Houston I have a problem! :/

[NikkiSecrets]

Thank you for your input! I will take everything everyone says into consideration. I like you attitude and now I see I maybe shouldn't have been so angry in the thread. This is a learning process and I am more then willing to learn. From now on I will quit being so bitchy lol.

Originally Posted by Kay2Day

Its the nature of the beast really and we all have that happens to us its all in time management and how you choose to handle it.

I do alot of traveling so im usually answering msgs for 3 or 4 different cities simultaneously... you know what gets asked the most ???Do you offer Greek ( Even though the first thing you will see when clicking my add is usually 3 Holes if Aaaahmazing- and no i wasnt talking about my ear LMAO) and are you available X- Day ( even though its usually the first thing i posted in the body of my ads) Not one time have I ever responded' OMG DIDNT U READ MY FUCKIN AD.' It really takes all of 30 seconds to either write response or politely refer them to your webpage for more info. Even if its something im not into, i usually take the time to thank them for their time and consideration
generally speak if you have enough time to generate a 100 post response in coed... post on ISOs and participate in random coed discussions ... you should have enough time to answer a few questions for someone that wants to "donate to the cause "

But if its reallly that bad that you feel like you are 'wasting time' time trying to close the deal with potential clients. Make a generic response that covers all those bases, save it to your email and just CCP ( Cut Copy and Paste) that response to the gents that ask you those redundant questions... it really takes all of 20 seconds to do and saves alot of time trust me

[NikkiSecrets]

With all do respect I am sorry I did not reply to your input but jumping the gun and assuming you think you know my character from some post is what upset me. I don't know you & you don't know me. It was never my intention for you to feel a certain way because I didn't say thank you directly to you for your advice. I appreciate EVERY single provider who gives me advice. Maybe I should not have replied back to you the way I did. I don't like drama! After reading what you've said I see were you are coming from and get it. But honestly what you think was never my intention. Hope you accept my apology.

Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

1) Yes, posting "I don't do X so don't ask" will definitely drive business. There are a ton of lurkers who only read co-ed and never really look through ads that might never have seen her without a co-ed thread. Most of the time when a lady posts in co-ed, she knows this and is just participating to get her face out in the forum. You wouldn't know. You're not on the receiving end of the attention.

2) The difference between her threAD and mine is I willingly admit it was a threAD. I wasn't complaining about a problem and implying that a solution was needed. I was just calling attention to myself and using the excuse of the question I saw in the comments of my reviews to do it. She says this is a legitimate problem, so if that is the case, why is she not interested in finding solutions? If I had such a commonly recurring problem that was wasting my time, I certainly wouldn't go around dissing the ladies who were kind enough to offer me some ways to figure out a solution to my problem. She's losing time and money, according to her. We gain absolutely nothing by offering her advice. We did it to be kind to someone we thought was seriously looking for a solution to the thing that drove her to make such an angry, blame-everyone-but-her post.

3) Yes, co-ed is for discussing hobby-related topics. But there are some of us who like to be productive with our posts. Offer solutions to problems, different perspectives, information that we may have learned the hard way and are trying to save someone else the headache. When we take the time to do such a thing and then are treated so rudely, of course we reserve the right to be rude back. She posted something that seemed like she wanted a solution. When we offered it, we heard crickets and got the excuse that she doesn't have time to say thank you, but she has plenty of time for X's and O's with the boys. If she wants to treat the ladies so rudely and dismissively for trying to be helpful, I don't see why we can't tell her exactly where she can shove her future problems. She is welcome to learn all her lessons the hard way, and please stop posting things that make us think she would appreciate some help. If she just wants to be all hugs and kisses with the guys, post a fucking Titty Tuesday thread or something.

4) She makes $250/hr and complains about her clients being too lazy to solve her problems for her? Come on now. Maybe looking at it like she gets paid so well to deal with some client hand-holding would make it clear to her that recurring issues with her business are not her clients' problem, but her own. Just consider it part of the job. Because it is.

5) It seems like the height of stupidity to post a thread going "here's a problem I'm having over and over and I want to stomp my foot and complain and tell you all how stupid and lazy I think you are, but don't offer me any advice on how to do better because I'm just going to be a brat and keep doing things the same way and hope the Fuck Fairy comes and fixes it for me." But that's just my opinion.

