Have you ever said no that’s too big?

[El_Patron03]

first I’m not talking about me cause I don’t think that any woman would look at mine and say “Hell no!” but I was watching some porn the other day and I saw a clip of some dude with a dick the size of a small baseball bat, which is still at least 24-30 inches long, and girls were into it. Not sure if it’s all for show or that’s really a desire.

[LadyAnastasia]

Biggest ive encountered was around 12 inches and there was no issue bc he was careful. I questioned it thoroughly before session but we made it work just fine.

Just don't go folding chicks into a ball with a big weapon and expect it to turn out well.

[alaine]

I absolutely have...but not in the hobby. A lot of the bigger ones don't seem to get enough blood supply to stay super hard. Nothing worse than trying to fold a huge one up and push it in...putting a cover on it is next to impossible. 13" inches is the biggest I've ever seen length wise, girth wise one as big as my forearm. No Thanks. FWIW, Longest was AA, largest girth was White dude and he was at least 10inches long.

[GingerKatt]

Originally Posted by Texas32

first I’m not talking about me cause I don’t think that any woman would look at mine and say “Hell no!” but I was watching some porn the other day and I saw a clip of some dude with a dick the size of a small baseball bat, which is still at least 24-30 inches long, and girls were into it. Not sure if it’s all for show or that’s really a desire.

YES. I've had two or three that were just too big and I said no, right off the bat. NO baseball bats for me!

But I had one guy in the hobby who still mystifies me. Visually, he certainly looked too big, and I wanted to say no. But each time I saw him, he would take his time, (unlike a lot of men), and he'd do everything he could to make me feel comfortable and safe with him. He'd slowly stroke me, then oh so gently start, and before I knew it, that big thing was parked all the way up to the bumper. Every time I saw him I said, well I don't know what happened last time, but that is NOT going to fit. But to my surprise, it did! And no pain, always a big plus.

When a man is that large, if he doesn't know what he is doing very well, and doesn't know how to relax and loosen a woman up, he's going to get turned down a lot. By me at least!

And OP...you were watching porn. Right? And you're not sure if it's real or the girls are just acting turned on?! Ok then. The strippers at the club really like you too.

[LuvHerMadlyEverytime]

I was under the impression women like them and want them bigger (along with our wallets). Some of Y'all laugh at men when it's too small and snicker and giggle among themselfes talking and gossiping about some poor guy because his banana is too small. ERGO the saying SIZE MATTER

[GingerKatt]

Originally Posted by LuvHerMadlyEverytime

I was under the impression women like them and want them bigger (along with our wallets). Some of Y'all laugh at men when it's too small and snicker and giggle among themselfes talking and gossiping about some poor guy because his banana is too small. ERGO the saying SIZE MATTER

Oh NO! Not at all. First of all, women are all different in their preferences. I had a roommate once who could not get enough huge, gigantic men in her bed!

While I have NEVER wanted an over achieving peen in mine. And I don't really mind small at all. Rather have small over too big. And most women (that I know at least), aren't the type to belittle a man about his private parts. Unless maybe they're in the middle of a bad break up that is!

When I was active in the hobby, I took what came attached to my visitors. The only exception being the few I deemed too large.

In the RW, I think women love the MAN, not the package. If you happen to know you're below average in the size department and your woman may want more; then get VERY good at DATY! It just takes practice and communication. Make yourself indispensable.

[LuciaConte]

Never say never!!!! lol

[LargeBreastFan]

Yes.

But it is usually about my stomach.

[SchnellerFahrer]

Originally Posted by GingerKatt

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And most women (that I know at least), aren't the type to belittle a man about his private parts. Unless maybe they're in the middle of a bad break up that is!

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In the RW, I think women love the MAN, not the package. If you happen to know you're below average in the size department and your woman may want more; then get VERY good at DATY! It just takes practice and communication. Make yourself indispensable.

Bless you, Ginger! Bless you for this post! On your relevant points I BOLDED above...…

Belittling - I have a story on that, it DOES and DID happen, and it's impossibly humiliating to hear it. I'm not going to post this story openly, but anyone who wants to hear the story feel free to PM me.

RW example: I used to work with a lady whom we became close friends. She was married, but entertained me of events in her single years. She and her girlfriends were NOT complimentary of guys with smaller units, and they openly made fun of them and laughed/ridiculed the poor bastards when things got spicy. Hurtful to hear that, but - they were younger and more immature at those times. She was an self-admitted golddigger, but she married a guy who was very studly, girth, etc.

DATY - I will say that I just love it irregardless of size or otherwise, and tremendously enjoy (trying) to please the lady I am with. Hopefully those I've been with would agree it's a good thing. I'm not sure it's a substitute for a larger unit, but this is a good thing to do, me thinks.

[DallasRain]

Lol. Yes yes yes...I prefer fat ones over massively huge ones!
I am pretty good at taking a co%&k to
Way in the back of my throat..but if its too big to do that then it aint goin in miss kitty...lol

[El_Patron03]

And OP...you were watching porn. Right? And you're not sure if it's real or the girls are just acting turned on?! Ok then. The strippers at the club really like you too.[/QUOTE]


They weren’t having sex he was just showing it but a couple girls really seemed interested.

[bandit007]

I don’t consider myself much bigger than average. But I have been told no several times usually by Asians but some regular providers. One provider not on eccie but RR keeps making excuses and finally admitted she was sore the next day. It does suck to be told no especially since I don t feel that I am “that” big.

[LuvHerMadlyEverytime]

I am still waiting for a lady to tell me I am so big, the biggest one she ever had. How come women can get their boobs enlarged and they don't have the same surgery for men's bananas. Sexual discrimination! TO 007: I had many Asian girls. To most of them, anything longer than 3 inches and wider than 1 inch is too big.

[Laura Lynn]

Originally Posted by LuvHerMadlyEverytime

I was under the impression women like them and want them bigger (along with our wallets). Some of Y'all laugh at men when it's too small and snicker and giggle among themselfes talking and gossiping about some poor guy because his banana is too small. ERGO the saying SIZE MATTER

Porn makes you think all ladies want big, that we want to be put in uncomfortable positions and then pounded hard. I had a friend pretty much stand me on my head. Why the fuck would he think I enjoyed feeling like my neck is going to break or enjoy all the blood rushing to my head? The ladies in porn are actresses and some, if not most, self medicate to cope with what they are doing. The more radical the scene, the more $ they make.

I'm quite happy with a rock hard 6-7" with average thickness. Too long hurts, too thick hurts and yes, I've told a gent it's not happening.

I have never laughed at a gent if he's got a smallish penis. Again, I think that's a phobia that the movies reinforce.

[LuvHerMadlyEverytime]

Porn also makes us men think all of us men want all women to be tall skinny with 2 big floatation devices as boobs and they can all suk on a bananas like a Roomba