P411 and Emails

[haya1300]

Maybe its just me, but I'm amazed at how many ladies will take DAYS to reply to an inquiry about meeting up either from P411 or an Email. Many don't log in frequently, so do you not get notifications you have mail/msg there?

Many times, we (guys) like to schedule 24/48 hours in advance, but if you don't check msgs or reply to emails a week later, that window is gone..... What's the point of having both if you don't check them?

Just a question for the ladies, and observation.

Cheers

[BulldogCountry]

True. When a many guys send a message, that usually means he's READY, and wants to explode as soon as possible. XD

I've had women get mad at me or block me because I sent them a text, but they didn't get with me until several hours (or even days) later. They get mad when I tell them they took too long to respond so I made other plans.

If I message a lady, and I don't hear from her within two to three hours, I usually make other plans. I usually only have a small window of time per week to plan encounters. These ladies are on call 24/7 (for the most part if they have enough notice). XD

[Dedra]

I can't speak for everyone but I am only a part time provider. I try to check my messages as soon as I get the notification however if I am out of the country or in bad area I do not try to open certain sites. I only have a place to host about 2 nights a month so last minute is hard for me unless it is Outcall. I try to be courteous and respond quickly. I never have my hobby phone on unless I have an actual appointment.

[BulldogCountry]

Originally Posted by Dedra

I never have my hobby phone on unless I have an actual appointment.

But, how can you make or even check for appointments without your hobby phone or if you don't check your hobby phone at least periodically? Genuine question, I'm not trying to be a smartass.

For that logic to work, the guy would have to make their appointment weeks or months in advance just to ensure the provider sees their request in time.... which we usually don't do unless the provider we're craving to see has a tour schedule that far in advance.

[haya1300]

BullDog brings up a good point.

Another one is when I receive a msg on my P411 acct, I also receive an email stating I have a msg there.... so I'm made aware of the msg without logging into my P411 acct. We can also see if the msg has been read or not.

This is more of a head scratching moment... we reach out to a lady to inquire about setting up a possible meeting, and we get crickets. I'm in NO WAY thinking this is hobby is ALL a lady has going on in life, etc.... but communication both ways is so important so no ones time is wasted.

I for one travel often for work, and my schedule can change quickly. I will let a lady know of this as I can't commit too far out from an appt, and let her know if she gets another call for the same evening/time, I understand. I roll the dice if a lady is available, but I'd rather do that than schedule with her and have to cancel due to a last min change in my work schedule... Hence, Communication.

[BulldogCountry]

Exactly. I barely know what I'm doing over the next couple of days, and I definitely don't make plans weeks/months ahead of time unless it's an out-of-town trip that requires me to buy tickets for an event and/or to book a hotel.