Hobby related pet peeves

[Netx9]

• undisclosed pets or roommates!
• mattress on floor (get a cheap frame and box spring)
• general poor tcb, especially if confirmed appointment
• responding to texts, sure, pet peeve, but just hearing the tone/buzz is distracting. I turn off my phone, Pls turn off yours
• empty condom wrappers in trash can - give me the illusion I'm your one and only - at least for this hour
• dated showcase pics, that coupled with recent reviews that don't mention any appearance differences (a combo provider/hobbyist pet peeve).

[Erich711]

Wow, fascinating topic... and I'm trying to figure out where I've been the offender or not.

Been trying very hard to NOT cancel while juggling a RW schedule. Like a lot of us, our windows are fleeting and I truly believe the Ladies know that. Fortunately, I've never incurred the wrath, but have been close. Truly avoidable but NEVER NCNS (Thank you dearly Ladies truly...)

Candidly, the vast majority of Ladies in SA are VERY accommodating and it pays (no pun intended) to be sensitive to that.

I think Sweet Cara FINALLY described some of the "tardiness" of "instant replies"... I don't think the vast majority of bros understand how MANY PMs, EMAILS, and TEXTs each provider gets... (especially after the pack latches on... how does SL call it... oh yeah "Flavor of the Month..") And this is doubly true in today's "answer my text instaneously" mentality when she's juggling several different clients simulataneously...

just a more couple of thoughts...great thread!

[DallasRain]

next that was great answer!

let me add one pet peeve..........a boring incall! Scattered disaray of room/messy bed/no candlesNo refreshments handy and no supplies for fun!

[greenhorn1960]

Originally Posted by Altbier

Messy, smelly incalls. Happened to me yesterday. Still had fun!


Not being ready at our confirmed scheduled time. Hasn't happened lately. Still had fun!

Provider wearing strong/too much perfume. Way too common. Still had fun, but had to take 2 or 3 showers before going home.

Pussy smells like a condom. Has happened more than once. Not so much fun!

Those are legit ones....

Seeing both, the brethren ahead of you, and the one after you.

[mayorcastro]

NCNS , shady incall , clock watching!!

[bearf15amc]

Just don't care to be called "babe, baby, honey, doll, etc". I was called handsome once and it seemed sincere and it made her my ATF. Don't care for the show or mechanical lets get the next hour over routine.

Bear

[Mike6082]

When the condom breaks. That feels like a kick in the nuts.
I have only had it happen once many years ago but very uncomfortable for both parties

[Samcro84]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

my main pet peeve is texting me on first initial contact.especially if you dont include your name or handle

Dallas that has to be a real dumb ass not to send you his handle, guess he thought you would remember or keep his number. Probably should set his to DNA (do not answer)

Originally Posted by SweetCara

Admittedly, this is something I do. Now, I do not get 100 PMs in a short amount of time. But I get quite a bit. And when you have to sort through the PMs picking out the gentlemen that want to see you weeks down the road, or the ones that have no references and are new but still message you it gets time consuming. I try to answer the gentlemen that want to see me the soonest and get them verified or anything else that needs to be done. But it is difficult for us ladies to sort through much of our messages in a short amount of time. Especially for the ones that have RW jobs, children or go to school. Patience is definitely a great thing for a hobbyist to have with us providers. Although I can see how it can get annoying when they do not answer you, EVER. I at least answer you, whether or not I'm going to see you.

Did not realize the issue of so many calls or texts. Honestly Cara I thought you only took my text LOL.

THAT is definitely very annoying. I have a message saved in my note pad for gentlemen that do this. It asks them to please contact me via PM with a physical description and references. I copy and paste it every time a gentleman does this. LoL!

Besides these two things, I can think of several pet peeves of mine.
1.) Gentlemen that try to haggle a lady's donation. Really?! Either wait until a later date when you can afford us, or wait until we have specials.
2.) When my ad CLEARLY states I am NOT Newbie friendly, yet gentlemen that joined 2 days ago with no posts, reviews or references STILL PM me asking if I will see them or make exceptions.
3.) Gentlemen that get mad at me and say rude and nasty things to me because I do not want to see them and tell them they didn't pass my screening.
4.) When a gentleman schedules a session with you days or weeks in advance, and you tell him you will contact him a few hours before the session on the DAY OF to confirm, yet he messages you a thousand times late the night before, or early the morning of, trying to confirm. Then when you contact him a few hours before the session (like you said you would) he tells you that he made other arrangements because you didn't answer earlier. I understand wanting to confirm the day of if you scheduled the session days or even weeks in advance. But, as I stated before, some of us ladies are in school, have RW jobs or have families to take care of and we cannot be online 24/7. This is why we tell you to contact us at a certain time, so to make sure we are online at that time as we said we would be.
5.) Bad hygiene.

These are only a few pet peeves of mine from experiences I've had in the hobby. I cannot wait to hear other's pet peeves.

I would hope and ask if I ever did any of that a Provider would call me out on it.

Originally Posted by savak

no political discussion please. i dont want to know about your sentiments about obamacare, whether pro or con.

oh yeah and if you have a SO currently, dont tell me. i assume each of you ladies have one, but i dont want to be reminded. omg and in the past a provider told me an ex was stalking her and followed her to the apts where she had her incall

Savak only you would some how relate this to Obama. Just gotta laugh at you guys.

Originally Posted by Altbier

Messy, smelly incalls. Happened to me yesterday. Still had fun!

Not being ready at our confirmed scheduled time. Hasn't happened lately. Still had fun!

Provider wearing strong/too much perfume. Way too common. Still had fun, but had to take 2 or 3 showers before going home.

Pussy smells like a condom. Has happened more than once. Not so much fun!

That has make you like want to throw up in your mouth.

Originally Posted by Netx9

• undisclosed pets or roommates!
• mattress on floor (get a cheap frame and box spring)
• general poor tcb, especially if confirmed appointment
• responding to texts, sure, pet peeve, but just hearing the tone/buzz is distracting. I turn off my phone, Pls turn off yours
• empty condom wrappers in trash can - give me the illusion I'm your one and only - at least for this hour
• dated showcase pics, that coupled with recent reviews that don't mention any appearance differences (a combo provider/hobbyist pet peeve).

Netx9
Should be a rule if a roommate (only if it is a girl) shows up you have the choice that they have to join in for FREE.
Turn off the damn phone it is my hour I have paid for it.
At least have the pics in that year right.

Originally Posted by Mike6082

When the condom breaks. That feels like a kick in the nuts.
I have only had it happen once many years ago but very uncomfortable for both parties

I lost a condom on a girl once, it had come off and it got packed to the bottom. Took us a while to get it out.

Just a few obervations to the great coments that were made.

[DallasRain]

thats a good idea Travelerman!

[Guest041815-1]

Having a provider txt me to meet, we set a time and I txt back and no reply. Then hours later a reply saying can we still meet. Really!

[mikedmato]

Shady incall is always top of the list.. Out dated pics and dead fish lays