Hypothetical Question

[malwoody]

I wonder how people feel about a guy who writes a glowing review with a yes recommendation and then proceeds to go behind the providers back to talk shit about her. Easy to surmise that he is a cowardly hypocrite but what bothers me more is the adverse effect said activity can have on her livelihood..

Personally I think such behavior is grounds for some form of discipline..
Not nice to fuck with someones...ability to make a living..

[dirty dog]

Originally Posted by malwoody

I wonder how people feel about a guy who writes a glowing review with a yes recommendation and then proceeds to go behind the providers back to talk shit about her. Easy to surmise that he is a cowardly hypocrite but what bothers me more is the adverse effect said activity can have on her livelihood..

Personally I think such behavior is grounds for some form of discipline..
Not nice to fuck with someones...ability to make a living..

The lack of sacks on this board amazes me, how can one area produce so many unics.

[Enchanterlingum]

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by Enchanterlingum

How so??

Like I said, "Hypothetical"

[stimulatethemind]

IF such a situation actually existed, I would say that, no matter how big his cock was or how much pussy he licked, he is severely lacking in testicles. It would be unimaginable to me how anyone could be so lacking in intestinal fortitude as to not share his actual opinions in the general forums, and hide behind the anonymity of the (supposedly) private section.

Sure glad that we don't have anyone here who would actually do that. (sarcasm font operating).

[Guest013121]

I think it would hurt my feelings to know that a client would say awful things about me in private yet I'm here thinking he liked me and our time together. Maybe a good thing I don't have alternate handles to read such things. I would have a hard time keeping my mouth shut lol! I know us females do a lot of bickering and a lot of backstabbing goes on but it's not my job to please them, so I'm not bothered by that part of the hobby. It comes with the territory. It is, however, my job to please and make my date happy. Very sad to me the things people do to mess with someone's ability to make a living.....I'm with you on that Malwoody!

[MsElena]

Malwoody and DD nailed it.

It happens so much. Its bad when they talk to me. As soon as a guy starts talking about another lady to me, I shut it down quickly. But, when they talk to other guys about a lady in a negative way, its worse.

Some guys never think that the behavior that is shown towards them is often brought on by themselves.

[KenMonk]

This is an issue that goes well beyond just being an asshole and affecting a woman's ability to make a living here. Its also a moderation issue. Most clamor for little or no moderation, unless they want/need it to serve their purpose, so where is the line drawn?

What stops a guy from sending an email to another guy offsite to say whatever he wants about a provider? Its a slippery slope when it comes to this type of behavior and honestly it should be the community's responsibility to take care of these issues themselves.

Its not a perfect system, but its the system we have.

[Guest090920]

Enchanterlingum, are you having a bad day or week? I called your wife and she said at times you act like a total wimp and hide from both facts and fun, but usually snap out of it within a few days, so not to worry, relief is on the way.

Regarding the proposed hypothetical question, one who posts in such a manner must also be thought of as not only untruthful in his reporting of intimate adventures, but also as being disrespectful to women, in general, making him dangerous in this sub-culture.

It would not surprise me if a person such as this had the where with all to make comments he thought would never get back to the women or the general population, he might criticize their physical appearance, weight, age and lack of skills in a very rude and insensitive manner. Of course, all the while wanting to be likable in the public forums. Shame on him!!

[Kshunter]

Originally Posted by malwoody

I wonder how people feel about a guy who writes a glowing review with a yes recommendation and then proceeds to go behind the providers back to talk shit about her. Easy to surmise that he is a cowardly hypocrite but what bothers me more is the adverse effect said activity can have on her livelihood..

Personally I think such behavior is grounds for some form of discipline..
Not nice to fuck with someones...ability to make a living..

Mal, I think in this case you're missing something important. I still believe that in this case "lack of balls" is a LITERAL description and not a figurative one.

It's a chick.

[old-tyme-racer]

If someone has something to say about 1 of the ladies it should be said to her, not to others in a public forum like this. Yes it does hurt the ladies income, best thing is keep it very private, maybe you forgot to take a shower, brush your teeth or had bad breath. That could be why the service was bad.
NSNC's should be taken care of off board between the 2 parties concerned, not posted within a hour after it happened, it could be worked out I hope, everyone be happy and plus it could be a positive review written.
Just my opinion, Malwoody for starting this post. MsElena your a sweetheart, thanks.

[Guest013121]

Originally Posted by MsElena

As soon as a guy starts talking about another lady to me, I shut it down quickly.

Well, except if it's about Kaylen.

[super_delfin00]

Originally Posted by old-tyme-racer

If someone has something to say about 1 of the ladies it should be said to her, not to others in a public forum like this. Yes it does hurt the ladies income, best thing is keep it very private, maybe you forgot to take a shower, brush your teeth or had bad breath. That could be why the service was bad.
NSNC's should be taken care of off board between the 2 parties concerned, not posted within a hour after it happened, it could be worked out I hope, everyone be happy and plus it could be a positive review written.
Just my opinion, Malwoody for starting this post. MsElena your a sweetheart, thanks.

What if the provider doesn't respond to inquiries as to the NCNS? I had one happen last night. Everything was set up through P411. Supposed to meet up @ 10pm. Provider was logged into both here and there @ 9 pm. Then.....nothing. Not answering phone, nor texts, not emails. Gave it a reasonable shot, then moved on. Tried to do a simple follow up today with an email. Still no response. If you're logged in 1hr before meeting, the lack of ability to even txt a msg saying you had to cancel or postpone is generally suspect. I'll give it another day or so to see I get a semblance of an answer. Then there's not much point it trying to be accomodating.

[old-tyme-racer]

Originally Posted by super_delfin00

What if the provider doesn't respond to inquiries as to the NCNS? I had one happen last night. Everything was set up through P411. Supposed to meet up @ 10pm. Provider was logged into both here and there @ 9 pm. Then.....nothing. Not answering phone, nor texts, not emails. Gave it a reasonable shot, then moved on. Tried to do a simple follow up today with an email. Still no response. If you're logged in 1hr before meeting, the lack of ability to even txt a msg saying you had to cancel or postpone is generally suspect. I'll give it another day or so to see I get a semblance of an answer. Then there's not much point it trying to be accomodating.

Sounds like you was giving it a chance to work it out. If 1 side or the other don't want to work it out, time to go to the next step may be the Mens Lounge or the main forum, but make sure all your facts are right. Talk to a moderator there may of been problems that he knows about, if the person belongs to P411 they have a section for that.

Hope it don't happen to you or any other member here.

[Helicopter206]

Remember this was all hypothetical, Right.

Maybe this is one of those deals, he only writes reviews, because he is an ECCIE review writer. Something about free services from the provider for a review.
But step's up behind her back to post different information, in a different room, that providers can't access (to the COED men's lounge).
But I regress we speak of a different land serpent, in any case, I shel not point any fingers.

ML, always as good points on different subjects.

Providers wouldn't post stories or lies about a client they have never seen in a place called the Ladies Room, could it be hidden from the guys on this board.

Guys, if you don't like the provider, or services. Keep your make believe reviews to yourself.
I would hate to read a outstanding review with a YES, just to find out it was all fake.
The worse part, is if I went and saw this provider, and found everything in the review was all made up. A client would never embellish the truth about the meeting or what took place behind closed doors.
Would He?