Review- Stood up by provider

[KaitlynDior]

I never even texted him my address, he didn't pass my screening because he didnt have any reviews how can I get a nc/ns for refusing to see someone and not making plans? I have a provate incall and I dont want to let just anyone in here for my saftey.

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by KaitlynDior

I never even texted him my address, he didn't pass my screening because he didnt have any reviews how can I get a nc/ns for refusing to see someone and not making plans? I have a provate incall and I dont want to let just anyone in here for my saftey.

Winner.

[Lexieinhouston]

Note to the newbies: It's never a good idea for your first post to be a negative review or NCNS, for the simple fact that you have not established credibility here.



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[poppy71]

Originally Posted by KaitlynDior

I never even texted him my address, he didn't pass my screening because he didnt have any reviews how can I get a nc/ns for refusing to see someone and not making plans? I have a provate incall and I dont want to let just anyone in here for my saftey.

That makes a huge difference. No address given, no appointment set then there is no ncns.

[mr666]

Originally Posted by KaitlynDior

I never even texted him my address, he didn't pass my screening because he didnt have any reviews how can I get a nc/ns for refusing to see someone and not making plans? I have a provate incall and I dont want to let just anyone in here for my saftey.

Did you at least let him know he didn't pass your screening? (There's a whole thread on that somewhere) Other than we can all understand your concern for safety.

[KaitlynDior]

Originally Posted by mr666

Did you at least let him know he didn't pass your screening? (There's a whole thread on that somewhere) Other than we can all understand your concern for safety.

Yes sir I did let him know he didnt pass my screening. I explained to him that he just joined and had no reviews and with no disrespect intended I informed him that I didnt feel comfortable inviting him to my incall. He responded with "so I have to post a review to see you? " & i wake up to this. I really dont mean to sound rude i just prefer to use a heavy screening process when im in a private incall.

[Guest071514-1]

Originally Posted by poppy71

She had a history of ncns before and seemed to turn it around. Just because some of you have seen her and had fun does not discredit his encounter. Hopefully she will contact you to make it right...if she ncns him why should he call her to work it out?

Both could had tried to work it out with a makeup session of some sorts. In this business things happen, i had one of these, i tried to call the guy and he gave me one of these. After that the great discount and special treatment went out the window. I'm saying this should be second choice.

[Guest071514-1]

Originally Posted by KaitlynDior

I never even texted him my address, he didn't pass my screening because he didnt have any reviews how can I get a nc/ns for refusing to see someone and not making plans? I have a provate incall and I dont want to let just anyone in here for my saftey.

I don't blame you, 2 sides to every coin!

[95Springer]

Well, now we have seen her response, interesting , but not true. @@11 paints a different picture in my notes section ,so does my cell phone txt from her. She sent her address via txt just not the apartment number. She never advised me that I had failed prescreen, as I look at my @@11 account I see on 5/26/2014 two pm were sent, and one p/s request. 5/28/2014 p.m was sent. 0n 5/29/2014 I sent the appointment request. I am not sure when she was planing on advising I failed the screening process, since she gave me her address. I hope to at least raise some doubt to my fellow hobbyist, but since I and the mods at @@11 can see my inbox, I guess for the rest can make their on conclusion of whom is speaking the truth. I again wish her the best.

[poppy71]

Originally Posted by bustyamy

Both could had tried to work it out with a makeup session of some sorts. In this business things happen, i had one of these, i tried to call the guy and he gave me one of these. After that the great discount and special treatment went out the window. I'm saying this should be second choice.

I agree and see my reply to her response

[drax1]

There's always two sides to every story. Since the OP is a relative newbie, I'd say there's an understandable misunderstanding here.

To the OP; When you are a bright green newb, you can expect that many providers will be cautious with you until you get some notches in your belt. Even then, this is a business like no other and everything you do pre-date, can cause the lady to believe that you may not click well. Keep it cool and don't get upset. There are way too many providers to worry about the one. In the words of the lady who taught me the hobby, "It's a flaky business." Don't let it get to you.

[saminspring]

[abeautifulsite]

You can not do a review on someone you have not seen-

Originally Posted by 95Springer

Date: 5-29-2014
Provider: KaitlynDior
Phone: 8327380196
Email Address: kaitlyndior@gmail.com
URL / Website: -
City: Houston
State: Texas
Address: 59 south / richmond
Appointment Type: Incall
Did the Appointment take place at the agreed-upon time?: No
Activities: Unknown
Session Length: 1 hr
Fee: Unknown
Hair Color and Length: Unknown
Age: Unknown
Smoking Status: I Couldn't Tell
Ethnic Background: White/Caucasian
Physical Description: Unknown/ did not see her.
Recommendation: No

[abeautifulsite]

You just joined here not even a month ago. you might want to talk to the other gentlemen about how to do things on here because putting up something like this will make the other ladies NOT want to see you either .

Originally Posted by 95Springer

Well, now we have seen her response, interesting , but not true. @@11 paints a different picture in my notes section ,so does my cell phone txt from her. She sent her address via txt just not the apartment number. She never advised me that I had failed prescreen, as I look at my @@11 account I see on 5/26/2014 two pm were sent, and one p/s request. 5/28/2014 p.m was sent. 0n 5/29/2014 I sent the appointment request. I am not sure when she was planing on advising I failed the screening process, since she gave me her address. I hope to at least raise some doubt to my fellow hobbyist, but since I and the mods at @@11 can see my inbox, I guess for the rest can make their on conclusion of whom is speaking the truth. I again wish her the best.

[GenesisNicole]

To the OP:

You have text messages with the address? text messages up to the point where she "canceled" (yet failed to let you know)?

How does this happen? (this is direct to the provider)

When a gentlemen that I have not seen before first contacts me, I let him know I received his inquiry and that my screening process has began.

The only way my address goes out (even my hotel name if I am on tour) is the screening process has been completed and passed with flying colors.

Is this a new trend of confirming a date BEFORE screening has happened?

And THEN once you do start screening, if the gent doesn't pass, you just not communicate with him any longer?

I am in NO way trying to flame or throw shade to anyone, OP or Provider.
I'm merely trying to understand how this "new" way of TCB is actually done, and done successfully. (since I'm from the old school of pre-screening my dates or even public meets BEFORE hand)

AND regardless if this is his first post, or his 700th, it shouldn't matter since we ALL had to start somewhere...

OP, if you report your experiences factually (truthfully) without emotion and without malice towards your "wrong-doer" you will go far (in my eyes) around here.
Ignore the fluff and constant ass-kissing (pardon my french) that has become the norm around here by those that are very obvious with their deeds.

Oh, and Welcome!

*curtsy*

~Genesis Nicole~