Cyber-Stalking....

[elghund]

Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus

when I come up there, thinck I'll be able to find a stalker at AC that likes giving massages?

I don't AC.......but give a real good massage! I'll trade you one for a 5 minute stalk........

elg..........

[Justapervert]

This is really quite simple, and it does happen, has happened, and continues to happen here, knowingly to the mods and ownership. yet at times, there are no "rules" or "laws" that can be enforced.
The cyber stalking on this site is ridiculous. There are those, lowlifes and miscreants of society.. .who show their distain for leadership and ownership of this site amd its members, by seeking out private rl info on those who are members of this site, that they feel they have the right to invade their privacy and share it with others they see as being "their friends, or fellow "club" members.
They claim, when caught, that there was no harm intended. Then what was the purpose? I guess stalking all comes down to what are your intentions with the "information" you find on someone? is this to be used for personal growth? Blackmail? does it lead to RL personal stalking?
in short, does it happen? daily to anyone on here. Can you stop it ... Nope Can the powers that be enforce bans when someone is caught doing this, ? yes they can, but will they. thats the bigger question.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

I know this for sure: St.C doesn't condone outing AT ALL, so if you have any sort of proof of someone doing that shoot Chica Chaser and St.C a PM.

[Guest061315]

Members have compiled a list of the links and post number
Of all the stalking incidents of those that have stalked them and
Put them in a pm and sent them up the chain..

What the syalkers are doing with the info they gather on a person
Really is unknown untill they make their move..

Now if the information sent up, the list of links to the threads
And post numbers is adequate enough..then they will ban the offender..
And yes..I have been a witness to this..

Thats really all they can do..anything that happens off and outside of this site
Is outa the realm of eccie..ya gotta show theres a pattern..rtm posts..pm"s, chat room
Talk..ya gotta gather it up..that part is on you..

[Justapervert]

Agreed... but sometimes there is only the "stink" left from the perp. That is where this gets real sticky..." we know who it is but.............."
Truly, it sucks that there are those who are cowards and have to hide behind some internet persona to get themselves off. The fact we even have to talk about this is pathetic.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by aj14620

Thats really all they can do..anything that happens off and outside of this site
Is outa the realm of eccie..ya gotta show theres a pattern..rtm posts..pm"s, chat room
Talk..ya gotta gather it up..that part is on you..

The first sentence in your post is incorrect. I'm just looking it out because that's not the policy. I don't know exactly what incidences you're referring to so I cannot speak with certainty on that, but a blind eye does not get turned to outing on board or off board.

The second part is true, you have to do your due diligence and collect your evidence. Emotion and conjecture won't go anywhere.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Lincks anyone? I didn't think JB was the only stalker up in here.

[KaylaRyder]

Originally Posted by FlyboyNY

Hi let me introduce myself. I have been in the hobby 30 years. I am addicted to beautiful women and adore all those on here. I think if you talk to the girls I have seen you will find I always treat them with the utmost respect. But you would have to ask them to be sure of that. I am normally very polite unless I am misaligned. I try to add levity to the board sometimes but once in awhile it backfires. I have never been called disgusting (at least not that I know of) before this thread. Maybe when I leave and the door closes behind me it is said but I have never had a girl I saw not want to see me again. If you ever wanted (and I am sure you do not) I could give you a very impressive list of references. But to be honest with you I have not had a need to use anyone for a reference in a very long time as my credibility was established a long time ago. Nice to meet you.

I would not condsider u a stalker at all, I'm not sure that anyone could come up with a valid example of u as one, unless it happened before I became a vp but I haven't heard of anything negative.. By your posts u seem like a nice guy..

: ) still waiting to meet u : ) lol

For real though i would love to meet u Xoxoxoxoxo

[KaylaRyder]

My thoughts on Cyber stalking on eccie...

When someone follows u around on the board making negative posts in almost every thread u comment in

Constant neg comments in reviews
Exsp.. when the "member" has never seen the girl

Sending excessive pms when asked not to

Its ridiculous that with us all being adults this would need to be discussed.... yet some here I would def consider as cyber stalkers... I'm sure that if members here had to put their pictures as avatars, with real name and contact info, they wouldn't say half the shit they say... but instead they hide behind their computers and bully bc they can't be held real world acountable...I would consider those members to be gutless direspectful loosers that lead lonely boring lives....




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[Justapervert]

:clappin g:

[KaylaRyder]

Originally Posted by Justapervert

:clappin g:

U too. : ) ♡ Xoxoxo xoxoxo

[Tiger]

Originally Posted by aj14620

I pay my stalkers a nickel per stalk..

Do ya pay in pennies?

[FlyboyNY]

Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus

Nice ro to meet you too Flyboy. According to one of your peers you're a stalker. Any thoughts on the subject?

Sure. Definitely not a stalker. Bad jokester I guess. But the person you call my peer did not have the inside story as to why I posted my little diddy. It started as a private joke with TCG and when I extended it to Amber she took offense to it. No offense meant for sure. We really can put this to rest now. Like I said to two other uninformed posters you are welcome to look back in my posts and find anything that resembles stalking or bashing of girls here. As far as Amber LHAO that's fine. She has that right. It has not nor will it affect my credibility with the wonderful girls i see. I stated the facts elsewhere but will state them one last time. I asked for an appointment, she turned me down, i asked for a reason, she said she did not owe me one. She was more than polite through out the exchange. I thought I would extend my little joke to her and it was not a good idea. She took offense to it and a couple "peers" here jumped on the band wagon and blew this out of proportion. What ever I did to Amber (who I never met nor had any interaction with) that made her feel so negative toward me I would certainly try to correct given the chance but not having a clue am unable to.
If it makes small men feel big to bash people then by all means have fun. I for one am too busy other places to spend anymore time on this. And thanks for asking.
Hobby safe.

[FlyboyNY]

Originally Posted by trisha.xxx .countrygirl

I would not condsider u a stalker at all, I'm not sure that anyone could come up with a valid example of u as one, unless it happened before I became a vp but I haven't heard of anything negative.. By your posts u seem like a nice guy..

: ) still waiting to meet u : ) lol

For real though i would love to meet u Xoxoxoxoxo

Are you stalking me????
Oh wait. Just a joke. But only some of us get it.

Yes, we have to work on our schedules. Thanks.
I would post our diddy too but it seems to be offensive to a few.

[KaylaRyder]

Originally Posted by FlyboyNY

Are you stalking me????
Oh wait. Just a joke. But only some of us get it.

Yes, we have to work on our schedules. Thanks.
I would post our diddy but too but it seems to be offensive to a few.

Lol. Xoxoxo
: ) still waiting to see u babe : )
And yes I am so gonna stalk u till I get the chance to be with u, then I may stalk u even more sweetheart ; )