Newbie Question

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by grumpy2

The very first two I've asked for a hour were UBR and lillygray and they both want a DL, a link to either Facebook, LinkedIn, or work badge. I'm thinking to verify information on the internet to see where you live and get your home phone number. So far no one has asked to send a copy of a passport or birth certificate. Providing that kind of information other than showing up with a wallet full of cash doesn't make sense.

the idear ...of willfully given ...a funnel yer info

[Next Best Thing]

You barely have to read between the lines with any number of hooks at any given time to figure out who's desperate for cash or whatever else they're desperate for.

As of less than 45 seconds ago there's a thread posted by a hook lamenting her cell phone being fucked up and how everything would be oh-so different if she could get a ride to Syracuse.

Seriously? This is what you're dealing with.

People in this predicament are in no way to dictate terms to customers with hundreds of dollars in cash to flush down the toilet.

Enjoy.

[grumpy2]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

You barely have to read between the lines with any number of hooks at any given time to figure out who's desperate for cash or whatever else they're desperate for.

A of less than 45 seconds ago there's a thread posted by a hook lamenting her cell phone being fucked up and how everything would be oh-so different if she could get a ride to Syracuse.

Seriously? This is what you're dealing with.

People in this predicament are in no way to dictate terms to customers with hundreds of dollars in cash to flush down the toilet.

Enjoy.

I agree with you 100%. They will just miss out on the cash flow opportunities.

[Next Best Thing]

Most of the hooks are posting bullshit that they wish was true. The single largest tangible problem is the male lesbian insistence on kissing their asses and enabling them.

My policy is to sit back, wait, and strike when an attractive opportunity presents itself and I'm in a frame of mind to bang out a hook. As long as the girl is visually attractive to me I could not possibly care less what she thinks of herself or what some other nobody says about her to try to get on her good side.

It's not like this in most markets but it is like this here.

[Guest072118]

Woah, hell froze over... Next for once I agree with you on those last couple of posts...

[Next Best Thing]

Yes Elle - thank you snookums.

Here's what's my favorite paradox about male lesbians. They work as hard as they can to create this nice guy, bullshit it's-more-than-a-business-relationship narrative (which is playing straight into the hook's hand),but the greatest fear of every hook I have ever had more than 15 minutes of conversation has confirmed is being stalked by some male lesbian who takes the fantasy literally and falls neck deep into puppy-love.

Not the dispassionate paying customer who forks over his money for meaningless sex with a real-life blow-up doll.

It's like counter-intuitive and these poor victims of both mid-life crisis and their own low self esteem are the real boogie men.

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

but the greatest fear of every hook I have ever had more than 15 minutes of conversation has confirmed is being stalked

Interesting.

This is the least of my fears in this business.

Could be an interesting topic to chat about. I'll start a ThreAd.

[Guest011124]

Most of us don't care where you live. Primary concern Is law enforcement. With no references, it is almost required to give up personal information to complete screening. I've never asked for FB or a drivers license. I use LinkedIn and employment verification regularly. I can understand why a gentleman wouldn't feel comfortable revealing this info, but no screening = no date.

[Next Best Thing]

I would imagine that you'll have a difficult time getting a hook to admit this because it's bad for business.

The only time you'll get the vapor trail of this kind of thing on a message board is when one of the look-at-me girls is being legitimately hounded by a truly mentally defective male lesbian.

The most ironic thing about this is the unanimous condemnation of the actions of the offending male lesbian by his fellow male lesbians in the immediate aftermath of these type of dramatics.

[LittleLolita91]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

You barely have to read between the lines with any number of hooks at any given time to figure out who's desperate for cash or whatever else they're desperate for.

As of less than 45 seconds ago there's a thread posted by a hook lamenting her cell phone being fucked up and how everything would be oh-so different if she could get a ride to Syracuse.

Seriously? This is what you're dealing with.

People in this predicament are in no way to dictate terms to customers with hundreds of dollars in cash to flush down the toilet.

Enjoy.

Wow, with the bashing...
yes I had planned on touring Rochester with saltcitykitten on Friday. First car accident, then my phone screen is inoperable so my contacts were all lost. Ive done facebook as a way to verify before, and I KNOW Lilly Grey is an amazing, reputable provider. Ive also chatted with Marissa from UBR before as well, if you don't have references, then they are doing their best to try and verify you. You should be concerned if they DONT verify. If they are taking the time to comply and this is an issue for you then simply find someone whom will see you without references. Whewww not sure how I was brought up. I have never had problems like this before but am without my vehicle for the weekend and I'm not sure how my issues are being compared to verification issues on a Newbie thread.

[LittleLolita91]

Originally Posted by ElleW

Interesting.

This is the least of my fears in this business.

Could be an interesting topic to chat about. I'll start a ThreAd.

My fears are:
Law Enforcement
Unsafe Clientele
A girl was just found dead in a hotel room near my area, not an eccie girl but nonetheless. Safety is of upmost importance.
How are you to stalk someone if you meet in a hotel?
And if you meet at their residence, and stalk that it's taken care of in other ways. I agree with you Elle.

[lickidyclit]

I believe anybody has access to a multitude of your personal info just knowing your phone number, especially if you have had it for any length of time,all they need do is google it.I have had a few hooks ask to be friends on face book and the only info I ever give is my first name and my cell number!

[LittleLolita91]

I'm sure you have references though

[Next Best Thing]

And it's as easy a decision to make as this would be:

If you want a Coke, but in order to get your hands on one you need to put the security of your personal and professional life in jeopardy, and in the hands of an unstable young kid who can't possibly understand what's at stake for you in this transaction, then pull your head out from inside your ass and buy Pepsi instead.

Pepsi is not exactly the same as Coke but it's a reasonably facsimile and in this scenario comes without the unnecessary risk.

Who knows, you may like Pepsi as much or more.

Plus, by not complying with Coke's unreasonably risky requirements you'll eventually make business bad for Coke and they'll realize that they don't get to call all the shots in the children's beverage industry.

[Lexxxy]

If you have such an issue with screening you're more than welcome to see pimped "providers". There are plenty "providers" that will be in the next RIP thread with "demons" to chose from.
You have the classier option of paying p411 to screen you so you don't have to give out personal info more than once. P411 is a good option for those that like to avoid bfs/pimps/managers and bruised "providers" with a case of the twitches or sleepies.
Like Bbg mentioned I don't use a DL either. I use Google, fb, twitter, work verification, student ID/work badge... the Facebook I use is fake and empty after searching I clear the history.