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Old 11-13-2025, 01:55 PM   #46
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I guess some people value their safety and time more than others
I value my time, safety AND my money. Don't pretend like there aren't risks involved on our side either. We have no clue who you are and 1 random review isn't going to change that.

If you really need that much to feel secure in this line of work, you might be in the wrong line of work. Just sayin
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Old 11-13-2025, 01:57 PM   #47
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Honestly, looks good, but deposit and license pic mean I won’t be calling her. I won’t send a deposit to someone I don’t know, and, if I know them, they don’t require a deposit. As for the IRL id stuff….if they want mine, they will need to give me theirs.
A screening and vetting protocol is evidence of next-level professionalism and genuine concern for safety!
It shows that the provider is savvy.... and has street smarts!
(The last thing a provider wants ... is a dangerous, unscreened miscreant (like Ted Bundy) ... stepping into her room!)
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Old 11-13-2025, 02:28 PM   #48
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Oh no!!!!!!!!
What am I going to do—ugh!
Prolly the same thing you've been doing

threADing and hustling male lesbians
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Old 11-13-2025, 02:45 PM   #49
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A screening and vetting protocol is evidence of next-level professionalism and genuine concern for safety!
It shows that the provider is savvy.... and has street smarts!
(The last thing a provider wants ... is a dangerous, unscreened miscreant (like Ted Bundy) ... stepping into her room!)
There are many other ways to vet potential clients without asking for RL info or deposits. It doesn't show savvy, it shows ignorance
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Old 11-13-2025, 03:06 PM   #50
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There are many other ways to vet potential clients without asking for RL info or deposits. It doesn't show savvy, it shows ignorance
Incorrect!
Allowing an unscreened Ted Bundy to step into your room... "shows ignorance"!
(And, a woeful lack of street smarts!)
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Old 11-13-2025, 04:21 PM   #51
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Incorrect!
Allowing an unscreened Ted Bundy to step into your room... "shows ignorance"!
(And, a woeful lack of street smarts!)
This f’ing guy. I tell ya, you sound like a bad infomercial on loop that just keeps on giving…rhetorical bs.

Rhetorical (adjective) of, relating to, or concerned with the art of speaking or writing formally and effectively especially as a way to persuade or influence people.” (In case you need the definition)

In other words, you’re walking the fine line of “promoting” which is not allowed on here. You’ve been a major part of the reasons that her previous threADs have been closed. As I stated in another thread, you’re not doing her any favors. Continue at your own peril, but don’t be surprised if you’re awarded a vacation to Band Camp. Our good Dr. has already posted a warning in another closed thread, and he’s not one to give a 2nd warning.

Regarding her screening process. You sir are the one that is incorrect. The mass majority of quality well reviewed providers do not require a deposit, nor do they require real life info (ie. Pic of your DL). As has been stated, by myself in one of your previous threADs as well as here, requiring 1 or 2 references from well reviewed quality providers is the norm for screening, and has been for many years.

As far as a deposit? If she continues getting awesome reviews, some fellas will open up and consider taking the risk and pay it. Problem with deposits is that many fellas, as well as myself (as much as I hate to admit it, albeit it was many years ago) have been burned and have vowed to never pay a deposit ever again, so this alone will reduce her potential clients because some JUST WON’T PAY A DEPOSIT. Maybe she’s not concerned about that, and that’s up to her to run her business model as she sees fit.

Regarding real life info (the pic of your DL): That’s going to be a no go/full stop for an even larger amount of mongers than her deposit request. This hobby is about discretion and that discretion pertains to both parties for both our safety, hers and ours. Again, she has a right to run her business model as she sees fit, but as a monger, giving up real life info is ignorance on our part. Highly doubtful she’s willing to give up her real life info. That would be ignorance on her part.

But, being the savvy street-smart monger with boots on the ground that you are, you should already know this. Yes?

Lila, this post is not personal, so don’t take it that way. It’s primarily a response to Mr. Savvy Street-Smart Monger that has zero reviews and in reality has no street cred except in his own mind. I wish you the best and have success, but I will say this. As long as you’re requiring real world info, I’ll be one of the many that won’t be reaching out to you because that is a complete no go for me.

Rant over!!



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Old 11-13-2025, 04:28 PM   #52
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This f’ing guy. I tell ya, you sound like a bad infomercial on loop that just keeps on giving…rhetorical bs.

but I will say this. As long as you’re requiring real world info, I’ll be one of the many that won’t be reaching out to you because that is a complete no go for me.
Is she going to be touring Texas any time soon?


and both yous posters BOTH have the same amount of reviews

in Upset NY , its a very low number, like the lowest numeral

and you have him beat posting in Upset by like 2 years
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Old 11-13-2025, 04:50 PM   #53
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Is she going to be touring Texas any time soon?


and both yous posters BOTH have the same amount of reviews

in Upset NY , its a very low number, like the lowest numeral

and you have him beat posting in Upset by like 2 years
Sir Valued Poster, you’re off topic and hijacking this threAD. You should know better.

