I'm quitting the hobby for good.

[kusmaldo]

The financial aspect is also a reason to quit,it can get addictive and expensive like (Staff edit)

[kusmaldo]

You've been to New Caledonia?

[kusmaldo]

Originally Posted by Garfunkel

Why do you think the SBs aren’t in the same situation. Some of the providers I know personally started with the sugar sites and then switched to escorting to break the situation you are describing with the abusive boyfriends. I think you’re still in the same sandbox.

I'm not paying a SB for sex the first time we meet up, I'm paying her to be my girlfriend

[kusmaldo]

Originally Posted by malwoody

Once a SB takes coin for the deed, she is no longer a SB

You think so?

[Garfunkel]

Originally Posted by kusmaldo

Sugaring can be just as pricey, but there is no human trafficking or anything to worry about

I think you are deluding yourself. Maybe you want to believe that.

[Garfunkel]

I only see a few pros these days. I have found it easier to troll for women with daddy issues in the kink community. It’s a little more work but it’s a lot less costly.

[kusmaldo]

Originally Posted by Garfunkel

I think you are deluding yourself. Maybe you want to believe that.

Have you seen Sugar Daddy lifestyles? The gifts are like a gameshow

[kusmaldo]

Originally Posted by Garfunkel

I only see a few pros these days. I have found it easier to troll for women with daddy issues in the kink community. It’s a little more work but it’s a lot less costly.

You're bank account thanks you 😂 😂 You could spend upwards of $30,000 if you full time hobby.

[Kshunter]

Originally Posted by kusmaldo

Sugaring can be just as pricey, but there is no human trafficking or anything to worry about

I have personal experience that says otherwise.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Originally Posted by kusmaldo

I've made the decision to leave "the hobby".I have not hobbied since 2023 and I kind of no longer feel like it fits me in terms of lifestyle. I have met many interesting people while hobbying, but no matter how you feel about it being legalized or not there are some dark seedy negative aspects which have bolstered my decision to leave.A top reason is that a good number of providers I have met did not want to start "providing" on their own free will, a lot were coerced,forced or tricked into it by their boyfriends in order to support them or escape a desperate financial situation.One provider who I got close to cried in my arms that she was forced into it by an abusive boyfriend who gave her a black eye,I'm not saying all providers are in this situation but many I met were.Another reason is scams, in the age of deposits it opens up a way for providers who are dishonest crooks to steal, or lying about an emergency to get money because they are slow and not getting calls. One more reason is that I don't want to get caught in a Vice prostitution sting, the worst part is that you're ousted as being a "John" and your face and name are published for all to see. Last but not least many clients are married men 😕 I look at my own married future and wonder would I see a provider knowing I was hitched? Too all those still hobbying stay safe and uhhhhh wear protection.

Is this a younger age group with the boyfriend/ manager issue ?

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by kusmaldo

You think so?

According to Webster:
Prostitute.
"a person who engages in sex acts and especially sexual intercourse in exchange for pay."

SB is just another acronym, Believe what you want but it seems evident to me.

[BigDeal]

Malwoody breakin out the encyclopedia...love it!!

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by malwoody

Once a SB takes coin for the deed, she is no longer a SB

Originally Posted by kusmaldo

You think so?

Of course.

But then why is giving a gal a gold ring not the same?
Various NIMBY laws that were not that well thought out have had to be rewritten due to using the phrase "anything of value" or similar.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

Is this a younger age group with the boyfriend/ manager issue ?

Yes it exists in the SB world.
Or rather, in the SB ad world.
And not always a younger age group.

[Garfunkel]

A rose is still a rose. It doesn’t matter what name you call it.