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					Originally Posted by  Lexxxy
					 
				 
				Hobbiests do you want to know when someone is trying to get in the  way of your dates? 
			
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Guys should know that info if this reference system is to have any credibility. If I send two ref's to a provider and one of them is blocking me then I should know who is doing that.  If a provider is going to demand ref's in order to see her then she should be willing to provide ref's to other providers when asked.  Fortunately I haven't had any issues with using ref's and they have helped me.