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by cabletex7

Hey now!

Ima gonna go ahead and drink a toast to you, DM.

Heh

* Raises My MD 20/20 Bottle *

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by NikkiSecrets

I am sorry I didn't personally quote you..But calm down it isn't that serious I appreciate and thank everyone for any advice. What gives you the right to insult an assume you know me? You must have woken up on the wrong side of the bed. You see I didn't quote too many on this thread. Not because I disregarded what they said but I honestly do not have that much time in my day to spend it all on ECCIE. I apologize you got offended but girl take a damn chill pill it isn't that crucial!!!!!! Here's a beer enjoy it!!

It is No Secret Your A Hooktard & It Must Be Crucial Because You Made A Whole Thread To Bitch.. Don't Make A Thread Bitching & Then Ignore The Advice Given To Fix Your Rant. She didnt insult you she gave you advice your a hooker if you cant take the heat get out the kitchen..

Carolina Gives Good Advice Take Notes & Stop Being A Cry Baby!!

[Russ38]

Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

* Raises My MD 20/20 Bottle *

Awww shit....remember what happened last time....

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by Russ38

Awww shit....remember what happened last time....

Grrrrr * Puts Bottle Down *

[citizen44]

Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

Lol, you're cute. Good advice and life lessons are wasted on you. I hope no other ladies waste their time trying to help you out. You've got time to pander to the boys all day long, but you don't have time to offer a simple thank you to ladies who offered YOU help about YOUR problem? Your over-sensitivity doesn't mean that I was insulting to you at all. The fact that you think practical solutions and insight into the nature of your issues and how you handle them is insulting, ensures you'll never excel at anything. Demanding that people only offer you advice wrapped in pretty bows is a good way to never get good, solid advice. I'm wasting my breath on you, I know, but hopefully another new lady that reads this is smarter and knows how to glean valuable information from ANY source so she can not only succeed, but excel. When someone has something you want, in this case business know-how and logical thinking skills, you should be willing to learn no matter how it is presented to you. No one owes you anything. And being ungrateful for free advice is moronic.

NOW I'm being just a little insulting, though honest. See the difference?

Wow, winning friends and insulting people as usual.

You get pissed and start getting all bitchy and insulting with anyone that doesn't agree with you and then start kissing your ass. You should thank God every day that he graced you with a decent ass and pair of tits. If your body matched your personality, instead of being the self proscribed queen of a hooker board, you'd be nothing but a PWT queen of a trailer park.

Nikki read your advice, and doesn't care for it. Her choice. She read my comments and didn't care for them. Her choice. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. What you don't do is start kicking the horse and insulting it when it just stands there. If you somehow feel people owe you something when you address them, you're never going to find any friends.

[NikkiSecrets]

I realized my wrong and recognized it. That isn't kissing ass and you don't have to be such an asshole. I Honestly skimmed through the thread. I didn't mean to not recognize her advice I don't reply back to a lot of people. Maybe I shouldn't of said what I said to her and be so "bitchy" I apologized. You just think you have me all figured out. You cant tell a person through the internet. I got the wrong impression on certain peoples comments and I see that. I was never trying to insult anyone.

[NikkiSecrets]

Yeah I see I got ahead of myself. I'll censor myself from not on. I have now read the entire thread and I get it

Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

It is No Secret Your A Hooktard & It Must Be Crucial Because You Made A Whole Thread To Bitch.. Don't Make A Thread Bitching & Then Ignore The Advice Given To Fix Your Rant. She didnt insult you she gave you advice your a hooker if you cant take the heat get out the kitchen..

Carolina Gives Good Advice Take Notes & Stop Being A Cry Baby!!

[Mojo1972]

I stated Caroline had the best advice 3-4 pages back.

I gave you sarcastic advice and you never even saw it because "You skimmed the thread." Your words, not mine. I was telling you there is a market for CBJ and to shit or get off the pot. Fix it, or don't. You replied, "Thanks, Sweetie." If you refuse to advertise you only do CBJ, fault is on you.

That's it.

Sad thang is, if you actually advertised it, your "business" might pick up.

No false pretenses = no neg reviews. Be truthful, state what is OFF the table.

If you trick people Johnny-on-the-spot, fault is back on you. I said that 3-4 pages ago.

Do you offer Greek BTW? Don't see that listed as either or not.

