To the Providers: have you ever wonder whatever happened to that guy....

[Tara Evans]

My thoughts too. 3 yrs? You can't even bump something 30 days old.

[Tony Patella]

Originally Posted by Tara Evans

My thoughts too. 3 yrs? You can't even bump something 30 days old.

#13 - In our review forums, be mindful of the 'maturity' of threads you are posting to, ie. the date of the last item posted. We ask that you refrain from posting to a review in which the last post was made 30 or more days ago. Some exceptions may apply if you are providing relevant, valuable or updated information about the provider, but as a general rule of thumb, this can best be accomplished by writing a new review altogether and avoiding the bumping of old ones. This applies to our review forums, in particular, as discussion threads are often allowed to flow for an unspecified length of time.

[Tara Evans]

Oh hmmm. That's funny if I were too post on a thread that's old I get flamed for it? Where were you then Tony with your mods rule then? Just like too throw certain people under the buss. I am quite aware of them. I have been here longer than you

[zorlando]

I had a session with a well reviewed provider that was so torrid that it really messed both of us up and we spoke every day the following week to talk about our experience. It was clearly the best sex we both had in our private or hobby life and we mutually agreed based our personal/vocational lives that we should not see each other again.

This was the toughest decisions I have To make by far in this hobby and in many ways has haunted me. The provider reached out 3 weeks after we agreed not to see each other and proposed a day together, no money exchanged, just a full day of full fun.... I decided that I was potentially putting my personal situation in jeopardy and decided against it....

IMO, this was the only logical and mature way to put this raging fire out, but there is not a week that does not go by that I don't think of her.

[Tony Patella]

Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Oh hmmm. That's funny if I were too post on a thread that's old I get flamed for it? Where were you then Tony with your mods rule then? Just like too throw certain people under the buss. I am quite aware of them. I have been here longer than you

Relax Tara...the post was meant for general information, since a lot of folks aren't aware of the stated policy. And that seven months of tenure you have on me must make you an expert?

[Tara Evans]

Originally Posted by Tony Patella

Relax Tara...the post was meant for general information, since a lot of folks aren't aware of the stated policy. And that seven months of tenure you have on me must make you an expert?

Dosent matter if it was 3 days or 3 months. I still would know more

[Tony Patella]

Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Dosent matter if it was 3 days or 3 months. I still would know more

Well, if active time on the board is your sole criteria for knowledge, then let's subtract your board imposed and self imposed exiles from here to calculate cumulative wisdom.

Oh wait...I guess you're infinite knowledge of board policies and procedures wasn't enough to keep you from being banned in the past?

[Torito]

This current lover's spat has nothing to do with the subject of this thread.
Cool off and get back to the topic or leave it alone.

Torito

[Tara Evans]

Thanks Torito. Some people just like too push peoples buttons.

[TinMan]

Actually, this is one of those topics that is unusual enough that it is good the rules allow it to be resurrected.

I'm one of those guys whose personal situation has dramatically changed my hobby habits the past few years. So many women I'd like to visit or revisit, but just can't devote the time or dollars to do so as often as I like. If any of those ladies are reading this thread, let me publicly say that the old line really does apply to me: "it's not you, it's me."

And also, thanks for the memories from my more active days. They really were as special as they seemed at the time.

[verygood69]

Originally Posted by TinMan

Actually, this is one of those topics that is unusual enough that it is good the rules allow it to be resurrected.

I'm one of those guys whose personal situation has dramatically changed my hobby habits the past few years. So many women I'd like to visit or revisit, but just can't devote the time or dollars to do so as often as I like. If any of those ladies are reading this thread, let me publicly say that the old line really does apply to me: "it's not you, it's me."

And also, thanks for the memories from my more active days. They really were as special as they seemed at the time.

AMEN TinMan!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[SD2011]

To "you know who you are"

as soon as I can...

I'll be back!

[mtabsw]

Sadly we are not a dating site - so I may be guilty of seeing someone once or maybe twice and not repeating. I don't think that's the circumstance under question here.

Yes, I have a small rotation I try to maintain and one problem I've forseen I don't know how to address is this: Life sometimes ends abruptly. I'd like to have a means of contacting my small circle from the beyond so to speak. No one close to me knows I hobby and my wife's only demand when I outed myself to her - after months of discussion and counseling - was simply "Dont tell me about it". I've considered making a list of phone & email and giving it to my attorney -

Thoughts?

[TinMan]

My opinion is that everyone in this hobby knows it will end one of two ways: retirement or death. If I abruptly disappear, I figure most folks are going to say "fair thee well" and go on with their lives. It's not like I want any of them to appear at my funeral.

[SD2011]

Originally Posted by TinMan

My opinion is that everyone in this hobby knows it will end one of two ways: retirement or death. If I abruptly disappear, I figure most folks are going to say "fair thee well" and go on with their lives. It's not like I want any of them to appear at my funeral.

LOL!

too funny