Time wasters in LR

[Lovelyallison]

I was warned against using BP due to LE activity, but nobody warmed me about the rampant time wasters. THE ONES WHO COMPLETE THE SCREENING PROCESS, THEN NCNS. This makes 3 and this is just my 2nd day in LR.

The worst of the offenders lied about coming to my door and not receiving an answer, when I wait at my door to open so that knocking is kept to a minimum. I'm sure you ladies already have their information since you live here, but if you would like it I will gladly pm you.

Allison

[Ginger Doll]

Well Allison, sounds to me like you've only experienced half of the joy. Come up to Northwest Arkansas and meet the rest of the weenies!

Seriously though, sorry you are experiencing this. It is definitely an issue. Post them in Danielle's thread! Lol

Thankfully, there are some very good guys here in Arkansas that help make up for the timewasters.

[cassie_love]

Dont forget NEA. Oh the fun!! The excessive texting, pics request, low ballers.
Oh.. My fave the 2 that I've given my room # to and then *poof* go from being in the "parking lot" to complete silence.
That was a few months ago. I've found a different way to make sure their actually there before we go to incall now lol.

But i will most definitely say the good does outweigh the bad.
The gents I've had the pleasure of spending time with have been nothing less than amazing.

With the ones who BS.. I just block them. Go on about my day.
Kill em with kindness 😘

Don't let the jerks mess your visit up darlin!!

[JdeHog]

Come to NWA... I am definitely not a time waster!

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by JdeHog

Come to NWA... I am definitely not a time waster!

You are definitely not! You're one of the sweetest guys in the Arkansas hobby, IMO.

[Lovelyallison]

Originally Posted by JdeHog

Come to NWA... I am definitely not a time waster!

I was thinking about coming down this afternoon

[Lovelyallison]

Originally Posted by cassie_love

Dont forget NEA. Oh the fun!! The excessive texting, pics request, low ballers.
Oh.. My fave the 2 that I've given my room # to and then *poof* go from being in the "parking lot" to complete silence.
That was a few months ago. I've found a different way to make sure their actually there before we go to incall now lol.

But i will most definitely say the good does outweigh the bad.
The gents I've had the pleasure of spending time with have been nothing less than amazing.

With the ones who BS.. I just block them. Go on about my day.
Kill em with kindness 😘

Don't let the jerks mess your visit up darlin!!

For sure. When I wrote this post I was a bit perturbed. Nothing some good sushi couldn't fix!

[JdeHog]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

You are definitely not! You're one of the sweetest guys in the Arkansas hobby, IMO.

Why thank you, Miss Ginger!

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by JdeHog

Come to NWA... I am definitely not a time waster!

Yeah, but unless that constitutes a definite commitment to see her if she does come that way, you probably don't want to be giving her hope that NWA is going to treat her any better.

The real question is, what is the ratio of non-time-wasters to time-wasters? One good client doth not a successful tour visit make (unless that one client is an overnight with a huge tip on top, but my guess is that those are rare).

Cheers,

bcg

[Danielle Reid]

NWA is a much better place to hobby than Central, AR. If you're offended by this then you're probably part of the problem.

[TechOne]

Originally Posted by Lovelyallison

For sure. When I wrote this post I was a bit perturbed. Nothing some good sushi couldn't fix!

I have always considered my sessions to be a complete waste of time for the lucky provider that chose to see me...nothing spectacular happening and all...but like you say, there is nothing some good sushi and saki can't fix!

Sorry if I have ever wasted yours.

[theotherguy1]

I remember we had a “Short Notice” thread that was good on here. Why not have a NCNS thread to expose the time wasters. The providers who do this hurt their rep and guys who do it hurt the whole area rep. If I was provider I wouldn’t come to an area where ½ the guys don’t show up for appointments. I think if you shine a light on these time waster they would be more considerate knowing that all the other providers are going to know them. Since it would be in the open forum that provider or guy could give their side of it and they could work something out. I don’t see guys having any problem putting out that a provider is a NCNS queen (CoCo). I also notice that when most of these providers are exposed they attempt to fix the problem quickly. Sometimes it is a simple misunderstanding and can be easily compromised. Sometimes you have repeat offenders that need to be exposed. Even when you have the “Ass Hole of Year award” like myself no one can say that I wasted their time. Unless they are talking about my BCD skills.