But, since you’ve decided to attack me personally off topic…again, lemme tell ya something. I have been back to the area, haven’t written a review for a provider in Upstate, but have hooked up other respected mongers with sugar babies in both Upstate & Albany/Hudson Valley. But since you haven’t written a review in what? Over 10 years and don’t have PA, you wouldn’t know anything about that because you don’t have access to our ML and our sugar baby thread.

Not my fault that the housing market has gone to shit and I’m having trouble finding what I’m looking for. But, there’s hope, I’ll be back again in early December to view a house I’ve got my eye on. And I promise I’ll do my best to write a review for Upstate so I can address your issues that you seem to have with me.

Care to get back on topic now??

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Old 11-13-2025, 05:05 PM   #54
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Sir Valued Poster, you’re off topic and hijacking this threAD. You should know better.

even if you were correct I'd never worried about that anyways


But, since you’ve decided to attack me personally off topic…ag

Care to get back on topic now??

nah valid facts and proper observations ,but hey if not I gots room on my tally board
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Old 11-13-2025, 05:07 PM   #55
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Gentlemen it’s time to stop the BS
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Old 11-13-2025, 05:39 PM   #56
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Gentlemen it’s time to stop the BS
Gents, PLEASE do not let this thread be closed!
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Gents, PLEASE do not let this thread be closed!
Amen!
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Old 11-13-2025, 06:55 PM   #58
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This f’ing guy. I tell ya, you sound like a bad infomercial on loop that just keeps on giving…rhetorical bs.

Rhetorical (adjective) of, relating to, or concerned with the art of speaking or writing formally and effectively especially as a way to persuade or influence people.” (In case you need the definition)

In other words, you’re walking the fine line of “promoting” which is not allowed on here. You’ve been a major part of the reasons that her previous threADs have been closed. As I stated in another thread, you’re not doing her any favors. Continue at your own peril, but don’t be surprised if you’re awarded a vacation to Band Camp. Our good Dr. has already posted a warning in another closed thread, and he’s not one to give a 2nd warning.

Regarding her screening process. You sir are the one that is incorrect. The mass majority of quality well reviewed providers do not require a deposit, nor do they require real life info (ie. Pic of your DL). As has been stated, by myself in one of your previous threADs as well as here, requiring 1 or 2 references from well reviewed quality providers is the norm for screening, and has been for many years.

As far as a deposit? If she continues getting awesome reviews, some fellas will open up and consider taking the risk and pay it. Problem with deposits is that many fellas, as well as myself (as much as I hate to admit it, albeit it was many years ago) have been burned and have vowed to never pay a deposit ever again, so this alone will reduce her potential clients because some JUST WON’T PAY A DEPOSIT. Maybe she’s not concerned about that, and that’s up to her to run her business model as she sees fit.

Regarding real life info (the pic of your DL): That’s going to be a no go/full stop for an even larger amount of mongers than her deposit request. This hobby is about discretion and that discretion pertains to both parties for both our safety, hers and ours. Again, she has a right to run her business model as she sees fit, but as a monger, giving up real life info is ignorance on our part. Highly doubtful she’s willing to give up her real life info. That would be ignorance on her part.

But, being the savvy street-smart monger with boots on the ground that you are, you should already know this. Yes?

Lila, this post is not personal, so don’t take it that way. It’s primarily a response to Mr. Savvy Street-Smart Monger that has zero reviews and in reality has no street cred except in his own mind. I wish you the best and have success, but I will say this. As long as you’re requiring real world info, I’ll be one of the many that won’t be reaching out to you because that is a complete no go for me.

Rant over!!



Au Contraire Mon Frere!
"Mr. Savvy, Street-Smart Monger" ... has lived in Amsterdam and has indulged in 100s of Midnight Booty Calls ... feisting on dozens upon dozens of Mint-Condition, Euro Cuties!
"Mr. Savvy. Street-Smart Monger" ... is a keen and astute observer of providing talent!
(I know of what I speak!)
If you ever were to have seen My Bodacious, Bootylicious, DDG, K-Girl ATF (with whom I rendezvoused with 78x) in her birthday suit ... you would , never, question my street cred again!
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[QUOTE=victoryformation;1063931 173]Au Contraire Mon Frere!
"Mr. Savvy, Street-Smart Monger" ... has lived in Amsterdam and has indulged in 100s of Midnight Booty Calls ... feisting on dozens upon dozens of Mint-Condition, Euro Cuties!
"Mr. Savvy. Street-Smart Monger" ... is a keen and astute observer of providing talent!
(I know of what I speak!)
If you ever were to have seen My Bodacious, Bootylicious, DDG, K-Girl ATF (with whom I rendezvoused with 78x) in her birthday suit ... you would , never, question my street cred again![/QUOTE

Yeah this needs to be closed "Mon Frere" LMAO!
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Old 11-13-2025, 07:46 PM   #60
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Allowing an unscreened Ted Bundy to step into your room... "shows ignorance"!
(And, a woeful lack of street smarts!)
Incorrect! Your reading comprehension sucks. At no point did I say she shouldn't screen clients. I just stated that there are other ways to do it without asking for RL info. Thinking there is only one way to screen is idiotic. There's layers to this, and if your head wasn't shoved so far up this ladies ass, you'd be able to see that.
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