incall versus outcall

[Jessica Jade]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

She may have an incall in the galleria... but you aren't factoring in that maybe she LIVES an hour+ outside of that area and only travels in when her day is profitable. So making a special trip for you should cost more. Or maybe she says outcall+100 because she doesn't drive and calls uber to/from your location. Gotta love "fare quote".

A million and one reason why outcalls are more expensive. If you don't wanna pay for the fee, suck it up and go to her place. Or find someone else. Stop bitching.

^^^this

[Alyssa Marie]

Mavs fan - it's like anyome going to an office.. I think Ze explained it better than I could, so.. That. Exactly.
Also, I am one that is helping uber skyrocket to fame.
A lot of places that are delivery ad on a delivery fee, but you always find the one that says, "no delivery fee with minimum order" "no delivery fee at all" & "no delivery."

You can pick and choose who you see, but it was just letting you understand reasoning behind why some of us do it.

Some ladies will go an hour across town for a blow and go, some ladies won't see anyone at their place or anywhere for less than 1k min two hours. Just whatever works for the lady and whatever works for the guy.
Xx

[Mavs fan]

I wasn't bitching. I was asking a question. I think I asked it in a very nice way. I do agree that there are variables that could be discussed. But a blanket $100 fee is kinda high. What if my house is closer than the incall, would I then get a discount? BTW, I am in business and we do offer free delivery within a 25 mile radius, so I think I understand the business side of it. Also, when it's my place I take care of clean up, beverages, and utilities. Sorry for upsetting you Ze.

[Jessica Jade]

Originally Posted by Mavs fan

I wasn't bitching. I was asking a question. I think I asked it in a very nice way. I do agree that there are variables that could be discussed. But a blanket $100 fee is kinda high. What if my house is closer than the incall, would I then get a discount? BTW, I am in business and we do offer free delivery within a 25 mile radius, so I think I understand the business side of it. Also, when it's my place I take care of clean up, beverages, and utilities. Sorry for upsetting you Ze.

Good point. This makes sense also. I guess there are just many things to factor in.

[Alyssa Marie]

Mavs - if you're in a business that has to factor in delivery then clearly you do have to understand why some do and why others don't. You just made a business decision to not charge within a certain distance. That obviously works for you.
I personally have +travel fee. That's what works for me.
Some have a set amount but only within a certain area.
Some prefer to host at their home.
Some don't want to factor in the cost of a incall and their outcall rate is even cheaper.
Some just want to make life difficult.

The day I stopped trying to figure out why other ladies do certain things is the day I. Just did what works for me.

[Mavs fan]

A better policy that many girls have is that the outcall charge depends on the distance traveled, not just a blanket fee. If I am closer than your incall, why would you charge me more? I am sure that there are ladies losing business because of this. There are ladies that I haven't contacted because of it. Nobody likes to pay extra fees.

[Guest100514]

Personally, if it's someone I've never met, I would rather do incall. My reasoning:
1) I feel comfortable and safe there.
2) If there is ever an issue, I have a support system here. People I can call on to help me.
3) I have safety measures in place, that if I need to defend myself I could.

I only have two regulars that I do outcalls for. They both live within 10 mins of my place and I am very comfortable with them. I can see why hobbyists wouldn't want providers to come to their place though. I've actually had this conversation with one of my above mentioned regulars, especially if they live in a condo/ apartment building.
1) they may have valuables and may not trust the provider.
2) they may be worried that their neighbors will find out what's going on.
3) they may be worried that the provider will show up wearing inappropriate clothing.
4) they may have a significant other that lives with them and are worried they will notice signs of another woman being in their home, or will be informed by a neighbor.
5) if they have a significant other and book a hotel they may be worried that the SO will see the charge on their card.

However, proper screening and communication on both ends can eliminate many of these issues.

[Mavs fan]

I have passed on some ladies because of the upcharge. Isn't the idea to try to get more business whenever possible? And I know that all business isn't good business, believe me. I also wanted to know if the upcharge was because some girls don't feel safe doing outcalls. I could understand that, too. I want more variety and you ladies want more business. Just saying that the blanket fee is a buzz kill for me.

[Alyssa Marie]

Mavs - I get what you're saying. I've been able to have the time of my life doing this on and off since 2005 because I do what works for me.

If we all did what works for everyone else, we would.. Well, that would be impossible. I have had at least 3 people tell me that I have to add bng to my list to make it in Dallas.. I won't do it. It's just not for me, just like Greek, fetish, etc. I love being a GFE and that's that.

Sorry that you miss out on some ladies due to their fee structure, but, like Ze said, you can go their incall. Or you just don't meet them. It obviously works for them or they will change it.
Xx

[chrisrica]

Okay let me say. I want to schedule a out call at a very nice establishment in far north plano. So does this account for something in terms od safety? A lunatic wont go that far in terms of paying for a hotel like this place. The bottom line is I want to be comfortable before and after visit to make it a great night.

[Guest062114-5]

Yeah, my time is valuable at my RW job, but if I charged the same amount for travel time as I do for services rendered, my clients would freak. What I do requires more skill than driving to a client's office, so it's charged at a different rate.

[oldbutstillgoing]

The fundamental difference between an outcall and incall is who pays for and provides the location. Incalls the provider pays for or provides the location. Outcall the client pays for or provides the location.

The person providing the location has a great deal more control over privacy, security, safety, short/long term expenses, etc. All valid things to consider from both sides.

[oldbutstillgoing]

Crazy people come with all sizes of pocket books. Lots of money is not a very good factor of safety.

Originally Posted by chrisrica

Okay let me say. I want to schedule a out call at a very nice establishment in far north plano. So does this account for something in terms od safety? A lunatic wont go that far in terms of paying for a hotel like this place. The bottom line is I want to be comfortable before and after visit to make it a great night.

[TexasCowboy]

Enjoy outcalls and hearing the headboard banging up against the wall and the bed squeaking and hearing the moans and groans of the woman that I am with.....

[chrisrica]

Not a lot of money. Just easy to go to sleep after.