as black as they come (well, not THAT black..average complexion and all :cheesy, but you can't find one single provider that I've seen that can say I've done anything bad to them. Not a single a one. Then again, I'm not a representation of all black clients.

It's easy to come to this board and rip this subject to shreds and tell the world how tired of it you are. If that's the case, chances are the block out doesn't apply to you. Black hobbyists enter this business and see ad after ad basically telling them to go to hell, and they haven't done anything wrong. How are they supposed to feel? Then they have to read and hear, "Get over it", "Quit complaining" from people who are unaffected by it. That only adds to the frustration.

[KenMonk]

Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

The reason it keeps coming up is because more and more black guys are discovering that more and more ladies in the business are becoming off limits to them. When they're not the ones doing anything wrong, in their minds they're thinking, WTH? The ones who keep the stereotypes strong are the ones who seem to be getting to the providers first and literally fucking it up for everybody.

Providers who don't screen well seem to attract the worst of the bunch. I've hobbied for years in many places all over the country, and I'm as black as they come (well, not THAT black..average complexion and all :cheesy, but you can't find one single provider that I've seen that can say I've done anything bad to them. Not a single a one. Then again, I'm not a representation of all black clients.

It's easy to come to this board and rip this subject to shreds and tell the world how tired of it you are. If that's the case, chances are the block out doesn't apply to you. Black hobbyists enter this business and see ad after ad basically telling them to go to hell, and they haven't done anything wrong. How are they supposed to feel? Then they have to read and hear, "Get over it", "Quit complaining" from people who are unaffected by it. That only adds to the frustration.

Don't think I've ever seen a lady's ad state "Black guys can go to hell", but maybe I'm not looking in the right places.

At least you didn't internet hulk smash in this post so you're getting better in that department.

[b4life]

Does NO AA mean that black dick and money isn't good enough for ya. Or that you can't overcome your phobias in life because you've seen too many music videos that portray a lifestyle that's mostly far beyond most people's means.