WTF I know, I'm just a fucktard.....................

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by citizen44

Wow, winning friends and insulting people as usual.

You get pissed and start getting all bitchy and insulting with anyone that doesn't agree with you and then start kissing your ass. You should thank God every day that he graced you with a decent ass and pair of tits. If your body matched your personality, instead of being the self proscribed queen of a hooker board, you'd be nothing but a PWT queen of a trailer park.

Nikki read your advice, and doesn't care for it. Her choice. She read my comments and didn't care for them. Her choice. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. What you don't do is start kicking the horse and insulting it when it just stands there. If you somehow feel people owe you something when you address them, you're never going to find any friends.

Damn when are you going to book an appointment or stop following her around? We get it... you didn't like her threAD.. but did you die tho?

[Guest030816]

Originally Posted by NikkiSecrets

Yeah I see I got ahead of myself. I'll censor myself from now on. I have now read the entire thread and I get it

You had it right in your very first sentence. " Houston I have a problem "
You could have stopped there. It's YOUR problem. Instead you insult clients and potential clients saying they're lazy, giving them extra work to do if they want to see you. "READ MY FUCKING REVIEWS" When it's just so much easier to recognize BSC and move on to the next... Once you hit that submit button, you have one hour to edit it, then it becomes Eccie history. Now this is tied to your profile for whoever does a real search instead of just reading the reviews. Those of us who are not LAZY. I'll read previous posts, threads started just to get a feel of who I'm seeing. Lots of pretty faces out there. It's much better to spend your time and money with someone you might actually enjoy being with.

[Guest040816]

Calling the Kettle black Dorthy,,,

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1357357
Grrrr..... Fucktards & There Brilliant Thinking

A many of providers vent out of frustration,,,in the process we are all learning.

[CarolineDavenport]

Originally Posted by NikkiSecrets

With all do respect I am sorry I did not reply to your input but jumping the gun and assuming you think you know my character from some post is what upset me. I don't know you & you don't know me. It was never my intention for you to feel a certain way because I didn't say thank you directly to you for your advice. I appreciate EVERY single provider who gives me advice. Maybe I should not have replied back to you the way I did. I don't like drama! After reading what you've said I see were you are coming from and get it. But honestly what you think was never my intention. Hope you accept my apology.

I appreciate your apology and accept wholeheartedly. Very classy of you. Best of luck.

[BFCjosh]

Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

I'm sorry I don't smother my posts in sugar and kisses. I speak to people like capable adults who don't need to be coddled. I'm not here to hold your hand and tell you you're precious. I don't patronize people that way. You came here complaining about a problem. I took time out of my day to give you some damn good advice that it seemed like you needed. You decided to respond to the person who confirmed that my advice was good, and thanked HIM because he was sweeter about it, and ignore me completely except to apparently complain that I and some others aren't coddling you. Responding this way to people who take the time to hand you knowledge that might otherwise take you a lot of time to acquire doesn't inspire people to help you in the future. All the coddling and hand holding in the world won't help you make better business decisions. Yes, you need to have thick skin around here. But, really, you need to have thick skin in life. If how a person says something to you affects whether or not you take good advice when given the chance, you're cutting off your nose to spite your face, or taking opportunity away from yourself just to coddle yourself. Get over your easily insulted ego and realize when people are offering you something of value, no matter how nice or mean they are about it.

Or don't, and keep having problems and stop bothering us with them if all you want is a pat on the head.

I went and looked for the horrible things she said to you that caused such an angry response from you. I found...nothing. She didn't say anything to you. You were pissed just because she didn't shower you with thanks.

Originally Posted by NikkiSecrets

With all do respect I am sorry I did not reply to your input but jumping the gun and assuming you think you know my character from some post is what upset me. I don't know you & you don't know me. It was never my intention for you to feel a certain way because I didn't say thank you directly to you for your advice. I appreciate EVERY single provider who gives me advice. Maybe I should not have replied back to you the way I did. I don't like drama! After reading what you've said I see were you are coming from and get it. But honestly what you think was never my intention. Hope you accept my apology.

One of these ladies showed more class than the other. Hint, it wasn't the diva who got butthurt because she didn't get the "thank you" she craved.

"I worked for that thank you! I deserve that thank you! Give me my damn thank you!!!!!"