Do providers ever give freebies?

[Sir Lancehernot]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Do it once, I'm afraid it would always be expected (speaking from experience)

You didn't know him as well as you thought you did, in which case you probably shouldn't have made the offer, or he managed to pull the wool over your eyes, in which case I'd say that not all guys are like that.

Of course, hindsight is 20/20, and you have to do what you have to do to maintain your business successfully.

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Do it once, I'm afraid it would always be expected (speaking from experience)

That is depending on what your client base is. We all know you are in this for the money, but there is nothing wrong with a buy 4 sessions get the 5th one free, then repeat the process. Or maybe, like Laura Lynn said, if he is a regular client, give him a free session on his birthday, and I will bet that more times than not, a good client will tip you money, maybe not your full regular hour amount, but he knows this is a business.

The bad thing from the client's perspective is that he may want that free session at a day/time you have a paying client that wants to see you, so obviously, you take the paying client.

[Eva Damita]

On the flip side...what is the cost of free poontang for him?

Reverse Buyer's Remorse on her end, which ultimately leads to her feeling she's owed and a potential falling out could occur.

And in Pyramider's case with 1.3 inches of dangling death, women get "dickmatized". And in floods constant calls, texts, and maybe some " Fatal Attraction" recaps.

I can once had an acquaintance with a fantasy provider. I believe she was providing to feel a part of the group, but really just gave it out out if curiosity of the man's bedroom skills.

[Biff Biffington]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

Counter Question:

Hobbyist, have you guys every gave a provider cash/donations without receiving nothing in return?

Like in a freebie type of way

Yes. A few times. One time I gave the donation up front, then the provider said she needed to run to her car to get the cover and never came back. I'm pretty sure a lot of guys her have been ripped off.

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by Biff Biffington

Yes. A few times. One time I gave the donation up front, then the provider said she needed to run to her car to get the cover and never came back. I'm pretty sure a lot of guys her have been ripped off.

No im not saying it as a ripped off type of way. More like just a generous offer sorta thing.

I'm basically asking what the OP is asking but reversing it. Instead of a provider freebie(free sex, no money) I'm talking about a hobbyist freebie(free money, no sex) GENEROUSLY

[samantha thom]

I have never given freebies but I've gotten some freebies before and I am very appreciative with the generosity. :-)

[Sir Lancehernot]

Yes, money and gifts, and occasional other assistance. And I'm embarrassed to admit how much over the years. Whether the pleasure I have derived from giving is equal to or more than what I would have gotten had I spent it on appointments is something I wrestle with in my mind. But at least I'm having the debate and do not categorically feel like I have been ripped off or taken advantage of.

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

I'm basically asking what the OP is asking but reversing it. Instead of a provider freebie(free sex, no money) I'm talking about a hobbyist freebie(free money, no sex) GENEROUSLY

I know one thing, in your scenario, hobbyists give money to providers for nothing WAY more than providers giving hobbyists a freebie session. And it does not have to be cash, it can be paying a bill, rent or maybe paying for a service to be done (car repair, daycare, hotel room, ect.).

So the answer to your question is YES, hobbyists do pay providers money for nothing in return along with getting taken advantage of from the providers who are scammers, then you add the guys who have to also pay for the SO and her bullshit.

[DarkeyKong]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

No im not saying it as a ripped off type of way. More like just a generous offer sorta thing.

I'm basically asking what the OP is asking but reversing it. Instead of a provider freebie(free sex, no money) I'm talking about a hobbyist freebie(free money, no sex) GENEROUSLY

You mean as in, a hobbyist calling a provider and meeting up just to give them money, not sure if this is a realistic scenario? Or helping a provider out with car troubles, shoes for a kid, food, or something like that?

I have given a technical freebie when I had a fire drill at work and had to leave before a session started. I guess that's a freebie because I didn't ask for a later session or anything like that.

Otherwise, I can't think of a dynamic that the hobbyist would be in a position or scenario to give the provider a freebie. Unless you count tips, tips are technically freebies.

[Biff Biffington]

Originally Posted by userb1

Why? I expect my friends to do shit for free for me? Or would I prefer to compensate them for their time and effort? Because we are friends after all right? Obviously your perspective of a friend is different than mine. I would like to help my friends (if I had any according to you) rather than take advantage.

No. It's because in your answer you said "don't be so fucking stupid". This kind of makes you sound like an asshole. Assholes dont have many friends. If you read any of the other answers you would have noticed that some guys have had a few freebies. It doesn't happen a lot, but it does happen. It's the providers choice. I never said that I ask for freebies.

[SexyPlatinum]

Yes ive dont this but wont happen again. Its never Appreciated really when you are being nice and actually horny too. Just because im horny doesnt mean i still am not thinking clearly lol I try to.

[Biff Biffington]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

No im not saying it as a ripped off type of way. More like just a generous offer sorta thing.

I'm basically asking what the OP is asking but reversing it. Instead of a provider freebie(free sex, no money) I'm talking about a hobbyist freebie(free money, no sex) GENEROUSLY

Oh sorry, one time a provider called me and asked if I could help her make rent. I drove to her place and gave her some cash. She had her kids with her so nothing happened.

[doug_dfw]

Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

To be honest, I have asked myself a different form of this question many times. Do I "want" or would I ever take a freebie? I don't think I would for a variety of reasons. I think I may find myself in the minority on this one, lol!

You have company DK. Likely in the minority on this thread but probably in plurality of honesty.

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

Lol. That's funny but what I mean is like, a guy comes over, hands the provider cash, then leaves. Have you ever done that before?

Yes, several times but if I had it to do over again it'd be many fewer than I've done. I don't have a problem helping someone out that's in need but unfortunately too many girls here professionally play men and then it's hard to find the line of those really needing help versus those scamming you. I've closed the shop now for my charity givings to go elsewhere, for the most part

Originally Posted by Chateau Becot

I get that. Totally. It's the proverbial "If you give a Mouse a Cookie...." thing, right?

Even when gifting a freebie to a dude (no matter the reason), you're gonna have those who'll try to take advantage. Give 'em an inch and they'll take a mile, right?

I've always interpreted the freebie session as "a gift"....nothing more, nothing less. Be happy with it (but) by no means ever, EVER expect it to be the norm.

To those who do....well, you're a total bonehead. And you're simply fucking it up for the next time she feels generous (ooops.....there won't BE a next time, will there? Go figure....)

Give a mouse a cookie??? How the heck would a mouse eat a cookie? It'd have to be a really small cookie. Metaphorically I guess I'd be giving that girl enough money to live off of for years.

Originally Posted by Biff Biffington

Oh sorry, one time a provider called me and asked if I could help her make rent. I drove to her place and gave her some cash. She had her kids with her so nothing happened.

Feels good doesn't it? If a girl I've gotten to know needs $100 for her kids or something I don't see an issue but I won't be her long-term ATM.

On topic, received several freebies but it doesn't work out in he long-run. As said earlier, it blurs the status of the relationship to the point it's easier just to cut it off.

[nolaces]

The last time I got freebies is when I had a personal relationship with a provider for about 2 years.