Deposits

[Grey63]

I’ve been communicating with Ciera who is visiting Birmingham from Nashville.
https://tryst.link/escort/615cieraellis

Verification through P411, and she has several reviews on Private Delights.
https://privatedelights.ch/profile/cieraellis615

She’s hot and seems real but wants a $150 deposit. Everything I’ve seen says that we should never send money before meeting. Is she an exception? Any advice from the ladies?

Thanks!

[Guest070721]

A deposit asked for by a reputable lady is solid. It shows that a guy is willing to solidify an actual investment to not ncns or last minute cancel on her and she puts that toward hotel cost and travel.
Guys that holler about deposits need to hush.
Not all women are scams

[Grey63]

Thank you Kynsley!

[gimme_that]

Ask the lady for specific naked pictures first of specifics poses for your safety. Most wouldn’t mind anyway as they are quite open. Make sure not to pay before and pay her after she sends the pictures. See how she responds to that.....

If she finds instant issue with that. She can understand why you wouldn’t want to pay a deposit with equal apprehension.

The ladies that I pay deposits too really don’t ask or demand it unless traveling. You know the ones that’s worth the risk cause they have rep. The ones that don’t well we know the result.

You lose all bargaining chips when the money is gone. She now has no motivation to perform. She already has it. Insert excuse to not have to show up or do anything.

And deposits for a lady thats located in the same city your seeing her in is crazy too. Nope and nope.

Guys won’t post how they really feel on this. Because it’s about perception I bet. But nope and nope.

[holmes50]

+1 on the last 3 paragraphs.

Multi hour appointment absolutely no problem provided she has a good reputation and presence on one of the boards.

One hour I don’t care who you are, uh no.

[Guest070721]

If it’s a local, I can understand not wanting to do a deposit, but keep in mind that women who do not use their personal dwelling, use hotels
Some women may be high volume, while others are low volume
Y’all will do what you want but understand that most deposits come out of the overall donation amount and y’all pay the remaining balance
It basically ensures that a last minute cancellation or no call happens
Too much of the negative happens for us now
So we prefer to go for reassurance instead of a maybe
I don’t blow my money on a maybe and the fact that I am low volume

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by Kynsley Morgan

I don’t blow my money on a maybe and the fact that I am low volume

With that said about those mights and maybes......

If said client asked you for very specific naked picture poses first in order for him to send said deposit of trust. Would you willingly send those first and get payment only after those were complete. Or would you find objection to that.

I’m sure most providers would say the later. And if so I have to ask why ask for it anyways.

“I’m a low volume client (what ever that means) and I don’t like being perceived as a man less than my word.” So why entertain someone who has doubts about your professional demeanor and as a man from the gate. Theres counseling available for trust issues. We work hard to place ourselves in a fiscal market that caters to us paying for the luxury of companionship. I see deposits as a show of no confidence in a ladies own screening abilities and judgement in general. Not all want to be privy to being doubted because we are in position where people depend on us already.

I’ll tell ya one thing about deposits. Ladies will take them quick but when it’s time to pay back because of stuff they couldn’t fulfill they aren’t as prompt returning it. Always some type of problem with their bank, card, family excuse, etc.......

[gimme_that]

I’m also more of a fan of the picture trade deposit because usually based on the angles of pictures I ask for if there something I don’t like visually in the pictures.......

Paying her her deposit saved me from booking a whole overnights or two day session and not being pleased. Onlyfans and similar has steered me in the opposite direction from some ladies who showed it all. And some of their performances shown on the apps were less than stellar and basic. A mere subscription to find out quick what a session really is like with her. I don’t mind doing.

Although some ladies only fans kinda make it apparent what makes them great. Both visually and action wise. Others certainly aren’t helping besides seeing them fully naked beforehand. Where is the trust? Lol.

[Mammiejammer]

For me it's a no not ever under any circumstances. I don't care about their reputation I don't care how pretty they are or how great their service is supposed to be. It's just a bad idea. MJ

[Grey63]

Originally Posted by Grey63

I’ve been communicating with Ciera who is visiting Birmingham from Nashville.
https://tryst.link/escort/615cieraellis

Verification through P411, and she has several reviews on Private Delights.
https://privatedelights.ch/profile/cieraellis615

She’s hot and seems real but wants a $150 deposit. Everything I’ve seen says that we should never send money before meeting. Is she an exception? Any advice from the ladies?

Thanks!

I appreciate all the feedback. Since she's reputable (reviews, P411) and was taking the risk of traveling to Birmingham for the first time, I paid the deposit. We met yesterday (review coming).

[Bigfatrat]

Hell no. Unless I’ve seen her a few times and there is trust. Even then your stupid to fall for that crap.

The moment they have your cash, they have no motivation to see you.
Keep it simple stupid.

Now if a guy is begging a chick to come to his location, then yes.

Now donations on Skip the Games is a scam. Probably some fat ass dude with a computer full of hot chick pics. So lame.

I guess I’m saying, it depends on what a deposit is.,

If some chick has already spent the investment on aSTH ad and posting she has an incall, Fuck NO! It’s a scam..

If it’s a woman you have seen several times and she needs gas money to get from HSV to BHM, then maybe. Meet her in the motel parking lot and help fund the room. Maybe.
A good cash n dash has happened to all of us with long term chicks.

I can’t say how many times I’ve seen guys bitch about some bitch getting up from money and pull a no show.
Just don’t do it. It hurts all of us. This should never have become a thing.