Explicit PM's

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by kerwil62

Research is your best friend. It definitely became mine.

Asking explicit questions is a no-no.

Always remember this hobby will ALWAYS be YMMV.

Bingo!!!!

[Guest072624]

Originally Posted by BDD

DM, thanks for another treAD.

Hey Hooktards....how about simply listing what you do in your showcase instead of "See my reviews"? I have done many things not listed in a Providers reviews with a number of Providers advertising on ECCIE.

The alphabet soup that is is shorthand for activities performed is not that hard to learn and type into a showcase.

On my p411/website there are very easy to read listed activities on there. As far as Eccie.....i put that im FULL GFE. NOT PSE. That is self explainatory. NOW once the client is screened we can go into full detail of the do's and donts of what i do. Im not going back and forth thru PMs about what i do when i have 86 reviews that he can look thru.

If thats not enough then oh well. And btw my name is Kammye. No hooktard here hun. 😊

[Guest021217]

Before calling anyone a tard make sure your not a full fledge tard yourself.. I catch the most hell yet I feel I have the most info listed... People are flat out plain lazy on this board so when you pm me with details and I tell your ass read my showcase & you cry Im being mean thats preposterous...

My showcase is always updated & my ads say in big bold red letters read my showcase before contacting me & people still dont.

[Stromprophet]

Originally Posted by nascobar21

So what if i read reviews on a provider I'm interested in based on activities that was offered and then book and see that provider thinking I'm going to get the same experience. However, I've already started the session and tells me she doesn't participate in that activity at all or anymore. But her showcase says read my reviews.

^^^^^^

We are SOL and they get the money.

I see a line of thinking with some here. That providers are giving a hobbyist a favor.....reality is hobbyist pay for the service.

[Stromprophet]

Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

Too discuss this further.....I had a very detailed showcase. I would still get questions asking me things that were right there in black & white on my showcase. It's very frustrating how we as providers take our time in having a website or a nice detailed showcase to make it easier and faster to book a visit with us and you guys still want to make it difficult for yourselves.

I'm new to Eccie. So I'm not trying to make it hard. I'm getting the hang of these "rules"

Honestly, it's very different from the hobby I have done before. To be honest I've done this for some years more in the context of actually talking with a girl before I go about offering money. That is bars/clubs/anywhere, if I see someone I want I investigate and then once I know them a little and think they are open to the idea I go in.

And I've discussed details with these girls at times and at times not. I think I prefer knowing what I am getting (though it is a certain joy during a session to see if you can get a very pretty girl to do some crazy things haha). One of my favorites told me this so I don't have to ask her any details.

"I'm an entertainer. I'm here to entertain and service you. You know my price and if you ask for something I understand I'm here to entertain you."

I hate to "knock on wood" but I've discussed details with girls for sometime the way I have hobbied and nothing ever went wrong ever because of that. I think I'm sensing this is more protection for the girls here, in which case I understand.

[Stromprophet]

Originally Posted by kerwil62

Research is your best friend. It definitely became mine.

Asking explicit questions is a no-no.

Always remember this hobby will ALWAYS be YMMV.

I disagree about the idea of your experience will vary. My experience should be the experience I want. That is....the point. Otherwise I can just go on Tinder and get randoms to try my antics with and no money involved.

You see so many adds about "I can do what you can't get at home......"

Not here for love. Not here to hear, "No, no, no"

Here to have it my way, whatever way I happen to feel like that day.

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Just my honest opinion. I think I can comb thru the research and figure enough of it out. And understand the girls wanting to keep the information exchange minimized.

This has been informative and reading everyone's opinions has helped. Thanks everyone who is posting. I'm new to Eccie so this is helping.

[Luvs2Purrr]

Originally Posted by Stromprophet

I'm sensing this is more protection for the girls here, in which case I understand.

You should see it this way.
Screening and not asking explicit questions is protection for us as a provider and yourself. We will always protect our own ass first and foremost. But protect your own ass and DON'T ASK!

[pyramider]

I do not ask ... I just sent photos of my 1.3" of dangling death, its legendary.

[Stromprophet]

Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

You should see it this way.
Screening and not asking explicit questions is protection for us as a provider and yourself. We will always protect our own ass first and foremost. But protect your own ass and DON'T ASK!

I will get used to it.

I suppose it's the fact that I know who I am and the idea of me being a risk to others is so absurd that it takes me back for a second.

[Readytolearn]

Originally Posted by Stromprophet

I will get used to it.

I suppose it's the fact that I know who I am and the idea of me being a risk to others is so absurd that it takes me back for a second.

No offense but isn't always the insane who say they aren't insane?

"He was always the quiet type...using words like absurd"

Lol...jk!

[kerwil62]

Originally Posted by Stromprophet

I disagree about the idea of your experience will vary. My experience should be the experience I want. That is....the point. Otherwise I can just go on Tinder and get randoms to try my antics with and no money involved.

You see so many adds about "I can do what you can't get at home......"

Not here for love. Not here to hear, "No, no, no"

Here to have it my way, whatever way I happen to feel like that day.

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Just my honest opinion. I think I can comb thru the research and figure enough of it out. And understand the girls wanting to keep the information exchange minimized.

This has been informative and reading everyone's opinions has helped. Thanks everyone who is posting. I'm new to Eccie so this is helping.

It's cool to disagree, but I've been doing this long enough to confirm my statement.

Keep reading and learning! And start reviewing!!

[Eva Damita]

Explicit convo is vulgar and tacky, not the type of clientele I seek. Luckily I rarely get PM's like these anymore.

[anita]

When it comes to fetishes I need to know exactly what it is before we meet. Just so I know I am okay with it, and nobody will be disappointed. Other than that, I do not entertain activities talk. Even if you have a 100 okays, if I can't be comfortable talking to you then I already know it will be the same seeing you.

[bojulay]

If a dude is looking for detailed and/or specific activities he should
ask first if it is ok to discuss them. If she says no or is rude
about it, then look elsewhere. Or if she says you have to meet first,
then decide and take your chances.
Best advice.

If someone says read reviews to find out, then should some dude expect
all the activities listed by some other dude in a review to be available??

There is a way to go about it in a respectful manner.
And don't just be wasting the girls time trying to engage
in dirty talk.

[Guest032117]

Originally Posted by bojulay

If a dude is looking for detailed and/or specific activities he should
ask first if it is ok to discuss them. If she says no or is rude
about it, then look elsewhere. Or if she says you have to meet first,
then decide and take your chances.
..........
There is a way to go about it in a respectful manner.
And don't just be wasting the girls time trying to engage
in dirty talk.

Plus five effing billion!