What happened to the hobby?

[Ultimate Jessica]

Originally Posted by Joddxxx

I’ve seen a decline of quality over the past years. I’m looking for mature women that like to have playtime, but now I’m hearing, “I don’t like L2, because it hurts my jaw” and “can you hurry up and climax I don’t have all day”.

I too unfortunately have seen the decline in the hobby community, but know Quality is still out there believe me I have come across a few wonderful ladies. The gentleman just need to do a little more research. Us well established ladies who still love the hobby also don’t mind referring you to other well established ladies that we know will treat you just as good as we would. Just because her Rate is ridiculously high, doesn’t mean that she is quality either. She is just banking on her looks for that is what a lot of hobbiest go for instead of the OVERALL EXPERIENCE from day 1.
Just my opinion of course.

[jan-w]

Jerking off is better. Saves a lot of money...saves a lot of time...and I can be certain of being satisfied.

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by Ultimate Jessica

I too unfortunately have seen the decline in the hobby community, but know Quality is still out there believe me I have come across a few wonderful ladies. The gentleman just need to do a little more research. Us well established ladies who still love the hobby also don’t mind referring you to other well established ladies that we know will treat you just as good as we would. Just because her Rate is ridiculously high, doesn’t mean that she is quality either. She is just banking on her looks for that is what a lot of hobbiest go for instead of the OVERALL EXPERIENCE from day 1.
Just my opinion of course.

This is true, but those ladies get fewer and farther between every day with the number of GPS and other issues providers joining the community. Then, given the fact that the ones who have been around that have the qualities you desire in price and service get told that their donations are too low and their service is too much by other providers and even hobbyists will also peel those ladies from the value of seeing her.

However, the subject here in this thread is what happened to the hobby. One thing I did not mention in my previous posts in this thread that is very important is, there are both providers and hobbyists (or at members of the boards, I do not know if they are real or active in the community under those umbrellas), who seek out others to constantly insult and play fake power trips as if they had any control over who a client or provider sees for sessions. That is definitely not good for the community and is bad for the hobby.

So just know that if you do not have regulars you see and/or just starting out in the business, it will be tough to get to where you want to be with all the deceitfulness and shenanigans.

[onlyAMPs4menow]

Cheap ass low rent men flooded the market bringing cheap ass low rent women into hooking.

It's that simple.

[victoryformation]

Originally Posted by purplepatch

Heavily depends on location. They recently made it a felony in Texas. The golden age for us was about 20 years ago.

You are correct!
A lot does depend on location.
NNJ is the sweet spot for hot K-Girls ... eager to please!
These K-Girls take great pride in offering their clients "white-glove GFE"!
They luv their regulars!
They pride themselves on having fully-booked schedules of HNW gents!
(My ATF had it all workin'! She's was bankin' a 1/4 mil a year!)
LA, SF and Seattle gotta be K-Girl hotspots, too!
(My K-Girl ATF made me a spoiled MFer!)

[Big b.o.b.1]

Originally Posted by jan-w

Jerking off is better. Saves a lot of money...saves a lot of time...and I can be certain of being satisfied.

Did it twice this morning, saved $800, lol lol

[countrygirl0401]

I agree with ultimate Jessica on the fact hobbyists tend to go off looks. In my opinion I've said it before and I will say it again..i am a bbw and alot of hobbyists prefer spinners so they miss out on what could be potentially what they are looking for. Looks are not everything and in today's society thats what people look for so I suggest stop judging us by only our outside appearance because you might just discover a true gem.

[James469]

Hobby sucks now. Watching porn is actually a better experience. At least i end up satisfied.

[Anonymous01]

I save up and visit a country where the hobby is legal. Surprise, surprise, where there's real competition (not supported by laws the criminalize the hobby and cartels that control a high percentage of the ladies), quality can be found at an very attractive currency exchange rate.

[countrygirl0401]

Some of us ladies like myself are independent and just trying to make it and have fun while doing so.

[jp26lilac]

1. Price went up.
2. Legal trouble
3. I guess this only applies to me, it seems like screening got a lot more tougher
4. Due to above reason it is pretty difficult to have a short notice appt where I do not plan this thing weeks or even couple of days head

[alanbourdilliontreherne]

Oh my don't get me started. I was here during the beginning of the TSML and then various other iterations through the years. Things have changed so much it just hard to keep it all straight. Been out of the hobby for 15+ years but now a widower looking to get back in... But ladies come and go, hobbyists come and go.. and things may change but as long as men are men and there are ladies to fulfill desires, the profession will always exist. I do miss the days of chat hookups.. those were fun!!!

[alanbourdilliontreherne]

... as a followup;
It's 12:45 on a Friday evening and the place is dead. I remember when now was prime time for messaging and chats. Yes, things have changed.

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by countrygirl0401

I agree with ultimate Jessica on the fact hobbyists tend to go off looks. In my opinion I've said it before and I will say it again..i am a bbw and alot of hobbyists prefer spinners so they miss out on what could be potentially what they are looking for. Looks are not everything and in today's society thats what people look for so I suggest stop judging us by only our outside appearance because you might just discover a true gem.

Guys do like what they like and after all, it is their money and they have the right to spend it on whom they deem fit.

IMO, I would rather have a pretty lady who has excellent service then one who has magazine model looks who makes me feel like she is doing me a favor by taking my money and lays there like a corpse. Service will get my attention faster and always trumps runway model looks in my book. Trust me, there is not a provider today that is a 10 in the looks department, and that is fine by me.

Originally Posted by alanbourdilliontreherne

... as a followup;
It's 12:45 on a Friday evening and the place is dead. I remember when now was prime time for messaging and chats. Yes, things have changed.

This board has been dead for years since they took the ad and WW forums away. Most of the providers left for OH2, just use P411 only and other advertising avenues leaving Eccie mainly a sausage fest with very little legit provider input and most conversations turning into taking jabs at posters and other drama related events. When you see the vast majority of the members of a site are just lurkers, there is something wrong. I think the intentions were good when they originally opened this site, but the fall off from that to what it has become is huge.

Pretty sure there are lots of other theories of why that is, but safe to say, those just starting out or coming back to the hobby and do not have go to regulars or regulars that go to you are going to suffer. Best bet is to quietly or not, build a good rep instead of taking the one they try to give you, then shove it in the face of your haters/negative Nancys and doubters.

[ManSlut]

Originally Posted by countrygirl0401

I've been away from the hobby for awhile but I dont remember it ever being like this. What's up with all the ncns,time wasters,and people playing games and I'm talking about both sides of the hobby not just the guys. I wish my regulars from back in the day were still around at least they were dependable.....

I will put this thread back on track for the OP off what her complaints are (away from the dude who’s made 5 or 6 long, redundant posts of his typical personal, ‘make it about me and why I’m hated’ drivel)- TIME WASTERS!

countrygirl0401 the poster who stated the Golden Age of Hobbying ended about 20 years ago is pretty accurate and basically times have changed, it’s a younger generation’s game now, and with that comes less maturity, less accountability, less values, way more hustle, and it’s not that the things we complain about now didn’t exist ‘back then’, it just seemed to be on a much smaller scale or we just didn’t talk about it as much…I hope this addresses your complaint?

Personal sidenote: For great, exceptional GFE sessions I will personally recommend Ultimate Jessica or Lita/Italiana Princess. They need to be in the MILF Escort Hall of Fame!