Calling all veteran providers and clients-help me figure this one out!

[Windinhishair]

Originally Posted by Maggie_May

One thing I will say.. If I start to feel like we are friends..I will no longer accept money from you. Which means we also can't f*uck anymore. And as friends we have to do dumb shit like shopping for antiques and going to see chick flicks... (The longer, the better!!)
And you also have to help me move...and I have some really really heavy shit. And I move a ton!
Friend stuff

I've had sort of the reverse experience. Years ago I went on a date with someone from Match. We hit it off and there was chemistry from both sides.
Being the honest person that she is she revealed to me that she was a provider and that she wanted to know if that would be an issue as she was interested in moving forward romantically. She was surprised when I responded that I was a hobbyist and not only did I not judge her but I immediately turned her onto Eccie to improve her business.

Although she is bright, funny and a true sweetheart I chose not to get physically or romantically involved with her because we did indeed have chemistry and I knew that fairytale could never have a happy ending.
However to this day we are very close friends. She is a golden provider on Eccie and on occasion calls offering to take me out to eat or to an event.

I have yet to go antique shopping and have never been asked to help her move lol.

[Guest030617]

Please Your opinion of good dick is solely based on your own dick, and what females say to you to get free advertisement out of you...ADMIN!

[Windinhishair]

Originally Posted by Reese Foster

Yes, I know. Pussy rules the world.

This way of thinking is why most marriages and relationships don't work, in my opinion. I have many more attributes, than my pussy, that make me valuable.

I have fucked several guys in my life for free, no strings attached, prior to hobbying and during.. No dinner, no movie, no jewelry, no gas money, no drama, no emotional feelings, just some really good sex.

I never understood why women think their body parts are any more important than a mans. Sure a woman can go outside and scream " I want some dick" and have men running to take care of her and a man may have to work a little bit harder for it...but him sharing his dick with me, is just as awesome as me sharing my pussy with him.

My worth isn't determined by how much I can sell myself for, hobby or otherwise. His dick is just as important as my pussy. IF I decide to share that with another person and not profit from it...that doesn't make me worth any less than any other woman. It just makes me REAL.

Back on topic:

Boundaries are important.

You are one provider who does not suffer from GPS. You also seem to hold a healthy respect toward those of the opposite sex.
Keep your chin up in the knowledge that you are clearly appreciated by those who are paying your bills
If only all mongers and providers held the same degree of respect and value for one another.

[Guest082824]

Originally Posted by BDS

Please Your opinion of good dick is solely based on your own dick, and what females say to you to get free advertisement out of you...ADMIN!

No one said anything to me darlin'....


I'll say this though...

If you and Lily for that matter, expect the Tricks on this board to believe that y'all have never served it up for free to any man, in the Hobby or not, even without him having to "prove himself or earn it", then y'all aren't the ones..."keeping it real"


That "Pussy is the best thing since slice bread" train you're on fell off the tracks back when light skin brutha's were in style, jus sayin'

[atf searcher]

Originally Posted by Maggie_May

One thing I will say.. If I start to feel like we are friends..I will no longer accept money from you. Which means we also can't f*uck anymore. And as friends we have to do dumb shit like shopping for antiques and going to see chick flicks... (The longer, the better!!)
And you also have to help me move...and I have some really really heavy shit. And I move a ton!
Friend stuff

I don't know who these idiot's are that go to chick flicks and shopping for antiques without expecting sex. Those are the kind of guys girls laugh at behind their back. I'd be bending you over an antique table in the back of the store.

[KeepinItReal]

Originally Posted by Kendall4U

My sentiments EXACTLY! Good grief. Some gents just can't seem to help themselves! SMH

Zip.....you have reached out to her AND started this thread. As a provider myself, I wouldn't want a friend of mine starting anything like this on the open boards. If she isn't responding, there is a reason. She does not have to stay in constant communication with you and is free to simply "move on" if she so chooses, just as you can. I know you feel slighted, but this isn't RW. It's hobby. You pay for IOP. I am not saying you two didn't connect, but there seem to be boundaries that you are ignoring. Try to put things back in proper perspective. It's tough at times, but definitely necessary. You aren't the only person who has been in this situation and you won't be the last. "Feelings" tend to sneak up on us when we least expect them to. :/

Kendall speaks the truth, very well said.

Zipster, also remember that just because you two connected and maybe became friends, that some people are not meant to be in your life long term and vice versa. So if she has moved on, for what ever reason and was a good friend, just wish her the best and keep it moving. That applies to the hobby and the real world. Good luck to you, sir.

[Boltfan]

We haven't had a good GPS meltdown in a while here. Must be that time again.

[DSK]

Originally Posted by BDS

Please Your opinion of good dick is solely based on your own dick, and what females say to you to get free advertisement out of you...ADMIN!

Exactly - back in the real world, good looking women aren't clamoring for "good dick" they want a successful and wealthy man. Anyone who thinks otherwise isn't "keeping it real" because they are in fact deluding themselves.

[txexetoo]

Originally Posted by lily blake

We don't even fuck non hobby guys for free so this is the dumbest idea ever. Sex is never ever free and if it is the woman does not know her worth
Smh

If you don't fuck non hobby guys for free then how can they be non hobby?

[txexetoo]

Originally Posted by lily blake

@reesefoster so why are you here?? You should be married since you have all the answers. Or somewhere fucking any man who wants to fuck you with nothing in return.

That was rude an unnecessary

[lily blake]

Originally Posted by txexetoo

If you don't fuck non hobby guys for free then how can they be non hobby?

Umm... I'm not going to explain what should be understood

Originally Posted by txexetoo

That was rude an unnecessary

It was an honest question

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by DSK

Exactly - back in the real world, good looking women aren't clamoring for "good dick" they want a successful and wealthy man. Anyone who thinks otherwise isn't "keeping it real" because they are in fact deluding themselves.

+1000 on that.

Also,

Good pussy has never kept me in a relationship.

It's kept me paid though.

[Jimmiwad]

She grew tried of wasting her time on you as it probably wasn't as productive as she wanted it to be. Just that simple. I have never understood this "provider", monger friendship thing anyway. She is hired to pleasure you and that's it. That should be the end of it. With most of these ladies it is all about the money as it should be. She is pleasuring different guys daily why should you stand out?
I've been down that road myself. Getting too close to a sex merchant is never a good idea.
This isn't a dating site.

[lily blake]

Originally Posted by Jimmiwad

She grew tried of wasting her time on you as it probably wasn't as productive as she wanted it to be. Just that simple. I have never understood this "provider", monger friendship thing anyway. She is hired to pleasure you and that's it. That should be the end of it. With most of these ladies it is all about the money as it should be. She is pleasuring different guys daily why should you stand out?
I've been down that road myself. Getting too close to a sex merchant is never a good idea.
This isn't a dating site.

Sir you are the sanest man ever
Tho it is very possible to get close to us as some of us are genuine but we didn't become hookers just for fun, we have loves to maintain and it takes money.

[BBW Katrina]

That "Pussy is the best thing since slice bread" train you're on fell off the tracks back when light skin brutha's were in style, jus sayin' [/QUOTE]


I'll take extra crispy please!