Like others have said, each woman is different and for the ones that enjoy it, I enjoy finding out how THEY like it most... Sometimes just asking is the most direct route but I like to tease my way around the area first, moving my lips and tongue over (not on), lightly petting with my hand (no insertion), then finally lightly manipulating the clit and lips with my tongue to where I get the best reaction... Then adjusting the technique (kicking, flitting, etc) based on her subsequent reactions... If she's getting wet, clenching sheets, getting engorged, I've found the spot and techniques.
I really enjoy exploring what it is that a girl likes, paying attention to the signals and more than happy to ask for guidance. And yes, if you're lucky or skilled enough to bring then to climax, just sit back for a moment and admire your work! Women climax in so many different ways physically and vocally and I find not many things more beautiful and enjoyable than knowing I had a part in that
