Regarding post #26, I had not realized that Ashley Madison still existed, after some scandal involving something like member’s private information being hacked. It looks like a money pit, however.
Swinger sites might provide good leads. Patience is required, however, for single men, because men can be very picky about who has BBBJ and BBFS contact with their partners. I have now forgotten the site, but I was contacted by a woman, who was self-described as a dominant BBW, with a husband who wanted to hide and watch. That was not my cup of tea.
Some contacts can be right out of the blue. I have been in contact with the male of a couple, who PM’ed me through a site that is not known to be a swinger’s hang-out, but more of a travel board. My write-ups about experiences at nude beaches, with former GFs, led him to believe I could help them live-out their fantasies. Of course, it is entirely possible that he simply likes to read my writing, and that nothing physical may come of it, but he has sent me enough “evidence,” that I could play detective, and stake-out a location, to verify whether it is total fiction. (He sent me video files, with location data intact.)
I am certainly not a fountain of knowledge, on this, but a former classmate and his uncle ran a swinger’s publication, in the pre-internet days, and a wild-child GF, from the Nineties, with. Very healthy libido, seemed to know an awful lot about swinger culture. In hindsight, I sensed that I was being “groomed” into entering the swinger culture, with her. She was one of the above-mentioned former GFs who liked going to nude beaches, and one time, the way she was going at a furious BBBJ, and shaking her ass, she might well have been trying to lure others, to at least watch more closely, or maybe even get a blow-bang going.
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