The "Screamer" Vs The "Moaner" and Dirty Talk

[Guest101314]

No giggling? Damn! I giggle a lot...

I hear you on the annoying "other person" sounds. There is one I know of that makes really annoying baby type sounds.. I don't know how that would be sexy to a man, but whatever.

I need to work on my dirty talk too, but I'm more of a moaner.

[JennsLolli]

Giggler here, too. It's both killed boners and broken hearts.

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Sometimes I get tickled and giggle a bit.

If I'm going to be with a female, I like an aggressive (intent on proving their effort to please me) women, so giggling in a bashful way doesn't do it for me.
Furthermore, I'm sure a look up and down with a teasing giggle would be a huge turn-off to a guy.

hehe

j/k

[fun2come]

I went from uhhh, uhhh, uhhhh
to: omphdada omphdada ....

As for dirty talk, when she gets a chance to talk, usually the mouth is quite busy, I prefer that she falls in with the program: ooomphDADDY

[NikkiWhite]

I laugh alot like all the time. I make wise cracks while humping also. If we do something clumsy I giggle. If u say something cute I giggle/moan . Scream? No no screams in my incall. Light moaning and yes nikki giggles people seem to find it endearing.

[NikkiWhite]

I also wear thongs like eye patches and say "arrrr matey"

[fun2come]

Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

I also wear thongs like eye patches and say "arrrr matey"

I remember that one !!!

[Dantonio100@yahoo.com]

Originally Posted by 7Dust

Most of the time it's not what you say, it's how you say it.

+100


As for me, i love a little moaning and screaming if it sounds genuine. Also, a little "oh yeah" " uh huh" "yes, yes, yes" and if your acting is good enough maybe even a "FUCK YEAH!!" If you can pull off the last one... Ahhh its over for me lol.

Also the Asian facial expression with little moans/screams is a real turn on for me. Just take a look at a Hitomi Tanaka video, she has that down perfect. I think thats easier to pull off and it really gets me going!

You have to be yourself and it really is HOW you say or do it not WHAT you say or do, it can start to sound scripted if your not a good actress, and for me, thats a bigger turn off then not saying anything at all.... Sometimes silence is golden.

[yeaaaa]

i like some indication of involvement.. be it moans or screams. complete silence is weird because i start to focus on things like the noise the bed makes or the awkward silence.. lol. it's not so much to tell me that i'm doing a good job (because let's be honest, i'm probably not), it's mainly to avoid the awkward silence.

i'm not much of a dirty talker but i do appreciate it coming from the ladies in reasonable amounts.

[Becky GoodHead]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

+1

I once had a double with a girl and I was like:
SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP! Your're breaking my concentration.
OMG her responses sounded soooooo contrived. ANNOYING!

I'm more of a moaner and a low-key dirty talker.

Some of my faves are to subtlety say things like:

"your dick feels so good in this tight pussy."
"this pussy is so wet for you"
"you like your dick in-between these big black titties?"
"give me all of you cum"

Who knows what I'll say, It's just whatever sensation I am indulging in at the moment.

Like REB said, I'd keep it to a minimum and make sure it's what your feeling in the moment so your statement has conviction.

Happy hobbying everyone!

That's pretty much how i am except I'm having trouble with dirty talkperiod. And some guys come off like they almost expect it. And when they ask me to talk dirty im like ummmm.......

[Becky GoodHead]

Originally Posted by Tracy Aine

No giggling? Damn! I giggle a lot...

I hear you on the annoying "other person" sounds. There is one I know of that makes really annoying baby type sounds.. I don't know how that would be sexy to a man, but whatever.

I need to work on my dirty talk too, but I'm more of a moaner.

Whew! I'm glad I'm not the only one. For a moment i thought to myself, is it Just me?
But Hey I appreciate all the feedback from everyone.


Thanks a ton!

[Becky GoodHead]

Originally Posted by yeaaaa

i like some indication of involvement.. be it moans or screams. complete silence is weird because i start to focus on things like the noise the bed makes or the awkward silence.. lol. it's not so much to tell me that i'm doing a good job (because let's be honest, i'm probably not), it's mainly to avoid the awkward silence.

i'm not much of a dirty talker but i do appreciate it coming from the ladies in reasonable amounts.

I'm with you on that!

[Guest110715-3]

I inadvertently tickled a girl while she was mid-orgasm. I nibbled on her stomach when her abs contracted. She is very ticklish on her stomach. It would have been funny but my cock was down her throat at the time.

[GneissGuy]

Nothing too loud, especially if we're where someone might hear.

A reasonable amount of quiet talk. Both general stuff and sex talk. I love to hear a lady say "fuck me."

Don't act like I'm some superstud. I know better.

Act like you're interested and enjoying yourself. I love to see and feel a lady get an orgasm.

[OralPassion]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

...SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP! Your're breaking my concentration.
OMG her responses sounded soooooo contrived. ANNOYING!...
...and make sure it's what your feeling in the moment...

I think it's simply a matter of spontaneous v scripted.

I want to know the gal I'm with is feeling good so I like any indicator, whether it's body movement, moaning, dirty-talk, whatever - but it has to be sincere, or at least an IOP that is big-screen worthy.

One gal I was with, would spontaneously dirty-talk when her feelings inspired it, and I enjoyed it so I asked her for more.
Big mistake - it became scripted, loud and lost the IOP - had to tell her, "OK, that's enough, never mind...".

So, Becky, if you try forcing the talk, you may lose the IOP, and some guys will be ok with that because they just want to hear the words, but others will want the words to be spoken with a good IOP.