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Hot to Trot Daphne · 04-14-2015, 07:50 AM

It doesn't bother me at all sweetie. No one is trying to control anyone. I asked a simple question about Guideline #17.

I see you want this thread to be about you. Do you really? Because I can make it about you and still be on topic at the same time, if that is what you'd like.

See, I'll let you control the conversation.. seeing how that is your aim.

TreeBark · 04-14-2015, 07:50 AM

[Nah, I just let her go on and on. It's kind of entertaining from time to time.

QUOTE=Hottentot Venus;1056606197]Yes, that is real world stalking though, not
board stalking. If she is a member here, compile your info and report it to mods. They may, or may not, be able to help.[/QUOTE]

JONBALLS · 04-14-2015, 07:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus

It doesn't bother me at all sweetie..

probably

lol

you appear out of no where

cause nothing is "bothering " you

its ok

I will help you through this

Hot to Trot Daphne · 04-14-2015, 07:58 AM

I see you would like this thread to be about you... groovy.

JONBALLS · 04-14-2015, 08:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus

I see you would like this thread to be about you... groovy.

nope

see you want to try and label and lead me and your not righteous

so it wont work

your trying to find some zinger that's going to be the almighty sendoff

but there is no substance or truth grounded in any real life situation here ,

im giving my honest opinions

you don't happen to like it is all thts really happening

all that's ever happened on a public and open forum

you turn on the machine

read a thrAD

and comment when your interested

Hot to Trot Daphne · 04-14-2015, 08:14 AM

You seem to be "interested" in a certain someone alot. Shall I expound?

This is where you come to have fun, but where women in the real world come to make a livelihood so you have the luxury of choosing to be dense. Some aren't that lucky.

But let's define some terms.

#17 - "Cyber Stalking" is a term that refers to the act of following another member around online. This may include persistent PMing of the other party, repeated ISOs about the other party, or excessive bumping of reviews or posting in threads about the other individual, whether it be positive or negative information posted. In any of these cases, whether staff deems that the behavior has crossed the line into cyber-stalking, or the "stalked" party complains to staff about the alleged behavior, staff will take the necessary steps to make it stop. Please avoid becoming involved in this type of conduct.

excessive: exceeding what is usual, proper, necessary, or normal

stiff, towering, unconscionable, undue, unmerciful, a bit much, over the top

My question is at what point does the line cross from interest in an occasional, random threAD to being excessive?

JONBALLS · 04-14-2015, 08:28 AM

I have seen many many many women

that had many

NO

reviews ..

it comes down to simply pictures,,, if it trips a guys trigger
are the pics legit

and will I get robbed

that's it in a nutshell,, guys don't pay for fluff

any amount of personality persuading on some web site isn't going to drive someone

to a girl they have no attraction to

and no guy hasever dissuaded me from seeing any girl I wanted

that's rediculous

you wont listen to logic

you don't know your customer base

and I can guarantee

this is not your FIRST

and ORIGINAL provider handle

im not so sure your their best defense

or anyone or guy even listens to your logic

but again

I don't choose to control your words

Hot to Trot Daphne · 04-14-2015, 08:31 AM

Don't hijack JB, I'd hate to have to hit the rtm on you so quickly. I'm trying to give you a chance here.

Cyber-stalking... any thoughts?

Lexxxy · 04-14-2015, 08:31 AM

I think it couldn't be funnier than this! Two of the biggest stalkers are posting examples of them being stalkers in a thread about stalkers. Carry on with crazy ramblings please give more examples of being obsessive and unhinged, maybe some need even more proof than you've already provided Lmfao.

Hot to Trot Daphne · 04-14-2015, 08:36 AM

Like I said, some swerve into the right setting.

See, he thinks I'm going to give up and go away. He obviously doesn't know me very well.

JONBALLS · 04-14-2015, 08:38 AM

im not sure what you think you are doing here? lol

I do know your looking for some last word as if your words even had some teeth

to begin with

you seem to carry much self importance

the self esteem , everyone getsa trophy crowd

that's inbred in , so I really cant be of help to you

you will always be hurt thinking your being stalked

stuck in the grievance instead of just moving on

im going to move on and you can have your last word

Hot to Trot Daphne · 04-14-2015, 08:51 AM

What grievance do I have with you? You're not stalking me. I started a generalized thread about one of the rules of the board and 9 posts later.. you're still here. And not even on topic at that...

Am I missing something?

edit: I forgot, you want this thread to be about you.

JONBALLS · 04-14-2015, 09:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus

edit: I forgot, you want this thread to be about you.

that's just crazy

hit the rtm all you want lol

I don't believe there is such a thing as cyber stalking

plain and simple and I gave my opinions as to why

if you actually were a tolerant person and believed in free expression

the rtm would never come to your mind

you want to silence

then by all means do it and take your victory lap

if you can really look inside yourself and feel like you've done something productive by all means

obviously you have let my words get you here

just think what you could have accomplished in your business had you directed your valuable time elsewhere

so this is kinda funny

i can only give advice on how to not let other peoples words effect you

i cant make you drink... have a good one

Hot to Trot Daphne · 04-14-2015, 09:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

just think what you could have accomplished in your business had you directed your valuable time elsewhere

I'm off today and my house is clean.

I thought you were leaving?

Hot to Trot Daphne · 04-14-2015, 10:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

i can only give advice on how to not let other peoples words effect you

Someone should take their own advice.

Quote:

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

I don't believe there is such a thing as cyber stalking

you want to silence

cyber-stalking:
the repeated use of electronic communications to systematically harass or frighten someone

These are just the THREADS you quoted her in, not those posts where you spelled her name wrong (like you spell everything else) or alluded to her, or referred to her as a whale and these are posts on the open board.. Most of these threads she started, and you just had to add .02. In quite a few she ignores you, though you plow forward.

Even after being asked and warned several times to stop, here we are.

She doesn't even post that often anymore, but when she does, there you pop up, every-fucking-time.

The sheer volume of this alone should be the very definition of cyber stalking. You commented in 6 of her last 20 reviews, and a good amount of that time you were banned. Since I can tell you're a guy who needs a visual in order to get the point, here you go.