Dancers Talk

[rcusa]

Most here know this well, but it's worth the occasional reminder that dancers talk to each other, gossip-style. Sometimes, they talk about patrons to torpedo them, perhaps poisoning the well so they can have the only shot at that patron's funds. Other times, the talk is just misconception, spread like wildfire.
An example comes from Flash Dancer in Ft Worth. I had mentioned many moons ago that I had visited that club and been told by every dancer who asked me for a dance that all dances were "ONLY dance." This had seemed an odd mantra, especially since many reports on this site claimed extras were routine at that club. I surmised that the dancers must have made an assumption about me that involved LE. Well, I ventured back to that club in the meantime, and am now certain that was the way it happened. I had approached a tiny dancer on-stage to tip her. She invited me to dance in the VIP area. I accepted. She came and sat with me at my table, and she indicated rather bluntly that she was DTF. Then she looked past my shoulder toward the bar, and excused herself to go talk to another dancer there. She did not return to my table. Next time she was onstage, I tipped her again. She told me she had been teasing earlier, and of course did "only dance" in the VIP area. On a subsequent visit to that club, I saw her again and she asked me what I did for work. I told her what I did, and I also said she thought I did something else. Yes, she confirmed, she had been told I was LE, and that's why she didn't return to my table and why she changed her story.
That day's visit with her gets kinda funny, so I'll continue the tale: She was well convinced by this point that I was in fact NOT LE, so we did go to VIP. She indicated an interest in doing everything, but said she was about to get called on stage, so we should come back to the VIP after her next circuit to get busy. After her rounds on stage, she sat with me at my table, and was more friendly than ever. She told me she wanted to get married, and for me to put a beautiful ring on her left hand. This was peculiar, given our lack of time together, but she was certainly eager to finish what we started, so back we went... But, when we returned to the VIP area, she once again changed her mind. Knowing that this whiplash-style variance in her disposition was puzzling to me, she said she had just gotten her period. I left without getting a dance, and quite confused by her many moods.

[Financeman22]

Gee at my age if anything the dancers think I’m loaded & almost dead! Lol

[shauk1960]

lol that reminds me of a funny story. I once told a dancer I'm looking for someone to inherit and she fucked my brains out in the VIP. I took her digits and never saw her again. She wasn't special. Btw how many times did you end up keep going to VIP without getting a dance? I thought Flash had a upcharge to get into VIP as well

[rcusa]

Early afternoon there's no fee for VIP (at least some days).

[phmzee]

The games they play! Crazy times

[Wile E Coyote]

Yes, dancers talk and usually it is about negative scenarios (might be associated with LE, kept her at his table for a long time and did not tip or ask for a dance, ect.), as guys who have money they want to keep to themselves. So they look out for each other the best they can to save other dancers from getting taken and wasting time, but not so much for making money off of their regulars.

Guys also talk to dancers about other guys as well. Many years ago, I know a guy who basically outed himself at a strip club by logging on to his account and showing the dancers who he was and then talked shit about other patrons, namely me. He actually outed me telling strippers who I was on Eccie, however, little did he know, many of the dancers classified me as a good customer, so they told me who he was and what he was doing.

[phmzee]

I am to old for games and Shit from both sides of the fence. I had a stripper say to me" When you come into the club you will only see me right? My response "that will only happen if you stop seeing other guys and only see me when I come in" She could not respond to that answer LOL!

[clubguy254]

You can probably replace the word dancers with the word women

[Unique_Carpenter]

Ok,
All valid comments.

The only comment not yet made is:
Gals will sell or trade or get commissions on guys contact info like Pokémon cards.

[Jakestark1975]

Originally Posted by rcusa

Most here know this well, but it's worth the occasional reminder that dancers talk to each other, gossip-style. Sometimes, they talk about patrons to torpedo them, perhaps poisoning the well so they can have the only shot at that patron's funds. Other times, the talk is just misconception, spread like wildfire.
An example comes from Flash Dancer in Ft Worth. I had mentioned many moons ago that I had visited that club and been told by every dancer who asked me for a dance that all dances were "ONLY dance." This had seemed an odd mantra, especially since many reports on this site claimed extras were routine at that club. I surmised that the dancers must have made an assumption about me that involved LE. Well, I ventured back to that club in the meantime, and am now certain that was the way it happened. I had approached a tiny dancer on-stage to tip her. She invited me to dance in the VIP area. I accepted. She came and sat with me at my table, and she indicated rather bluntly that she was DTF. Then she looked past my shoulder toward the bar, and excused herself to go talk to another dancer there. She did not return to my table. Next time she was onstage, I tipped her again. She told me she had been teasing earlier, and of course did "only dance" in the VIP area. On a subsequent visit to that club, I saw her again and she asked me what I did for work. I told her what I did, and I also said she thought I did something else. Yes, she confirmed, she had been told I was LE, and that's why she didn't return to my table and why she changed her story.
That day's visit with her gets kinda funny, so I'll continue the tale: She was well convinced by this point that I was in fact NOT LE, so we did go to VIP. She indicated an interest in doing everything, but said she was about to get called on stage, so we should come back to the VIP after her next circuit to get busy. After her rounds on stage, she sat with me at my table, and was more friendly than ever. She told me she wanted to get married, and for me to put a beautiful ring on her left hand. This was peculiar, given our lack of time together, but she was certainly eager to finish what we started, so back we went... But, when we returned to the VIP area, she once again changed her mind. Knowing that this whiplash-style variance in her disposition was puzzling to me, she said she had just gotten her period. I left without getting a dance, and quite confused by her many moods.

Is that why you left bucks FW on the same day in AUGUST. USa is a great nation for seeing women but I did run into a couple of MURRAY eels before.

[rcusa]

Originally Posted by Jakestark1975

Is that why you left bucks FW on the same day in AUGUST. USa is a great nation for seeing women but I did run into a couple of MURRAY eels before.

No, Sir Charles.
I had a purpose there that day, and once I accomplished it, I departed. Thank you for your interest.