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anita · 03-23-2016, 03:54 PM

Long term arrangement is when someone wants to meet more than twice a month. Someone that travels a lot and likes the occasional travel companion or dinner companion.

A sugar daddy is someone that wants to spend a lot of time off the clock and help in most aspects of your life (mentoring, willing to help when your tires blows on the road or when you have an emergency and need extra money).

IMO

essence · 03-23-2016, 04:36 PM

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is someone that wants to spend a lot of time off the clock and help in most aspects of your life (mentoring, willing to help when your tires blows on the road or when you have an emergency and need extra money).

IMO

But doesn't any man do that if you are their atf, sd or not?

anita · 03-23-2016, 05:11 PM

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But doesn't any man do that if you are their atf, sd or not?

With me, no. I don't spend a lot of time off the clock even if I'm an ATF. I might stay extra hour every now and then but not every time. Might go to dinner off the clock but maybe just once a month. If he wants to spend that much time he should book more hours. A sugar daddy is not on an hourly clock, so we meet frequently for extended period of time. Can spend all day or all night without any exchange of money because he prepaid for the monthly arrangement.

Also, I definitely don't call/text any regular to ask for money or to change my tire. Emergency or not..

TheCat'sMeow · 03-25-2016, 02:48 AM

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Two things to remember about a sugar baby

a) it isn't sugar
b) she's not a baby

Sugar babies are primarily very young women that supply youthful "sweatness" in whatever form or manner to older men with some means and with a desire to control even though they categorically deny it,,,The men want to "guide" the young women and these "babies" want gifts that do not require them to have sex for an hour or so after receiving the gifts like some kind of whore. Your definitions are all wrong in spirit.

rlowden · 03-25-2016, 06:01 AM

I had a SB arrangement with a member of our board but it ready was a long term agreement. I found out for her it was a contract that she was fulfilling. A true SB relationship goes way beyond sex for money. Its a commitment on the guys side to support the SB and usually involves more than sex.

TheCat'sMeow · 03-25-2016, 06:25 AM

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I had a SB arrangement with a member of our board but it ready was a long term agreement. I found out for her it was a contract that she was fulfilling. A true SB relationship goes way beyond sex for money. Its a commitment on the guys side to support the SB and usually involves more than sex.

Old men that can't attract and keep a young girl without supporting her financially,,,They think it's a relationship but it really isn't,,,It's chasing after lost youth,,,These old men can easily find women their own age since women live longer than men do but ego gets in way. Old and young don't have much in common in today's world.

Wakeup · 03-25-2016, 06:36 AM

Are you saying you're NOT staying with your husband because of the lifestyle he gives you or the overseas trips he takes you on? Sell that somewhere else...

dearhunter · 03-25-2016, 06:56 AM

heh

essence · 03-25-2016, 10:13 AM

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Sugar babies are primarily very young women that supply youthful "sweatness" in whatever form or manner to older men with some means and with a desire to control even though they categorically deny it,,,The men want to "guide" the young women and these "babies" want gifts that do not require them to have sex for an hour or so after receiving the gifts like some kind of whore. Your definitions are all wrong in spirit.

Are you speaking from personal experience or from what you have read? How many girls have you met from a site like SA? Today I have:

a) had a discussion with a girl I met from SA and was friends with sex for some time, but now just friends, we were talking about pros and cons of her moving to another part of the country. So I think we can still call each other friends. We meet for tea and cakes every now and then.

b) had a discussion with a potential girl from SA, she said she had started talking to another guy last month but didn't continue as he was too controlling.

These examples are typical of the 20 or so girls over the years I met and had some form of relationship with from SA.

They don;t want to be controlled.
They don;t want explicit sex discussions from the start.
They do not want their studies or work disrupted.
They do want good sex from experienced guys.
They do want some help survive with living expenses
They do not want designer handbags or expensive jewelrey.

At least the above typify the ones I meet, I know there are many others who are very different.

Many are ex escorts.

As soon as you say 'sb's are this or that', I know you are wrong. Life is much more multi faceted.

GlobeSpotter · 03-25-2016, 10:23 AM

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......

They don;t want to be controlled.
They don;t want explicit sex discussions from the start.
They do not want their studies or work disrupted.
They do want good sex from experienced guys.
They do want some help survive with living expenses
They do not want designer handbags or expensive jewelrey.
......

matches my experience....especially single moms in college

essence · 03-25-2016, 10:47 AM

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matches my experience....especially single moms in college

Exactly - so different from the myths.

Of course if you want a princess non-working gold digger you can find those too

TheCat'sMeow · 03-25-2016, 01:52 PM

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Are you speaking from personal experience or from what you have read? How many girls have you met from a site like SA? Today I have:

a) had a discussion with a girl I met from SA and was friends with sex for some time, but now just friends, we were talking about pros and cons of her moving to another part of the country. So I think we can still call each other friends. We meet for tea and cakes every now and then.

b) had a discussion with a potential girl from SA, she said she had started talking to another guy last month but didn't continue as he was too controlling.

These examples are typical of the 20 or so girls over the years I met and had some form of relationship with from SA.

They don;t want to be controlled.
They don;t want explicit sex discussions from the start.
They do not want their studies or work disrupted.
They do want good sex from experienced guys.
They do want some help survive with living expenses
They do not want designer handbags or expensive jewelrey.

At least the above typify the ones I meet, I know there are many others who are very different.

Many are ex escorts.

As soon as you say 'sb's are this or that', I know you are wrong. Life is much more multi faceted.

They don't want to be controlled but of course SDs are going to try their best to control them until they submit or walk away,,,SBs are looking for a handout but they don't want earn it the old fashion way,,,What normal person does not want good sex from those that have done it more than twice?,,,Many SBs are escorts because the SB world is just as whorish as the oldest profession in the world,,,This has less to do with being right or being wrong but more to do with the approach. You pay for pussy but you can wait longer for it and thrive off of the drama like a lot of old men who can't do the hourly thing anymore.

essence · 03-25-2016, 04:12 PM

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They don't want to be controlled but of course SDs are going to try their best to control them until they submit or walk away,,,SBs are looking for a handout but they don't want earn it the old fashion way,,

You continue to say this and that, categorising and saying all sd's do this and all sb's do that, you really don't have a clue.

Try and get out into the real world sometimes, it is messy.

No, I don;t do the hourly thing any more, it doesn;t satisfy me, I need 3 hours inside a vagina minimum - per day

Guest021217 · 03-25-2016, 06:42 PM

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No, I don;t do the hourly thing any more, it doesn;t satisfy me, I need 3 hours inside a vagina minimum - per day

Pffft

TheCat'sMeow · 03-26-2016, 05:37 AM

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You continue to say this and that, categorising and saying all sd's do this and all sb's do that, you really don't have a clue.

Try and get out into the real world sometimes, it is messy.

No, I don;t do the hourly thing any more, it doesn;t satisfy me, I need 3 hours inside a vagina minimum - per day

The world isn't so messy as long as you avoid the drama,,,But you are telling us that you enjoy it,,,The real world doesn't play silly SD and SB games,,,People take care of business and move on to other things that matter the most once the desires subside.

If you need three hours of cock in pussy, then work for a porn company,,,Did you use the half blue pill or swallowed the whole one?,,,I think most of those three hours were spent talking.