On Hell Kitchen last night one of the contestants said that she work at a restaurant or food truck where they specialist in "Mexican Inspired Sushi". I don't know what that is and Gordon Ramsey didn't either.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by theotherguy1

... Even when you have the “Ass Hole of Year award” like myself no one can say that I wasted their time. Unless they are talking about my BCD skills...

Uh, excuse me, you wrote me for years about appointments that you never followed through with. Extensive and unnecessary PMs about total nonsense, writing back-and-forth up until the last minute, when you would tell me, yet again, that it wasn't going to work out because [insert random excuse here.] You even tried to get a free appointment for the contact information of someone who you said could help me become a leg model. And I wasn't even interested in becoming a leg model! I finally made the determination that you were looking for a penpal and not a hooker, and told you to quit writing me. And even after all of that, I still gave you another chance. Right up until the point when you wrote Danielle, making an offensive joke about a very private and traumatic situation in her past. Although I agree with you on very little, I do give you props for embracing the Asshole of the Year award. Acceptance is half the battle.

[Lovelyallison]

Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

Yeah, but unless that constitutes a definite commitment to see her if she does come that way, you probably don't want to be giving her hope that NWA is going to treat her any better.

The real question is, what is the ratio of non-time-wasters to time-wasters? One good client doth not a successful tour visit make (unless that one client is an overnight with a huge tip on top, but my guess is that those are rare).

Cheers,

bcg

At the end of the day all I ask is that hobbyist respect me and my time as gentleman, and I will stay respectful of theirs. Little Rock was probably one of the most disrespectful areas I have ever visited in my entire career. This does not mean EVERY hobbyist in LR is full of it, but I seemed to experience a lot who were. One man asked me if I wanted to be his, and I quote "house ni****" So yes, to me even ONE respectful gent trumps my whole LR experience. I already feel better about my decision to leave!

I didn't intend for this thread to become a bashing of hobbyists or providers, nor a woe is me post. I was fed up with an ugly situation, and wanted to warn the other ladies of a few douches. Since it seems they are already aware, hey. It's Saturday, the sun is shining, and there's hot biker babes and dudes milling about. This drinks on me

Kisses,
Miss Allison 48J

[theotherguy1]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Uh, excuse me, you wrote me for years about appointments that you never followed through with. Extensive and unnecessary PMs about total nonsense, writing back-and-forth up until the last minute, when you would tell me, yet again, that it wasn't going to work out because [insert random excuse here.] You even tried to get a free appointment for the contact information of someone who you said could help me become a leg model. And I wasn't even interested in becoming a leg model! I finally made the determination that you were looking for a penpal and not a hooker, and told you to quit writing me. And even after all of that, I still gave you another chance. Right up until the point when you wrote Danielle, making an offensive joke about a very private and traumatic situation in her past. Although I agree with you on very little, I do give you props for embracing the Asshole of the Year award. Acceptance is half the battle.

Agree with you on most of the things you said. Each and every time I had a conflict I let you know before hand. Things happen to us all the time. I don’t think I have ever made a solid appointment with you and not made it. I may have said I wanted to see you but I don’t ever remember making an actual date. I have reviewed too many individuals on here to be just a time waster and 90% of them could not hold a candle to you. On what planet would I waste your time saying we are going to get together and then settle for someone that I didn’t think measured up to you? I can be stupid but not that stupid. I decided to stop asking you because it just seemed like something always happened whenever I did contact you. On DR I thought I was being funny, I thought I was putting myself down. Then I reread the comments and actually saw that it was heartless knowing the whole situation and I have wanted to apologize to her and offer her a free spa visit for two to whatever spa she wanted to go to (not with me of course). Although I still desire Asshole of the Year for every writing it. I didn’t know what I had written until I reread it. The leg modeling situation. I never ever asked for a free appointment for getting you with that agent. I never thought about it, I don’t think. I just knew him and I knew he was always looking for new talent I thought you had fantastic legs and would do well for him. If I gave you the impression that I wanted a reward, I didn’t I was actually doing a favor for him more than you because he made a commissions on his talents and they were always looking for new talent. I have sent referrals to him from women that I met in the mall. I am thankful to say I didn’t need a free appointment. I have a lot of problems but that’s not one of them.