Is being a BBW considered a negative thing?

[Guest030219]

Thanks for the shout out Seductrix4u and the horse reference. Oh wait. Just kidding, not me.
BBW. My definition is A Beautiful Bigger Woman.
And nothing wrong with that.

[Enchanterlingum]

I have been thinking about a reasonable nuanced response to this. I had one and it just made me seem like a pretentious bore.



In summary, looks ain't everything. I look like hammered shit on my best day and I hope that I am not judged too strictly on the meat bag that I happen to inhabit right now. I try to operate on that principle.

[seductrix4u]

Originally Posted by MrOral69NPT

Thanks for the shout out Seductrix4u and the horse reference.

Is this the part where I say I love you anyway?

[seductrix4u]

Originally Posted by Enchanterlingum

meat bag

You had me at meat bag.

[woody4eroticfun]

Great question Ms Horse Whisperer....errrr, I mean Seductrix 😛

I happen to prefer women with some sexy curves.....maybe we need to invent some new terms to fill in the gap in between spinner and BBW.

[woody4eroticfun]

Originally Posted by WMJ4657

I have had the pleasure of visiting with Kati on more than one occasion & would never put her in the BBW category , don't think Candice is either!

+1

[@rlo726]

Originally Posted by redbeard087

Personnally I think there's an upper limit cut off, and a general rule of boobs must be bigger than belly. With that said, I've not once had a disappointing date with a BBW.

Yup, I have an upper limit too. But to me, it really depends on the woman (or man for that matter). There are two women, both the same size. One is sloppy and one carries it well. Makes all the difference in the world.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by seductrix4u

Not me, sir. The biggest C I personally ever encountered was on a white guy mid 50s, 5'9", maybe 150 pounds. He was probably 10" but as big around as a can of malt liquor. I could not get ANYTHING around it except both hands! He said he had that problem with every companion. He looked like a porn star flaccid. He said his nickname in high school was Horse. I did not dispute it.

This sounds like the same guy that went through boot camp with me. All the guys had to shower together; no one would let on that we were looking at that thing, but everyone was sneaking a peek. I wouldn't ask about it, not me for sure: someone finally did and was told it was a problem for him because he had lost girlfriends as soon as they found out. He also said is was difficult to maintain an erection. I could only imagine how big an erection was: flaccid it was as big as my lower arm - and almost as long.

I am happy with an average size. It is more fun..

[redbeard087]

Originally Posted by @rlo726

Yup, I have an upper limit too. But to me, it really depends on the woman (or man for that matter). There are two women, both the same size. One is sloppy and one carries it well. Makes all the difference in the world.

Exactly. And now, my question is this, is it just me or does it seem, in general, bigger gals just fuck better?

Smaller ladies, don't be confused, I love you too and am not knocking you AT ALL, but all things being equal I'd rather spend time with a girl who's 180-200 than one that's 110-130. Of course there are exceptions. Just a personal preference I guess. Since I'm a bigger guy I always feel like I'd break the small ones lol.

[seductrix4u]

Originally Posted by woody4eroticfun

Great question Ms Horse Whisperer....errrr, I mean Seductrix 😛

I happen to prefer women with some sexy curves.....maybe we need to invent some new terms to fill in the gap in between spinner and BBW.

That's a great suggestion, Mr. One of the Horses I've Whispered To, but I think it was more the negative vibe I've been picking up on in the "not a BBW" disclaimers than anything. Misperception on my part, I'm sure.

But I didn't die. So I'm upping my meds, and turning the page!

[seductrix4u]

Originally Posted by redbeard087

Exactly. And now, my question is this, is it just me or does it seem, in general, bigger gals just fuck better?

Sorry but I cannot agree with you on this one, sir. Because I'd love nothing more than to jump on the "fat girls do it better" bandwagon. But I can't.

There is one thing that makes a companion stand out over another companion: She wants to be with you, and her passion is not feigned.

[redbeard087]

Originally Posted by seductrix4u

Sorry but I cannot agree with you on this one, sir. Because I'd love nothing more than to jump on the "fat girls do it better" bandwagon. But I can't.

There is one thing that makes a companion stand out over another companion: She wants to be with you, and her passion is not feigned.

Understandable. I'm just speaking from personal experience. My belief that "fat girls do it better" as you put it just comes from having felt that passion, and that I'm actually desired, from those ladies much more often than smaller ladies.

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by redbeard087

Exactly. And now, my question is this, is it just me or does it seem, in general, bigger gals just fuck better?

Smaller ladies, don't be confused, I love you too and am not knocking you AT ALL, but all things being equal I'd rather spend time with a girl who's 180-200 than one that's 110-130. Of course there are exceptions. Just a personal preference I guess. Since I'm a bigger guy I always feel like I'd break the small ones lol.

How funny, I like a man w/meat. I may be smaller but I've felt that I was going to break men when I go for a ride.

[Joey_Gleet]

Beauty is in the aye of the beerholder. Personally, girls with curves get my motor revved up better. Some folks have that reaction with spinners, body builders, whatever.
Personality, interpersonal chemistry and skills are way more important then some body proportion graph.
What some describe as a BBW is to me morelike voluptuous. Pear, apple or squash. Take your pick.

[moman]

Instead of saying not bbw, I would say full figured.
P.S. I like all sizes of women.